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medievalwench -> I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:10:47 PM)

And then feel like an idiot. i am new to talking to others in the lifestyle and i guess i have ended up a bit boxed in in many ways, as i have only Master to talk to about the lifestyle and also He is my only true friend in RL. i wanted to apologise if i have irritated anyone by my posts, though i have a lot of experience with Master my social skills with others may be somewhat lacking,
i'm not looking for sympathy or putting myself down by the way, just have a genuine concern that i may be p-ing people off,
wench



Gauge -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:17:24 PM)

First of all, Welcome to Collarme.

Second of all... who cares if someone gets riled at something you post? Look, asking questions is the only way to learn things that you might otherwise be reluctant to ask. People may say that your question has been asked a thousand times before and you may well want to go read those threads, but it does not make your question any less important just because it has been asked before.



bandit25 -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:22:24 PM)

Nah, your questions aren't any stupider or more stupid than anyone else's.  Like Gauge said, who cares what others think.  But, for your sake, you ought to make a few more friends...maybe a couple of women friends you can do girly stuff with.  Masters aren't good for the girly stuff.



CrazyC -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:25:42 PM)

God is it nice to know i'm not the only one who feels like this right now. i've been starting to think i shouldn't post because when i ever i do the stand suddenly dies.

But to be honest, you haven't done the sort at all. So please don't stop asking or replying. You can only learn when you start asking.

(by the way...this strand is not allowed to die just because i posted.)



BitaTruble -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:25:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: medievalwench

And then feel like an idiot. i am new to talking to others in the lifestyle and i guess i have ended up a bit boxed in in many ways, as i have only Master to talk to about the lifestyle and also He is my only true friend in RL. i wanted to apologise if i have irritated anyone by my posts, though i have a lot of experience with Master my social skills with others may be somewhat lacking,
i'm not looking for sympathy or putting myself down by the way, just have a genuine concern that i may be p-ing people off,
wench



I've read several of your postings and haven't seen any indication of anything that would piss people off. Just be yourself, don't worry about the masses, ask the questions you desire and don't sweat the small stuff. There's isn't a soul here who wasn't new at some point and none of us knew anything when we started out either.

Celeste



Level -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:27:03 PM)

*throws a donut at bandit and smiles*
 
wench, if you don't know something, ask. If the question is asked with a kind heart, and an earnest desire to learn, the hell with everything else.



nikaa -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:27:12 PM)

medievalwench,
 
I have never found your posts anything but sincer.How often have we all sat there and wondered am I the only one going through this, feeling this, or that thinks like this. The reality is we are NEVER the only one. Perhaps the questions you ask, the ones you label idiotic someone else is wondering about as well. The difference is they are to afraid or shy to ask. By you asking you may not only get imput that helps you but you may also answer someone elses question in the process.
 
Also remember the only stupid question is the question never asked.






medievalwench -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:27:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Gauge

First of all, Welcome to Collarme.

Second of all... who cares if someone gets riled at something you post? Look, asking questions is the only way to learn things that you might otherwise be reluctant to ask. People may say that your question has been asked a thousand times before and you may well want to go read those threads, but it does not make your question any less important just because it has been asked before.


Thankyou Sir, this girl appreciates Your response, i do try to search up previous relevant posts before posting but i think sometimes i don't think of the right phrase and so miss someone's identical question.
i have found it very helpful being here so far and i'm glad to have found this place and to have been allowed to post as Master has not been happy with other BDSM sites  so  W/we've been kind of going it alone over the years.
The internet is a great thing <g>
Respectfully,
wench



Level -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:28:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CrazyC

God is it nice to know i'm not the only one who feels like this right now. i've been starting to think i shouldn't post because when i ever i do the stand suddenly dies.

But to be honest, you haven't done the sort at all. So please don't stop asking or replying. You can only learn when you start asking.

(by the way...this strand is not allowed to die just because i posted.)


Oh hell, let me go erase my post.............. [X(]



medievalwench -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:30:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

Nah, your questions aren't any stupider or more stupid than anyone else's.

Thankyou, i'm relieved that you think so :0)


Like Gauge said, who cares what others think.  But, for your sake, you ought to make a few more friends...maybe a couple of women friends you can do girly stuff with.  Masters aren't good for the girly stuff.


i know, i don't get out much as i don't work, and my shyness doesn't help; i have put on my profile that i am seeking friends now that Master is allowing me to accept and send messages so maybe i will find some nice online and local ones eventually. i tend not to message people and wait for them to contact me, maybe i should take a chance, i don't know...



bandit25 -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:31:34 PM)

Now I know how you lost that 21 pounds...throwing the donuts at others instead of eating them yourself!  Clever man.



bandit25 -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:33:28 PM)

Hun, this is the net.  Take the chance...reach out and touch someone.  Ya never know, you may just connect with another sub/slave and have great heart to hearts. 



Level -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:35:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

Now I know how you lost that 21 pounds...throwing the donuts at others instead of eating them yourself!  Clever man.


LOL.......... water and fruit and fiber IN........ donuts, leftover Halloween candy, Sprites OUT.... well, mostly.... [8|]



CrazyC -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:36:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: CrazyC

God is it nice to know i'm not the only one who feels like this right now. i've been starting to think i shouldn't post because when i ever i do the stand suddenly dies.

But to be honest, you haven't done the sort at all. So please don't stop asking or replying. You can only learn when you start asking.

(by the way...this strand is not allowed to die just because i posted.)


Oh hell, let me go erase my post.............. [X(]


no don't...:(. It was funny and made me laugh, and was for wench to make her feel better.



Level -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:36:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

Hun, this is the net.  Take the chance...reach out and touch someone.  Ya never know, you may just connect with another sub/slave and have great heart to hearts. 


Absolutely, there are good people online, just as there are creeps.



Gauge -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:37:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

Hun, this is the net.  Take the chance...reach out and touch someone.  Ya never know, you may just connect with another sub/slave and have great heart to hearts. 


Yes... do reach out and touch someone on the net... however, do not get your fingers stuck in your modem.



Level -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:38:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CrazyC

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: CrazyC

God is it nice to know i'm not the only one who feels like this right now. i've been starting to think i shouldn't post because when i ever i do the stand suddenly dies.

But to be honest, you haven't done the sort at all. So please don't stop asking or replying. You can only learn when you start asking.

(by the way...this strand is not allowed to die just because i posted.)


Oh hell, let me go erase my post.............. [X(]


no don't...:(. It was funny and made me laugh, and was for wench to make her feel better.


I was only teasing [;)].



bandit25 -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:52:29 PM)

Yeah...I guess I should have added that disclaimer. 



bandit25 -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 7:53:43 PM)

*perk*  leftover Halloween candy?



MagiksSlave -> RE: I seem to post stupid questions/useless replies (11/16/2006 9:06:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

*perk*  leftover Halloween candy?


LOL where??

wench hon ((HUGS)we have ALL been there.. Im sorry i dont care what anyone says not a one of us would rather search the thousends of posts here to find the answers we seek when a question has already been asked why would me when we can just ask again and get responses that are new and emediate. Plus who wants to read posts from people who have long since left CM anyway!!!! And even the sanctamoniouse buggers that complain and whine "use the search button this question has been asked a million times" Would sooner post a new thread then go and search for the old ones(Ok with the exeption of maybe LA). People get anoyed seeing the same question well sucks for them they dont gotta read the thread the X button works real well for makeing things we dont like here go *poof*

sooo (huggss again) dont let it get you down I havent seen any post from you that wasnt any good your always kind when writeing and its a plessure to have you join us here on the boards!!!

Magik's slave

P.S. and if the after the amount of trouble I have caused here and the amount of people I have made hate me here because of the last few days of posting (yeah I need an attitude adjustment!!) hasnt made me run and find a rock to hide under one without an internet connection then well if I dont leave here no one should!!!

Magik's slave



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