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Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/10/2005 10:05:37 AM

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So what is your preferred methods of aftercare/wound-care after an intense flogging session?

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/10/2005 8:00:52 PM

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After the flogging I will spray, squirt, or pour cold lemmon/lime juice over the areas. I would then continue with a hot wax session pouring layers upon layers untill I was out of wax. After that I'd use a cold knife to to take the wax off and then use a flogger to get the reniments.

Beyond that I'd have you take 2 Tylenol / Ibprophen or a strong Irish Cream Drink with mix and a nice massage using some type of oil or lotion holding you close during your subspace trance.

If its a relationship it also leads to some bondage and making love.

That's what I usually do unless I think of something different. Sometimes, while the wax cools, I may chain the vagina (if female) and or the arse.

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/10/2005 8:15:23 PM

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After the flogging I will spray, squirt, or pour cold lemmon/lime juice over the areas. I would then continue with a hot wax session pouring layers upon layers untill I was out of wax. After that I'd use a cold knife to to take the wax off and then use a flogger to get the reniments.

ooooooooooo you're such a sadist.....lol

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/10/2005 8:22:11 PM

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So what is your preferred methods of aftercare/wound-care after an intense flogging session?

restore the breathing

stop the bleeding

treat for shock

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/10/2005 8:25:11 PM

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I like this.

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/10/2005 8:26:12 PM

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*Note to self - Never bare ass in the same room as Topcat or Fangs!

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/14/2005 8:03:07 PM

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I'm having a hard time believing the only Topcat and I are the Doms who give heavy flogging sessions and have an aftercare routine.

Let's not be lazy. A senser quesion has been asked. May we all respond to it?

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 12:22:58 AM

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I am an inexperienced male submissive/slave. But this seems more like actual play or the real deal. If this is correct then would it not be best to treat the wounds in such a way as well. Meaning that if: deep cuts are made, blood, an so on. Then should not treatment be more of a actual medical stand point as well.
The reason why I ask is because years latter, do to such unorthidox methods of treatment the submissive or slave is far more likely to develop serious medical problems such as a stroke. Loss of feeling due to nerve damage. Or the alike.
To me if my Master or Mistress wanted to play for real then treatment of such play would also have to be just as real. Just because I am a slave an/or inexperienced I would not allow such merit as what you Masters are enjoying.
I would like to know your thoughts. But the real question is do you care about your slave or do you care about your play. This is not a two way street in my mind or in actuality.
P.S. I am an ex emergency medical technition.

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 12:40:51 AM

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If it's just bruising you're wanting to deal with, lavender oil (in its concentrated "essential" form) will make the coloring vanish relatively quickly. The massaging of it makes for a pleasant and sensual aftercare session as well.

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 4:19:22 PM

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If it's just bruising you're wanting to deal with, lavender oil (in its concentrated "essential" form) will make the coloring vanish relatively quickly.

Could you point me to some references that suggest that lavender eo is helpful with bruising? Aromatherapy is one of my hobbies and I've never seen that claim made for lavender. Lavender is generally cited as being antibacterial, antifungal and perhaps anti-viral. It works as an "adaptogen", aiding in restoring balance to the body. And, of course, it's great on burns.

Corsican heli (Helichrysum Italicum from Corsica, also known as Italian Everlasting or Immortelle) is what I've always seen suggested to reduce bruising and inflammation (and I believe there have actually been scientific studies done to show it's healing effects, in addition to plentiful anecdotal evidence.) Oh, and it's also good for reducing visible scars.

Anyway, I'd be very interested in reading about the use of lavender to reduce bruising.

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 4:27:41 PM

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I am an inexperienced male submissive/slave. But this seems more like actual play or the real deal.

I don't think I understand what you're saying. Yes, it's "actual play" and yes, it's the "real deal". I don't think it's an either/or scenario. Some "play" can be quite extreme, but that doesn't mean it's not "play", at least for some of us.

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The reason why I ask is because years latter, do to such unorthidox methods of treatment the submissive or slave is far more likely to develop serious medical problems such as a stroke. Loss of feeling due to nerve damage. Or the alike.

I've been doing wiitwd for somewhere 'round about 2 decades, and I've never been big on aftercare. I don't think that predisposes me to strokes or nerve damage though. I'd be interested in hearing what led you to that conclusion.

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I would like to know your thoughts. But the real question is do you care about your slave or do you care about your play. This is not a two way street in my mind or in actuality.

Again, I don't see how this is an either/or scenario. In my mind, the more you care about the person your'e playing with, the more important it is that you care about your technical skills (or play). If you didn't give a damn, then it wouldn't much matter if you spent an hour wailing on a kidney with a heavy flogger, would it? (other than personal pride in competence, of course).

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 4:51:43 PM

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Could you point me to some references that suggest that lavender eo is helpful with bruising?

I can only offer the anecdotal evidence of my own experience with it. I also should have been more clear in that it seems to work if applied to the flogged area during that aftercare stage rather than much later after deeper bruising has appeared. In this sense it's more a preventative measure than a cure. But I'm no expert and, as stated, I have no empirical evidence to support any of this.

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 4:56:02 PM

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I'm a big fan of using purell after a heavy flogging...but that usually comes in after I massage her ever-so-sensitive buns while wearing vampire gloves.

Now...is she supposed to continue screaming during the aftercare portion of the session?

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 6:05:41 PM

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I can only offer the anecdotal evidence of my own experience with it. I also should have been more clear in that it seems to work if applied to the flogged area during that aftercare stage rather than much later after deeper bruising has appeared. In this sense it's more a preventative measure than a cure.

If it wasn't so blessed expensive (even in a 10% dliution that I dilute further still to about 3% it's not cheap), I'd suggest you get some heli and do a bit of a "comparison" - one side with lavender and one with heli, and see the difference. I'd wager the difference would be significant and the heli would amaze you. I saw pictures from someone I know and trust who put heli on half of an area where she fell hard. She drew a line with a marker where she put the heli and took before/after photos. It was amazing - absolutely NO bruise where the heli was and a horrible dark black discoloration on the other side of the line. I think the effects you're seeing from the lavender are more attributable to the massage than the eo.

Lavender gives me instant headaches that last 24 - 48 hours, or I'd offer to do a comparison myself.

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 6:09:05 PM

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...and a horrible dark black discoloration on the other side of the line.

Since when do YOU think a big dark bruise is horrible?!? (inquiring roommates wanna know)

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 6:20:13 PM

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So what is your preferred methods of aftercare/wound-care after an intense flogging session?

Sometimes I just smack 'em upside the head and say "there's yer fuckin' aftercare." Of course, this only works with people like sherri (nopinkballoons). She's a walking etch a sketch who only wants a glass of water, a chair and a cig...and not necessarily in that order.

Seriously, it depends on the results. If it's just bruising then I have been known to apply arnica topically and suggest the homeopathic (arnica) for ingesting (if it looks like the bruises may blossom in a few days).

I've also discovered that some bruising can actually be 'spanked out' if you do it soon after it occurs. Light, superficial spanking that starts in the center and you move outwards with it. It's more like a slapping, really.

But I don't know many people who want to get rid of their bruises. They are badges of honor, to most of the folks I play with.

Whips, quirts, scourges and the like often result in some opening of the skin. For that I use alcohol (just cause I like the reaction). hahahaha But if it's something that needs to be covered sometimes I'll use an antibacterial and apply New Skin or tegaderm.

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 6:22:03 PM

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So what is your preferred methods of aftercare/wound-care after an intense flogging session?

restore the breathing

stop the bleeding

treat for shock

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 6:29:32 PM

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Since when do YOU think a big dark bruise is horrible?!? (inquiring roommates wanna know)

When it comes from tripping over the cat and falling against the corner of the wall! (No, I didn't trip over Smut...that's how the person I mentioned got the bruise.)

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 6:35:07 PM

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If it wasn't so blessed expensive (even in a 10% dliution that I dilute further still to about 3% it's not cheap), I'd suggest you get some heli and do a bit of a "comparison" - one side with lavender and one with heli, and see the difference.

Thanks for the heads-up on the heli, Sherri.

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RE: Aftercare - Best ideas after Floggings - 2/15/2005 6:54:01 PM

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Since when do YOU think a big dark bruise is horrible?!? (inquiring roommates wanna know)

When it comes from tripping over the cat and falling against the corner of the wall! (No, I didn't trip over Smut...that's how the person I mentioned got the bruise.)

Bitch bitch bitch. Not only do they WANT them, they want to dictate how they GET them too!

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