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RE: advice needed - 11/25/2006 9:59:54 PM   
LTRsubNW


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greetings Aall
There is a normal* love for a Master  by a slave
at what stage does this change?  I am in  situation that has become one of His doing,gosh...He actually loves me and i Him.Does this now make Uus less........i am finding myself floundering


Forget all the crap all these other folks have told you....because I actually have the answer:

"...at what stage does this change?...."

It's different for everyone, but the general rule of thumb is; 36 to 72 hours after you you put your toothbrush in the holder.

(Glad I could help).

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RE: advice needed - 11/25/2006 10:01:42 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW


Forget all the crap all these other folks have told you....because I actually have the answer:

"...at what stage does this change?...."

It's different for everyone, but the general rule of thumb is; 36 to 72 hours after you you put your toothbrush in the holder.



Or very shortly after you start sharing one...

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RE: advice needed - 11/25/2006 11:07:21 PM   
slavemaia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BewildereDsub

greetings Aall
There is a normal* love for a Master  by a slave
at what stage does this change?  I am in  situation that has become one of His doing,gosh...He actually loves me and i Him.Does this now make Uus less........i am finding myself floundering


i'm not exactly sure what it is you're asking. "At what stage does this change?" Does what change? You are finding yourself floundering about what, may i ask? Perhaps i sound silly because loving Master is what submission is about for me, so guess i don't understand the uhm "problem" here.

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RE: advice needed - 11/26/2006 6:58:06 AM   
sophia37


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I thought you said, "how does this make us useless". And I was about to answer, oh yes, love makes us all useless in the beginning. Its called new relationship excitement. And your thoughts are pretty much centered around this person to the extreme. But I'd say, just stick with it. its a good thing. Not a bad thing. 

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RE: advice needed - 11/26/2006 9:08:52 AM   
Nosathro


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Tal and greetings
 
If I may quote for Gor
"The love of a slave girl is the deepest and most profound love that any woman can give a man. Love makes a woman a man's slave, and the wholeness of that love requires that she be, in truth, his slave."
Book 25, Magicians of Gor, page 31

 
 
I wish you well
 
Nosathro

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RE: advice needed - 11/26/2006 10:34:18 AM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_651231/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#651253
What's love got to do with it?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_632033/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#632105
Loving your property

http://www.collarchat.com/m_609494/mpage_2/key_love/tm.htm#609934
Ownership and Love

http://www.collarchat.com/m_545462/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#545482
What does love got to do with it?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_538921/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#538965
The Loving Dom

http://www.collarchat.com/m_499831/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#499881
Don't fall in love with your dom

http://www.collarchat.com/m_477568/mpage_3/key_love/tm.htm#484997
How common is it to fall in love with a submissive or dominant?

http://www.collarchat.com/tm.asp?m=423736&mpage=1&key=love&#423879
Love and Ms

http://www.collarchat.com/m_282567/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#282615
submissive/slave romantic love

http://www.collarchat.com/m_269031/mpage_1/key_love%252Csubmission/tm.htm#269120
Falling in love with Mistress

http://www.collarchat.com/m_248492/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#248492
true love in a relationship

http://www.collarchat.com/m_236486/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#236486
balancing commitment and love

http://www.collarchat.com/m_199915/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#199915
love in bdsm

http://www.collarchat.com/m_166085/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#166085
love and D/s

http://www.collarchat.com/m_65043/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#65043
love and bdsm (the unfettered heart)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_150281/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#150281
Is it normal to fall in love with your dom during training?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_125880/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#125880
not allowed to love him, what do I do?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_119832/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#119832
being owned or being loved

http://www.collarchat.com/m_97124/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#97124
subs/masochists and love

http://www.collarchat.com/m_31285/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#31285
can love get in the way?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_14998/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#14998
love in d/s

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2491/mpage_1/key_love/tm.htm#2491
is love important in a relationship?


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RE: advice needed - 11/26/2006 5:44:44 PM   
RedSavageSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BewildereDsub

greetings Aall
There is a normal* love for a Master  by a slave



I just LOVE when people use the word "normal" around me...

I dont know what it means but its like a foreign language..... sooo romantic...

can you say it with an accent too?  <grins>

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