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tribute - 11/19/2006 12:09:05 PM

boytotrain

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I have seen that some Dommes on this site asking for tribute,but they also say the they are not money Dommes. Its a way to weed out fake subs or so they claim.I have talked to some Dommes from this only to never hear from them again or for weeks until i see them again, this seems to be also fake to me, So i am thinking there are just as many fake Dommes as there are fake subs. Please tell what you think?

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RE: tribute - 11/19/2006 12:25:44 PM

fergus

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Yes and no.

The number of males to females on this site has to be 10 to one or more ... so there would be 'more' 'fake' subs, but based on percentage, I would say neck and neck.

About the word 'fake'. I think many people seem 'fake' on the net. Some of them truely are 'fake'. I think others are just nervous, or feeling that someone is not the right fit and don't get back to them because thhey feel it would hurt them to say so.

Not saying these things are rational, just a possibility.

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RE: tribute - 11/19/2006 12:28:17 PM

slavejali

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What's a fake anything? Something or someone who is not in your own ideals about how it should be?
I think all this fake and real stuff could be cleared up just by simply saying a a dominant type person is any person whose natural inclincation is to dominate. How they do that could be wide and varied. It could embrace from an abuser type personality to someone who uses their dominant personality in beneficial ways towards others and situations.

Put that into a D/s BDSM perspective and you have a bunch of people who like kink who apply their dominant personality towards other people who agree to be submissive. Each and everyone one of them and how they do it, is going to be different, how do we weed out fakes? There are none really. Just perhaps there are people who are doing it in a way that isn't compatible with us.

Maybe what you're saying is that some people are not as altrusitic as you would like them to be from your perspective...but given the world we live in, how many people are? Certainly no one is perfect (cept me on a good day lol).

In regards to Femme Dommes and the whole tribute thing. Females like to be looked after. Even in the bird kingdom, a female bird will choose a mate by which boy bird can feed her the most. Maybe its a natural instinct thing. I dunno, I'm playing with thoughts. Doing this, doesn't mean anyone is fake ...they are just displaying what it is they need for them to agree to a relationship. If this isn't compatible with you, thats cool, find a non tribute Domme.

It's about personal needs and compatible desires when it call comes down to it hey?

In regards to not hearing from people, who knows why, we could make up reasons till the cows come home.

< Message edited by slavejali -- 11/19/2006 12:34:53 PM >

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RE: tribute - 11/20/2006 1:24:53 PM

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I seem to be suffering déjá vu this week if only I could remember what those damn Lottery numbers were. I seem to only remember mundane topics of conversation. Seriously though, how can you judge the intensions of a complete stranger from a few lines of text? Life is about taking chances and getting to know people. The chances are those people will fall short of your expectations in some way but that’s life. Maybe you’ll get hurt but its better than giving up completely they tell me. Also tribute does not always mean financial gain. You can see if a woman has expensive tastes by counting the number of rings on her fingers I’m told. I’m still looking for that one ring girl. I’m not responsible for the vomit that line may have induced you’ll have to clean it up yourself. My mind seems to be drifting towards phone sex for some reason it was probably all that ring ring business. I’ve never had phone sex I tried once but it was a bloke on the other end and he kept telling me the time.

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