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AquaticSub -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 6:42:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I am truly gob smacked by the opinions here.
In fact i'm dissapointed in humanity.


You know you really don't consider anyone else's point of view. They have to agree or humanity is going down the toliet!

Look, some people value loyalty over everything else. You clearly don't. That doesn't make them wrong though. Loyalty is a clearly an important value and frankly, not one stressed enough nowadays. I don't personally believe in blind loyalty but *shrug* whatever. If you think about it, refusing to testify is just about as damning as anything they would have had to say anyway, so hush and think. If their spouses murders someone and they get asked "Where was your husband on the night of the 6th" and their is "I plead the 5th"... Hmm... I wonder what they don't want to say... Unless they are so desperate to hide that they and their husband were getting jiggy with illegal aliens or some other nonsense, chances are they are pleading to avoid providing evidence and the jury knows that.

Really you should be damned happy they will plead the 5th and not lie. Lying screws things up.




AquaticSub -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 6:43:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I cannot respect an opinion that could be at the cost of innocent lives. I have decency to know that to protect a murderer is wrong.

Edited to add i respect your right to have that opinion but i do not have to respect the opinion itself.


You said something similiar about hunting until you were educated about humans destroying their food and the herd needing to be thined out.




fergus -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 6:46:09 PM)

"Depends" in my mind as well.  In ANY case, I would certainly do my level best to convince the person to turn themselves in and/or face the music (as I have done with family members, though CERTAINLY not rape or murder).  If it were a crime within the family, then I would have to weigh whether or not I would choose to testify.

MissTurbation, I found it 'interesting' because some of the original post dealt with what laws do or do not exist in England vs. the United States.

Aprig: There are probably different levels of stautes for that as well depending upon what district a person is in.

Here's another thought - what if they compelled you to testify in a case where you KNEW your spouse was innocent, but you knew truthful testimony would eb damaging?

fergus




FangsNfeet -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 6:48:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Question: So, what if a family member killed another family member, raped, or molested. Then what? 

I'd turn them in.


Oh, I know you would from your posts, I was just pondering what the people that say they wouldn't turn in a family member would do.



Out in the country, my family has been known to handle somethings internaly instead of seeking the law for justice.




MsOpal -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 6:51:16 PM)

Well just to toss yet another wrench in the works .... In Texas a spouse can be forced to testify against a spouse in a case involving a crime against a minor child.




AquaticSub -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 6:54:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsOpal

Well just to toss yet another wrench in the works .... In Texas a spouse can be forced to testify against a spouse in a case involving a crime against a minor child.


That makes sense, though I wish it wasn't needed. I don't get people who hurt children...




Kalira -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 6:55:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsOpal

Well just to toss yet another wrench in the works .... In Texas a spouse can be forced to testify against a spouse in a case involving a crime against a minor child.

Yes, they can be forced to take the stand, but can not be forced to testify. As I said, the cost is jail time.




missturbation -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:00:18 PM)

You know you really don't consider anyone else's point of view. They have to agree or humanity is going down the toliet!
I respect anyone having a point of view but i dont have to respect that point of view. You know nothing about me.
so hush and think.
I have thought and anyone who is prepared to let innocent people die and the guilty walk free .... well not worth my time.
You said something similiar about hunting until you were educated about humans destroying their food and the herd needing to be thined out
My opinion on hurting has not changed.
Well just to toss yet another wrench in the works .... In Texas a spouse can be forced to testify against a spouse in a case involving a crime against a minor child.


That makes sense, though I wish it wasn't needed. I don't get people who hurt children...

Unlike yours!!




missturbation -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:03:08 PM)

MissTurbation, I found it 'interesting' because some of the original post dealt with what laws do or do not exist in England vs. the United States.
I never said the law didnt exist in the uk. I only know about it existing in the usa due to the book i am reading. I do wish people wudnt put words in my mouth. It was never about the usa vs the uk [:D]




Kalira -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:06:35 PM)

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I have thought and anyone who is prepared to let innocent people die and the guilty walk free .... well not worth my time.

Hmm, and yet I never said that the guilty walk free; only that I would not take the stand against them
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  I never said the law didnt exist in the uk. I only know about it existing in the usa due to the book i am reading. I do wish people wudnt put words in my mouth. It was never about the usa vs the uk [:D]


then perhaps you should be more clear in your statements




fergus -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:09:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

MissTurbation, I found it 'interesting' because some of the original post dealt with what laws do or do not exist in England vs. the United States.
I never said the law didnt exist in the uk. I only know about it existing in the usa due to the book i am reading. I do wish people wudnt put words in my mouth. It was never about the usa vs the uk [:D]


Hey now, I wasn't trying to imply anything or infer anything ... I merely found it interesting.  Very genuinely so.

fergus




Noah -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:09:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: missturbation

Well my estimation of you has gone right down the toilet. You'd rather see a murderer walk free to reoffend and they will time and time again to protect your family than protect innocent victims. It's disgusting.


So in this quite unspecified, hypothetical case involving no one in particular, you happen to know that the murderer will reoffend. Lovely. Since it is your hypothetical I guess you can decide that he will reoffend with a yellow dress on while singing "How Are Things In Gloccamora?"

There is a lot entailed in your criticism, though, missturbation, which just doesn't necessarily follow from what has been given.

Rather than perform that dissection, though, I'll ask you to please consider that those disagreeing with you may be something other than down-the-toilet types or whatever you might choose to call them.

There are lots of laws about the gathering and presentation of evidence.

In regard to the laws about evidence gathering, if authorities violate these laws then in some cases the "tainted" evidence cannot be brought in to consideration at trial. If evidence for a crime is gathered in an unwarranted search, perhaps. Now here again there may be evidence "available" which would secure the conviction of a wrong-doer. These laws in their execution make that evidence "unavailable" again. In an extreme case a murderer might indeed go free.

As a culture we offer up that potential injustice for the sake of something which is seen as greater, that being restraint on the state's ability to intrude at will into the lives of citizens, whether by going through your sock drawer while you're off to a munch or by beating the living shit out of you until they say what they want to hear.

Similarly, the sort of law you are busy bemoaning serves to recognize in a tangible way that matrimony is a considerable thing, not, for instance, merely a financial arrangement. In so doing it can be seen to recognize that promises, in general, are different sorts of things than, say, propositions or exhortations. I kind of like the idea that even in these post-post-post-modern times the value of a vow should be recognized in a way beyond the ceremonial or mercantile, in a way which really puts something of value on the table.

You, on the other hand, might rather live in a land which in all ways relents to the pressure to see a vow as nothing more or less than any handshake over the sale of a used car. I dunno.

Given the pitable level of esteem marriage is given by so many people in so many ways, we may be living in the time when the spousal option you are decrying will become obsolete and its establishing legal basis overturned. God knows that in the US we have recently been deprived of the right to speedy trial or any trial at all, the right to confront our accuser, the right to counsel, etc, etc; anyway that is how I as a non-lawyer understand recent developments; perhaps some of out pundits will chime in.

In any case the people whose morals you are swooning in response to, missturbation, don't strike me as toilet-worthy stuff. They strike me as people hewing closely to a set of values which happen to differ from yours. At the very least you must credit them for putting something far more valuable than money where their mouths are. When someone like Kalira says what she says it is clear to me that in return for the chance to live under the legal circumstances at issue she is indeed willing to confront and accept whatever ill consequences might befall her as a result of someone else exercising the right in question.

Well I suppose you can refuse to credit anyone for anything but I'm here crediting her and those who agree with her for standing up for a value they hold dear and being willing to face the consequences--and indeed stake matters of towering importance on their decision.

Does that really disgust you?

It seems that you believe that the state's interest in executing criminal law trumps all in dividual interests and indeed trumps all other potential interests of the state--such as an interest in affirming marriage as a special circumstance in life. If I've summarized your position poorly please correct me. I don't wish to speak for you.

You seem to speak only of murder cases, by the way. Does your umbrage stop there or would you have the state compel spousal testimony for every sort of crime, misdemeanor and infraction?

Either way, others have indicated that like you they feel that the value you hold paramount (enter in court all possible evidence against an accused murderer, let's say) is considerable, but for them not necessarily ultimate.

I'm encouraging you to back up for a bit from your condemnation of them as toilet stuff and try to explore their point of view at least long enough to gain some understanding of it.




AquaticSub -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:10:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

You know you really don't consider anyone else's point of view. They have to agree or humanity is going down the toliet!
I respect anyone having a point of view but i dont have to respect that point of view. You know nothing about me.
so hush and think.
I have thought and anyone who is prepared to let innocent people die and the guilty walk free .... well not worth my time.
You said something similiar about hunting until you were educated about humans destroying their food and the herd needing to be thined out
My opinion on hurting has not changed.
Well just to toss yet another wrench in the works .... In Texas a spouse can be forced to testify against a spouse in a case involving a crime against a minor child.


That makes sense, though I wish it wasn't needed. I don't get people who hurt children...

Unlike yours!!


What are you talking about with the "unlike yours"?

You are an odd little duck. Honestly, if you won't respect or even consider opposing viewpoints why do you post?




AquaticSub -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:12:12 PM)

Wow... that was really well thought out response to this. I enjoyed reading it.




missturbation -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:14:45 PM)

Apparently in the 1800's it was illegal (certainly in the USA) to testify against your husband in court unless he gave you permission.
 
Just out of interest which part of that stated the law didnt exist in the UK?

I have thought and anyone who is prepared to let innocent people die and the guilty walk free .... well not worth my time.

Hmm, and yet I never said that the guilty walk free; only that I would not take the stand against them

I actually stated if your eveidence was the piece that would get a conviction otherwise they would walk free. So yes if you dont testify they are going to be free.




Kalira -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:17:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Wow... that was really well thought out response to this. I enjoyed reading it.

Yes, I would be inclined to agree with you AS.
Very well thought out post Noah.




missturbation -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:17:58 PM)

You rant at me about the 'loyalty' sect being right and then say you agree testifying should be forced in the case of a child. Now to me that is a change of opinion. My opinion has not changed on this or hunting.




AquaticSub -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:18:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

I actually stated if your eveidence was the piece that would get a conviction otherwise they would walk free. So yes if you dont testify they are going to be free.


You appear to have a mind that is closed and set in a box. A lawyer knows who he can count on to give good testimony and a spouse who would try to make the accused look good shouldn't even be brought to the stand. There are other cases where people don't have to testify. Sometimes children are excused from testifying so that they don't have to face their attacker, even though their words could send him to prison. Would you make them testify?




AquaticSub -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:20:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: missturbation

You rant at me about the 'loyalty' sect being right and then say you agree testifying should be forced in the case of a child. Now to me that is a change of opinion. My opinion has not changed on this or hunting.


No it's not a change of mind, it's a change of circumstance. You asked a question in general, they presented a specific. Ask the right questions to get the right answers and for that matter...

I never said my opinion. I defended theirs. Be careful not to put words in the mouths of the people you are debating with.

Edited to Add:
Pardon, I did state an opinion in my first post. I said I don't believe in blind loyalty. That would mean I wouldn't avoid testifying just because they were my spouse. Apprently you don't read carefully and I'm forgetful. Que sera.




missturbation -> RE: To testify or not to testify!! (11/18/2006 7:31:05 PM)

You'd rather see a murderer walk free to reoffend and they will time and time again to protect your family than protect innocent victims.
 
My bad i missed out the word maybe.
 
You, on the other hand, might rather live in a land which in all ways relents to the pressure to see a vow as nothing more or less than any handshake over the sale of a used car. I dunno.
I never said anything of the sort. I will say marriage vows have become pretty meaningless in my opinion and certainly are not more valuable than a life.
 
In any case the people whose morals you are swooning in response to, missturbation, don't strike me as toilet-worthy stuff. They strike me as people hewing closely to a set of values which happen to differ from yours.
Yep and as i have already stated i respect they are entitled to their opinions but i dont have to respect said opinion.
 
At the very least you must credit them for putting something far more valuable than money where their mouths are.
Maybe more valuable than money but not more valuable than someones life.
 
Kalira says what she says it is clear to me that in return for the chance to live under the legal circumstances at issue she is indeed willing to confront and accept whatever ill consequences might befall her as a result of someone else exercising the right in question.
Yes, but is she also willing to risk the chance of the person she has protected going out and reoffending? Could she live with that on her question? I know only kalira can answer.
 
Does that really disgust you?
Yes their loyalty could cost a heavy price.
 
You seem to speak only of murder cases, by the way. Does your umbrage stop there or would you have the state compel spousal testimony for every sort of crime, misdemeanor and infraction?
My umbrage as you call it is not aimed at the law but the people who will not stand up for what is right. I spoke of murder because it is a serious crime, it was used as example. There are certain crimes i would not report my loved ones for yes.
 
I'm encouraging you to back up for a bit from your condemnation of them as toilet stuff and try to explore their point of view at least long enough to gain some understanding of it.
I cannot and will not pretend to understand someone who holds human life so low in estimation.




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