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justheather -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:13:33 PM)
quote: What is a youth; impetuous fire? what is a maid; Ice and desire...... yet the world lives on......................... Franco Zefferelli So do-o-o-o-o-o-es the fairest maid...

KatyLied -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:15:32 PM)
juliet when we made love you used to cry you said i love you like the stars above i'll love you till i die there's a place for us you know the movie song when you gonna realize it was just that the time was wrong? - Dire Straits (but yes, I like Shakespeare too, sometimes)

Daddysredhead -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:17:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyClaudiaVan submissives can negotiate terms and conditions slaves can not (for the most part) I tend to agree with this definition... as does my Master. When He collared me, I agreed to give up certain privileges, like defining limits and such. He knows that there are a couple of things (outside the usual scat, animals, etc.) that bring me to a bad place, and in knowing that, He doesn't go there because the end result is damage to me emotionally, and really... who wants damaged goods? The rest is of course, at His discretion and desire.

justheather -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:19:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied juliet when we made love you used to cry you said i love you like the stars above i'll love you till i die there's a place for us you know the movie song when you gonna realize it was just that the time was wrong? - Dire Straits (but yes, I like Shakespeare too, sometimes) No no no! Indigo Girls!

AquaticSub -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:19:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead quote: ORIGINAL: LadyClaudiaVan submissives can negotiate terms and conditions slaves can not (for the most part) I tend to agree with this definition... as does my Master. When He collared me, I agreed to give up certain privileges, like defining limits and such. He knows that there are a couple of things (outside the usual scat, animals, etc.) that bring me to a bad place, and in knowing that, He doesn't go there because the end result is damage to me emotionally, and really... who wants damaged goods? The rest is of course, at His discretion and desire. nod This is the defination I tend to go with. Generally I think that a slave retains two rights for sure: The right to choose her master and the right to leave if he is not treating her well as property. Other then that, it depends on how much control the master wants over her.

KatyLied -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:20:34 PM)
Sorry, I don't know nothin' about no Indigo Girls!

mnottertail -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:21:52 PM)
Lordess GreyStockings weighs in, I will be forever damned............. This is fuckin' big for me... I would like to thank the academy, the little people, of which there are so very many.......none of this would be possible without you........ Marlon Wayans (lol you thought I was gonna say Brando, goddamit!!! don't lie to me, you know you did)

mnottertail -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:23:05 PM)
Well, you ain't no Hollabackgirl yourself, love. Gwen

Daddysredhead -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:32:26 PM)
You see these shackles, baby, I'm your slave... I'll let you whip me if I misbehave... Justin T. (coulda just asked him...) [;)]

KatyLied -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:55:50 PM)
quote: Lordess GreyStockings weighs in, I will be forever damned............. No. Don't give her any ideas. She'll try to dom us into calling here Lordess GreyStockings. (nice use of the "e" instead of "a", btw)

mnottertail -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 6:57:38 PM)
This ain't an anatomy lesson, you can get them on tv.

AquaticSub -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 7:02:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: Lordess GreyStockings weighs in, I will be forever damned............. No. Don't give her any ideas. She'll try to dom us into calling here Lordess GreyStockings. (nice use of the "e" instead of "a", btw) Lordess?

LTRsubNW -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 10:14:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail If I were to be any type of salve in the world, I guess I would choose bag balm. Dr. Naylor Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Ya know...I was once a founding member of "D.A.M." (As I'm sure many of you know, it stands for "Men Against Dyslexia")

slavemaia -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 10:57:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince I have been on this path for over two decades and have experienced it all, errrrr except for being a submissive, Strolling throught profiles when I have time, I see a huge number of submissives that call themselves "slaves" To those I ask if you might define in print, as long as you refer to yourselves as such,, just what is a slave compared to a submissive, collared or not. CP OY - here we go again. What is a human compared with a person. It's all a very individual and deeply personal thing - i believe a slave is anyone who thinks of themself as a slave, the next step may be finding a Dominant who agrees. To define a slave, a submissive, a Dominant is as complex a thing as defining what is an individual. i've found definitions only provide illusions by which to compare yourself or another to. i don't mean this in the least bit sarcastically, it's just that this is what rings true in my experience.

jocelyn -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/25/2006 11:11:24 PM)
I'm just sick that I can't think of any clever musical/theatrical references to toss into the discussion. Sigh. Oh, well... I can add a thought or two from the standpoint of consensual slavery. When Master first interviewed me he indicated that he was looking for a slave. I've known that I was submissive since early childhood, but it still took some serious consideration (and directed reading to ensure we were both talking about the same concept) before I accepted his collar. I'm a service as well as a sexual slave and he defined both roles clearly. They're not set in stone, of course, because like all relationships, ours is organic. He's also sensitive to my needs and does check with me before making some decisions. Those decisions, though, are his. When we're out in public I don't wear my collar, but it's still there. We don't share our lifestyle with many people since this is a small town and I still work in the community, but I'm secure in my place in the world. As far as the difference between slavery and submission in this home, it's pretty simple. A submissive could negotiate the details and I don't. She might be able to “opt out” of some things and I can't. More clearly put, I choose not to. I made my choice when I accepted this collar and it's my hope to wear it for the rest of my life. We now return you to your regularly scheduled (and clever) playlist... jocelyn

BitaTruble -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/26/2006 12:01:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticPrince To those I ask if you might define in print, as long as you refer to yourselves as such,, just what is a slave compared to a submissive, collared or not. CP As a submissive, I could make the choice to leave and not lose the essence of myself. As a slave, I cannot. Celeste

twicehappy -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/26/2006 5:16:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirLordTrainer A slave has less limitations in her servitude, no hesitation in her service. While the two are parrallel in many ways a slave will go the extra mile in making sure the Dominant is pleased. Personally, I view slaves as the highest form of submission, point blank. Uh Oh!!!! I am staying out of this one though i have discussed, debated and argued this question until the cows came home and went back out in the morning. SLT, you know where we live, here is your flame retardant suit, the firewall now rivals the Great Wall of China in size, the bomb shelters in the basement. You'll have to purchase your own lead lined jock strap as i do not know your size (for when the atomic insults start to fly). Beware of the shit throwing monkeys as well.

twicehappy -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/26/2006 5:20:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble As a submissive, I could make the choice to leave and not lose the essence of myself. As a slave, I cannot. As usual the award goes to Bita. Stand up take a bow; make your thank you speech. Bravo, cheers and thunderous applause!!!!!!!

rubyleu -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/26/2006 5:26:13 AM)
A slave to me is one that gives up total control to her Master, has no more safewords because her Master knows her body and mind so well, that including her limits. She never says no, and will do anything for her Master. a slave to me is not an instant position, it comes with time, it develops. She also feels like a slave because she knows herself that whatever is asked of her to do, there is this power in her that doesnt allow her to say no, that whatever He requires, she must do it. If she fails to do it, she feels less of a slave, she has failed.

SirLordTrainer -> RE: what is a slave???? (11/26/2006 5:33:20 AM)
Stands with the tim the tool man fire hose at the ready!..LOL But no I made it abundantly clear twice that it was My opinion and by that I mean it is from My experience. Referring to the slaves Ive met both online and off over time, and certainly not just in this small colony known as CM. Thats My view an Im stickin to it, if someone dont like it, oh well. I wasnt debating it. Just addin My .02 but hey this is a forum after all.

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