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sting516 -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 4:26:29 AM)
not a darn thing i can think of is wrong with a Domme doing what She wants with Her sub...or with anyone, should the feeling strike Her...the foolishness would be not allowing oneself to enjoy it because what would others think. i only wish i enjoyed having oral performed on me as much as others seem to enjoy it....when it comes to oral, i much prefer giving to receiving. sting

LadyAngelika -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 4:36:40 AM)
quote: I myself have a thing about body fluids entering my mouth period. I read yours and GentleLady's post and all I can think of is the episode of Sex in the City (yeah.. I watched a few) where Samantha dates the boy with the funky spunk and she does everything in the book to get him to change his "flavour". When he thinks she's bluffing, she makes him taste himself... anyhow, quite funny. I personally have no issue with it. But I determine whether or not I'm in the mood for it, not he ;) - LA

SweetDommes -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 5:51:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika This is a moment where having read the 1.5 pages of short posts before yours might not have had you wandering off shaking your head. Your opinion seems to be the consensus here ;) - LA LOL, I didn't really wander off, obviously ... and the "shaking my head" bit is because I just get sooo frustrated that there are so many double standards in the world - and not just this one. Another favorite of ours has been that because we are younger female dominants, we aren't taken seriously by most of the people that we have met in r/l who are in the scene - older Dommes are, and pretty much all male dominants are, reguardless of age. It sucks, it frustrates the hell out of us, and well ... yeah, it just sucks. I'm just glad that some of what we have run into in r/l hasn't happened here ... at least, not yet.

indydomme -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 6:29:21 AM)
Ok, adding my two cents to this already very popular topic... I'm one very orally fixated woman. I LOVE giving a good head job, let me tell you. I also very much enjoy when a boy gets off, in my mouth or otherwise. I have even gone so far as to tell a boy that he will not get off unless it is inside me, in one way or another, unless for some reason I have given him express permission to deviate from that order. I don't see my enjoying myself by giving him pleasure as me being anything but dominant. While I find it pleasureable and amusing to tease my boys, I also find it very pleasureable to give them pleasure. If I didn't, I wouldn't do it. :) I also have a prostate fetish, but that's an issue for another thread. :) Miss Erin

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 7:41:47 AM)
Just two things here: A) I will never understand people's need to make an ACTION either submissive or dominant. To me it's about intent, motivation and orientation. An ACT is not inherently dominant or submissive, it's just an act. Whatever you project onto that act is your own issue. B) Male dom/fem subs have EXACTLY the same issue/debate. I can't tell you the number of doms I have met who just won't go down on a chick because they feel it's "not dominant" Luckily there's lots who don't feel that way.

Guest -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 8:09:21 AM)
But, but, but how can possibly one be a "real" Dom/me if they like giving pleasure to their partner(s)??? <tongue FIRMLY in cheek> oh, and pardon the pun... Mod 5

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 8:20:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorFive But, but, but how can possibly one be a "real" Dom/me if they like giving pleasure to their partner(s)??? <tongue FIRMLY in cheek> oh, and pardon the pun... Mod 5 snort And how can it be submission if they are enjoying it, too? :)

LWDonegan -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 8:45:42 AM)
I myself as a sub/slave see nothing wrong with it as it teaches not only self control but whom is in control over me at that given moment. In order for me to understand what my place is and who gives me the pleasure but also whom I have to serve. Yes I see nothing wrong with oral sex on a sub. If I was a Dom I would do it to either gender of a sub as its a part of the training that one would need to better serve the dominant party. Its not about me as a sub/slave but what gives the Domme her power over me. Humbly lucky

Guest -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 8:45:43 AM)
quote: And how can it be submission if they are enjoying it, too? Hmm, only with permission I presume? As for slaves, no 'real' slave enjoys receiving oral, only wannabees like it. I thought everyone knew that. LOL Mod 5 PS: apologies for poor sentence structure earlier, I plead caffeine deficiency.

ProtagonistLily -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 8:58:01 AM)
quote: Just two things here: A) I will never understand people's need to make an ACTION either submissive or dominant. To me it's about intent, motivation and orientation. An ACT is not inherently dominant or submissive, it's just an act. Whatever you project onto that act is your own issue. B) Male dom/fem subs have EXACTLY the same issue/debate. I can't tell you the number of doms I have met who just won't go down on a chick because they feel it's "not dominant" Luckily there's lots who don't feel that way. And luckily lots aren't hung up in this idea of 'what' they are dictates 'what' they do. And that we even debate it is kind of weird to me. I mean, who cares what 2 consenting adults do in the privacy of their own space? I mean really, who cares? If I want to give a boy a blow job, I'm going to give him a blow job. I don't need the other Dom/mes permission or approval. If you do, well, that's something you might want to look into. Seriously...why do we feel the need to have to qualify what we do on a case by case basis with regard to our sexual appetites to our personally identified roles? It would seem to me that if sex is a buffet, then limiting yourself to certain items you want because you want to appear to others like you only eat chicken or beef (notice I didnt' say fish ~grin~) is really a waste of $10.00. Lily

ProtagonistLily -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 9:01:46 AM)
quote: u can give ur sub a blowjob as a punishment to keep his balls blue & not cum almost like handjob or milking. or u can give ur sub a blowjob as a reward if he's good....it's all up to u in ur play & imagination if u r in control! Ahhh...I must have missed that chapter in the handbook ~grin~ Lily

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/18/2005 11:32:47 AM)
If a Domina gets enjoyment from this act and/or if it's a great way to control, I say go for it. It's no one else's business. On a personal level, I don't do it. I don't want to, and it is doubly sweet as I know most boys would kill for a blow job. Ah well, it is about Me, isn't it?

BeachMystress -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/20/2005 2:52:26 AM)
OMG.. I just had to laugh. Last night was Venus Night (FemDom) at a local dungeon. One of the Domme tied her sub face up on the raised stage in the main room and proceeded to give him a blow job.

GentleLady -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/20/2005 4:43:07 PM)
Fits in beautifully with the thread doesn't it....and I bet She had every eye in the house on Her too

BeachMystress -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/20/2005 8:51:42 PM)
She wasn't doing an overly elegant job of it.. it was more one of those utilitarian head bob things. It was also a slow night. (We had some nasty rain and hail.) There were maybe 8 people in the room when she was doing it. There was a good flogging scene going on and a good caning scene. Those two got more attention.

NATI -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (2/20/2005 9:11:36 PM)
quote: it was more one of those utilitarian head bob things. What a waste of a blow job..LOL..as long as it dun it for her - that's all that counts in the end I 'spect.

kc692 -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (4/1/2005 7:25:25 PM)
I agree, lol, I think I REALLY like the first idea of oddlycurious' post. Although new on this site, I must say I have gotten quite a few ideas from this particular forum, from both Dommes and subs.I have some subs in mind that might not like oddly quite as much as I do at the moment...[:D][;)][sm=lol.gif]

kc692 -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (4/1/2005 7:29:31 PM)
I'm with you....if I do either my female or male subs, it is because I WANT to, not that they want me to.....and, Dommes, isn't that what it's about? We get to choose and direct what occurs or not occurs? quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes quote: ORIGINAL: Whipenrod Doms do it to their lady subs--what's wrong with a Domme doing it to her male sub? Not having read all of the posts, of course, this is the statement that strikes me. Yes, I am a Domme, yes, I have blown our boys - I enjoy it, so why the hell not? And who is to say that I'm not a Domme just because I do, when every single Dom that I have ever met/talked to/listened to has done it with his femsubs at length and is still considered Dominant? This is one of the many double standards of life that I just don't understand wanders off, shaking her head

overthepiano123 -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (8/21/2005 9:35:14 AM)
Hello Emerald . My name is Andrew . You have lovely breasts . If you were whipping and spanking my bare bottom , which incidentally is small , white and firm , and I were to ejaculate from your " attentions " , how do you think you would feel ? How do you think you"d react ? Andrew . ( Alias " over the piano " ) .

overthepiano123 -> RE: Oral sex on a Sub (8/21/2005 9:46:12 AM)
I think that it would maybe depend on what kind of mood the architect was in at the time and the song that was playing . Even in my book a VERY strange analogy . Love ? Architects ? If they were female and loved giving blow jobs and spanking ; great . Andrew . ( Alias " over the piano " )

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