LaTigresse -> RE: Marriage or dream and fantasies (11/27/2006 11:12:12 AM)
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl quote:
ORIGINAL: justheather quote:
It says on his profile that he is bisexual. Now he says she hates his fantasies. Why would she hate his fantasies so much if she knew he was bisexual when she married him? The whole thing sounds as if he married her under false pretenses. Ya know, you are really really good at reading one detail, making gross assumptions based on that one detail, applying your assumptions to the situation and addressing every post made in response to the OP with your take on things based on your huge assumptions. And here you are recommending this person end a marriage based on your value judgements regarding sexuality. quote:
I'd feel more sorry for the obviously straight spouse. Imagine the humiliation of finding out that one's husband had sex with another man. I hope any woman in this situation is able to obtain a private annulment or a very private divorce. Otherwise, while the woman may receive much pity, many men may not want to put their cock somewhere a gay or bisexual cock has been. Alot of straight men are very grossed out by that sort of thing. Once again, off in your own Universe of Assumptions. He never said the wife didnt know he was bi. And how is it that you know the wife is "obviously straight"? And we don't know that his bisexuality is the part that she is uncomfortable with, nor do we know that she didnt know he was bi when they met. If she did know, then why is he saying she hates his needs? Why would she marry him if she knew and then hate it? That makes no sense. The op didn't specify what needs, which is why I went to his profile to find out. That's where I found the bisexual and crossdressing stuff. Which of course you focused on! Out of a bazillion (maybe a small exageration) possibilities you ASS-U-ME that it is his bi-sexuality and potential needs in that arena that is the problem??? Just what useless superpowers exist here?
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