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slavemaia -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:23:48 PM)
quote: he wondered what i would think if a man performed oral sex on him. He added that given the opportunity, he wouldn't mind it. He would want me to watch. This isn't the first time he's mentioned that sort of thing. He believes that everyone could be bi and act on it if in the right circumstance. i'm wondering if he isn't really bi..... Does anyone have an opinion? He wonders what "you" think, not what all of U/us think. What do you think? Does what he suggest appeal to you or not? i hate it when people rationalize their fantasies and behaviors by saying "everyone" etc.etc. There's no such thing as "everyone" thinks this or feels that. So that's just plain BS as far as i'm concerned. i'm surprised you're wondering if he's bi - i mean what is your definition of bi? That's what's important - what you feel, what you want and what rings your bell - especially so early on. If you get off on watching 2 guys together than go for it. If not, maybe you should keep looking for a dom more aligned with what you want. Gee, i don't know, just a thought.

Level -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:27:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail yes, and ate a cracker to cleans his palatte in anticipation of the next magnum, he has multiple tastings today.........you know how those monkeyfuckers are.................. Ron lmao at "ate a cracker"..... [X(]

Level -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:28:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lady Alaria quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice quote: swishing his semen around in his mouth like a judge at a wine-tasting contest, "Robust and manfully sharp, yet with a pleasing soupcon of feminine vulnerability and a witty aftertaste of gism. Two stars." LOL dc.... I just hope he didn't spit it back into a cup. hmm...I'm beginning to question ya'lls sexuality... dc is gay according to his profile, and I am not, according to me. [;)]

Lady Alaria -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:30:17 PM)
I seem to have misread the op. This is an online only, so far? Huh. Changes my thoughts. Got to wonder why a guy just getting to know a girl would bring this up, but say he's absolutely not bi. Seems kinda weird actually. Maybe just an oddball fantasy thing. May be he's in a pretty uncertain space right now, in which case he makes a questionable new bf.... Or it could be he's just one of those people with very little filter on what they say, just whatever pops into their heads...

subdelicious -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:37:23 PM)
Lady Alaria, Thank you for sharing your thoughts about this. To be honest, what bothers me most is that he was talking about this happening with another male. And....still being honest, i don't really understand how some are "turned on" by different genders. i could understand his interest in another woman, though. i'm really not as adventurous as some people in the lifestyle. i tend to hold very traditional views about relationships, so for me, i am probably bothered by the idea of group sex anyway. So both points are valid. i hope i haven't offended anyone by my question. i am not judging the choices of others. i am just sharing mine and was hoping that someone might recognize themselves or someone they know and be able shed some light for me. What i like about this forum is that someone who admits to not having experience, can ask questions, and get answers from those who do have experience. Again, thank you for sharing your thoughts. karen

Level -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:42:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subdelicious Lady Alaria, Thank you for sharing your thoughts about this. To be honest, what bothers me most is that he was talking about this happening with another male. And....still being honest, i don't really understand how some are "turned on" by different genders. i could understand his interest in another woman, though. i'm really not as adventurous as some people in the lifestyle. i tend to hold very traditional views about relationships, so for me, i am probably bothered by the idea of group sex anyway. So both points are valid. i hope i haven't offended anyone by my question. i am not judging the choices of others. i am just sharing mine and was hoping that someone might recognize themselves or someone they know and be able shed some light for me. What i like about this forum is that someone who admits to not having experience, can ask questions, and get answers from those who do have experience. Again, thank you for sharing your thoughts. karen karen, you have the right to be with whomever you want. You also have the right to feel negatively towards certain behaviour, and you have the right to ask questions about it. Look for the positive and for what makes you happy, and go that direction.

mnottertail -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:43:24 PM)
There was once a made for tv movie about the JimJones Guyana thing and the actor who played him name is escaping me at the moment but the guy who played billy in one flew over the cukoos nest gave him a blowjob as his sister who was the daughter in the Mommy dearest movie watched, and it was hot..................... Just sayin' Ron

AquaticSub -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:48:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Oh shoot, my mistake. Guess he's just an online guy. Well that's a good thing. I definitely wouldn't meet him. The highest percentage of HIV infected men are gay. Drug addicts come in second. Be glad you found out about his bi-sexual tendencies before meeting and sleeping with him. That isn't true anymore. It's straight African-Americans.

AquaticSub -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:49:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl You must be referring to my stupid safe sex practices. Maybe I should have unprotected sex with as many different partners as I can find so I can be smart just like you. You don't know any gay or bisexual people do you? NEWFLASH: WE USE CONDOMS. In fact, I'd bet we use them more then the straights!

petdave -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:52:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice quote: swishing his semen around in his mouth like a judge at a wine-tasting contest, "Robust and manfully sharp, yet with a pleasing soupcon of feminine vulnerability and a witty aftertaste of gism. Two stars." So would the vintage be defined by the man's age, or how long it's been in the hanky? quote: ORIGINAL: subdelicious To be honest, what bothers me most is that he was talking about this happening with another male. And....still being honest, i don't really understand how some are "turned on" by different genders. i could understand his interest in another woman, though. If it bothers you, and he's brought it up more than once, have you told him that it bothers you? i can tell you, there are no shortage of men out there with zero interest in having sex with other men... if that's really important to you, you're better off going out to find yourself one. ...dave

KatyLied -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:53:21 PM)
quote: JimJones Guyana thing and the actor who played him name is escaping me Powers Booth

mnottertail -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:53:49 PM)
Well, I guess this is the time to post a cryptic and useless euphamism: Be yourself; or be by your goddamn self! The oracle at delphi, you may now send me another 10,000 virgins......... OD w/V

AquaticSub -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:54:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subdelicious i've been getting to know a Dom online and recently on the phone since summer. This afternoon he called and said that while he was in the shower this morning, he wondered what i would think if a man performed oral sex on him. He added that given the opportunity, he wouldn't mind it. He would want me to watch. This isn't the first time he's mentioned that sort of thing. He believes that everyone could be bi and act on it if in the right circumstance. i'm wondering if he isn't really bi..... Does anyone have an opinion? i've been thinking since i talked to him today, that maybe he should act on this....just to be sure one way or the other. (He claims he is not bi.) Any suggestions? i don't want to just ignore this and get more involved....just for him to find out later he's not really into women! [sm=confused.gif] Honestly, if you aren't interested in being with a man who enjoys the thought of messing around with another man just remove yourself from the situation. You can't change your sexuality any more then you can change your eye color. You can mask it with contacts but it's never perfect. And you aren't ever going to forget about it. If the relationship would be a closed one (just him and you) then figure out if you can deal with the fact that he thinks about guys sometimes. If you can't, then leave. If the relationship is going to be open one, then figure out if you can tolerate another man playing with his private parts. If you can't, then leave. These things really don't change. I am bisexual and while my dominant has offered to let me play with other women since he obviously can't fulfill my desire to be with a woman, I remain monogamous to him because that is more important to me. That doesn't make my desire to play with breasts and feel a woman's body any less. I just don't act it. His desires will always be there, he just may not act on or mention them. You have to decide if you can deal with that.

Lady Alaria -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:55:11 PM)
No offenses intended or taken karen. Never let anyone pressure you into doing something that you really don't want to do. Unless, of course, that in itself is your kink ;). I'm just your friendly local pansexual poly evangelist. I tend to think bi guys have a bad rap going right now. They're kinda ostracized by both many gay and straight guys, and many straight women(though I think most lesbians don't care, so long as they're left out of it). Whereas bi girls are over fetishized(is that a word?). Don't really know what's up with that, but it points to something funky about our modern culture methinks.

mnottertail -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:55:25 PM)
Thank you but I belive also that it is Boothe is it not? Did you think the power of that scene was hot? Zorn the Undeniable

AquaticSub -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:56:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Well, I guess this is the time to post a cryptic and useless euphamism: Be yourself; or be by your goddamn self! The oracle at delphi, you may now send me another 10,000 virgins......... OD w/V To quote Robin Williams: "And if you kill an infideal, you will go to heaven and be reward with 40 virgins! And those of us who have actually been with a virgin are going 'I dunno...'"

KatyLied -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:58:14 PM)
Yes, I think his name has an "e" on the end. He did such a creepily insane Jim Jones. I did not see him with Mommy Dearest's daughter, and I have no clue what her name is.

mnottertail -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:58:18 PM)
quote: So would the vintage be defined by the man's age, or how long it's been in the hanky? Ah, yes.......Wednesday, that was a pretty good year.................... The Frugal Sommelier

AquaticSub -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 3:58:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lady Alaria No offenses intended or taken karen. Never let anyone pressure you into doing something that you really don't want to do. Unless, of course, that in itself is your kink ;). I'm just your friendly local pansexual poly evangelist. I tend to think bi guys have a bad rap going right now. They're kinda ostracized by both many gay and straight guys, and many straight women(though I think most lesbians don't care, so long as their left out of it). Whereas bi girls are over fetishized(is that a word?). Don't really know what's up with that, but it points to something funky about our modern culture methinks. Bisexuals get a huge backlash from the gay and lesbian community as they view us (especially bisexual women) as pandering to current trends and sitting on the fence. I have encountered this myself. I met a very charming lesbian who, after discussing that I was bisexual, decided that I was really a lesbian and I just didn't know myself well. I tried to assure her that I while I love the female body, I have a healthy love for the cock as well...

sintralgasub -> RE: Is He bi? (11/26/2006 4:06:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subdelicious To be honest, what bothers me most is that he was talking about this happening with another male. ............ i tend to hold very traditional views about relationships, so for me, i am probably bothered by the idea of group sex anyway. Karen, my opinion is that he is more than likely bi even if he hasn't acted on it yet. Sounds like you aren't comfortable with it now due to your traditional views, so you probably won't become comfortable with it in the future. sgs

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