juliaoceania
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From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
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I've seen in a number of threads that subs/slaves feel it when their Master is not being "masterly" and so they don't feel that driving need or desire to submit. Who's responsibility is it in the relationship to maintain the dynamic, in your opinion?
As you would say, I am responsible for my "stuff" and he is responsible for his. We both have responsibilities to maintain the dynamic
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Should the Master be, at all times, expected to maintain an attitude which draws forth the submissive? Should a slave be, at all times, expected to maintain their attitude of service?
In my opinion, and this is only my opinion, is that no one is constantly one way all the time every day... or at least I am not, and I do not expect my partner to be either. I am not a slave, so perhaps that colors my view, but I feel as though our relationship should be natural. I do not need to be "trained" for example in our day to day lives. I submit because it feels natural. I maintain a good attitude because I value the relationship.
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