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Mommy - 11/28/2006 10:08:00 AM

boy4mom2tease

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I have a question that I hope is not impertinent.

I have seen some threads about daddy doms and girls, but I have not been able to find anything about the reverse situation. Is this just something that does not happen online (I am quite sure it happens in real life).

Though I am rather young (20), the girls my age are just of no interest to me (even the more dominant ones just come across as....ummmm....well you know).

Is this subject of interest to anyone here?

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RE: Mommy - 11/28/2006 10:21:15 AM

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Testing for trollishness...................... seems reasonably clean

I guess you could find it - there's all sorts about after all, and I'd bet that the toyboy thing (sexist as that description is) exists in femdom as it does in the va ne la (vanilla) world.

What did you think of that btw? "va ne la" - sort of "dont go there" instead of vanilla.

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RE: Mommy - 11/28/2006 10:23:26 AM

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Nope. Sorry, but age play (and being someones "Mommy" falls into that catagory for me) is a hard limit. I doubt that will ever change. But, that is just me.

I've known other Dommes who enjoy it, but not many. That's not to say that you'd be unsuitable or unwanted by an older Domme. You're young, which means you are still maleable

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Good luck.

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RE: Mommy - 11/28/2006 10:34:54 AM

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I was not even so much thinking of the roleplay of it as the real age spread. I have had some experience with women 20 years older who liked to tease me, but it did not go farther. Also, my (older) sister had a couple friends who liked to take advantage of me (putting it as sensitively as I can).

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RE: Mommy - 11/28/2006 10:56:50 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: boy4mom2tease

I have a question that I hope is not impertinent.

I have seen some threads about daddy doms and girls, but I have not been able to find anything about the reverse situation. Is this just something that does not happen online (I am quite sure it happens in real life).

Though I am rather young (20), the girls my age are just of no interest to me (even the more dominant ones just come across as....ummmm....well you know).

Is this subject of interest to anyone here?

I have seen profiles for Mommy-type Dommes on the other side, as well as male submissives looking for a Mommy-type Domme. It doesn't interest Me personally, but I know there are people around who are into it.

Lady Topaz

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RE: Mommy - 11/28/2006 2:33:06 PM

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I'm not sure the "Mommy" thing really has a lot to do with actual age but acting ages or at least roles. My last full time mistress often fell into the "Mommy" role, just because it was a kind of cute thing that seemed to work between us. I don't even think either of us ever really initiated it as a "thing". It just kind of happened and became endearing. It fed a lot of humor between us, so honestly I think it had more to do with that than anything else. But the point is she was actually younger than me, so age wise it wasn't about that.

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RE: Mommy - 11/28/2006 2:42:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: boy4mom2tease

I have a question that I hope is not impertinent.

I have seen some threads about daddy doms and girls, but I have not been able to find anything about the reverse situation. Is this just something that does not happen online (I am quite sure it happens in real life).

Though I am rather young (20), the girls my age are just of no interest to me (even the more dominant ones just come across as....ummmm....well you know).

Is this subject of interest to anyone here?

*wave* Mommy Domme here. Yes, we exist. Part of it is age play, part is the actual age difference and part of it is the emotional differences in how we interact. I am sure that whole freudian bit is in there too, but I havent really thought too much about that. In my personal expereince here, Angel had a very poor childhood and his real mother wasnt much of a mom. For us, I am the loving, supportive emotional connection that he missed growing up, among the other things that we have in our relationship. Theres also a deeper sense of dependance than I have ever really had with my other slaves. Its a role I greatly enjoy, as does he.

And for the record, no, Mommy is not a terribly popular role. Daddy/little girl is far more prevalent, but as LA pointed out one time a long while ago, thats partly becasue the majority of the relationships on here (forums) are Dom/ femsub.

Hope that helps
DV

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RE: Mommy - 11/28/2006 8:39:31 PM

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There are folks that do Mommy/boy ageplay.....though not alot seem to reside here on the boards from what I've seen. I'm totally not the mommy type -- in fact, I'd be more of a daddy than mommy by a long stretch.

The important parts would be to know what age range you're seeking and look for someone similar minded.

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 7:54:38 AM

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I appreciate your comments. I did get a chuckle from the Daddy/Domme idea....I am assuming that is referring to certain masculine stereotypes.

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 7:57:53 AM

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What did you think of that btw? "va ne la" - sort of "dont go there" instead of vanilla.

E

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 8:02:25 AM

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I'm glad there are some mommy Dommes out there. Isn't that what Peter Pan wanted in the first place, anyway?

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 8:20:10 AM

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I've seen a few Dommes into Mommy play, which is definitely not my thing. For me it smacks of incest as I was covertly sexually abused by my mother, so that's the last place in the world that I ever want to go with a Domme. But it certainly exists, yet I don't see it all that often as a primary desire or kink that a woman happens to be into. There are a couple of them I've seen on Alt that are particularly into it that reside here in Texas.

As a father, I think there's also a different kind of bond that exists between a daddy and his daughter that many women seem to be looking for in their relationship with their Dom. A father tends to share his experience and wisdom as he helps his daughter grow and learn the ways of the world. There's is also a playful element, especially when girls are young (mine love to play "tickle monster", which various games for some girls I've learned can have a sexual element for them which may not exist at all for the father and later becomes a fantasy for the girl when she is a woman. In many households, its also the father who is the disciplinarian. How often have you heard of mothers who have said: "Just wait until your father gets home!"?

Its quite different than the situation between a Domme and her sub when you think of it compared to a woman who has carried her son in her womb and later nursed him at her breast after he finally had been born. While there certainly exists plenty of "momma's boys", I think the dynamic is quite different and usually much more "convoluted" if you'll excuse the term which I'm somewhat hesitent to use.

I see nothing inherently unusual for a younger man to be with a woman much older than he. I've dated women when in my early 20's that were 12 to 15 years older than I. In terms of sexual compatibility, not to forget a certain degree of mentoring, plus the desire for women who have been repressed to begin their own period of discovery, it actually makes a lot of sense. Women tend to hit their peak, in their early to mid 30's while men hit theirs late in their teens, in terms of a frequent desire for sexual intimacy. So a younger man is a very good match with an older woman's much increased libido. At least it was a good fit for me at that particular time in my life.

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 8:21:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: boy4mom2tease

I have a question that I hope is not impertinent.

I have seen some threads about daddy doms and girls, but I have not been able to find anything about the reverse situation. Is this just something that does not happen online (I am quite sure it happens in real life).

Though I am rather young (20), the girls my age are just of no interest to me (even the more dominant ones just come across as....ummmm....well you know).

Is this subject of interest to anyone here?

Take off all your clothes for Me, little boy - - Mommy’s giving you a nice warm soothing bath. Make nice nice and don’t splash water on My pretty tiled bathroom floor or else Mommy will have to punish the reckless naughty boy….

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 8:26:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: boy4mom2tease

I appreciate your comments. I did get a chuckle from the Daddy/Domme idea....I am assuming that is referring to certain masculine stereotypes.

No, my statement that I'd be more of a daddy than a mommy is more psychological than anything. (There we go again with the male interpretation vs the female! Funny how you jumped for the masculine stereotypical....look/style rather than where I'm going with this.)

I'm more patriarchal minded. For me, the father figure is the advisor, the teacher, the one who will sit you down when things are jacked up and work through them, and the one who will give you tough love. If you've fallen down, I'm going to suggest to you how to stand up, show you that you've got dust on your behind and how to not let all that happen again. I have an extremely practical, non-material sense about me. I am comforting when needed, but not all that nurturing. I enjoy someone who wishes to learn and grow, and set goals and marker points with my subject to track progress with that. I'm not all that tolerant of fuckups and when I'm angered, I tend to get silent until I get myself in check, and will have a showdown with the offender to address each and every issue that's set me off in a rational and comprehensive fashion. Oh, and daddy.....daddy drives everywhere and is anal retentive to a fault.

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 8:41:05 AM

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testing...testing...OH yeAH. glad to see CM is allowing me to post again :D

The roles that become prevalent between myself and my partners depend on the chemistry between us. Yes, I have enjoyed Mommy/son play but without sexual aspects to the play. The nursing/nurturing activities seem to, with the right person, be very satisfying for both partners. I don't seek Mommy/son play, or Mommy/daughter play, but I do welcome it when it develops naturally.

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 8:42:44 AM

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HAHA, and now I'm LMAO at the "vanilla" icon by my screenname...yeah, right!

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 11:43:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: boy4mom2tease

I appreciate your comments. I did get a chuckle from the Daddy/Domme idea....I am assuming that is referring to certain masculine stereotypes.

No, my statement that I'd be more of a daddy than a mommy is more psychological than anything. (There we go again with the male interpretation vs the female! Funny how you jumped for the masculine stereotypical....look/style rather than where I'm going with this.)

I'm more patriarchal minded. For me, the father figure is the advisor, the teacher, the one who will sit you down when things are jacked up and work through them, and the one who will give you tough love. If you've fallen down, I'm going to suggest to you how to stand up, show you that you've got dust on your behind and how to not let all that happen again. I have an extremely practical, non-material sense about me. I am comforting when needed, but not all that nurturing. I enjoy someone who wishes to learn and grow, and set goals and marker points with my subject to track progress with that. I'm not all that tolerant of fuckups and when I'm angered, I tend to get silent until I get myself in check, and will have a showdown with the offender to address each and every issue that's set me off in a rational and comprehensive fashion. Oh, and daddy.....daddy drives everywhere and is anal retentive to a fault.

Actually, what you describe is pretty much the masculine stereotypes I meant. Those are most of the things I think of in a daddy. Especially the part about daddy driving everywhere....there's a lot of control there. But within that context, mommy, even when submissive to daddy, exerts a lot of the same control over the kids (i.e., she drives them everywhere when daddy is not in the car).

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 6:33:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: boy4mom2tease

I have a question that I hope is not impertinent.

I have seen some threads about daddy doms and girls, but I have not been able to find anything about the reverse situation. Is this just something that does not happen online (I am quite sure it happens in real life).

Though I am rather young (20), the girls my age are just of no interest to me (even the more dominant ones just come across as....ummmm....well you know).

Is this subject of interest to anyone here?

Once you have children it is hard to see the Mommy role as anything erotic. Squicky. Not sure how the reverse works with Daddy Doms though. They seem to be able to make that leap.

Smythe

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RE: Mommy - 11/29/2006 9:37:11 PM

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I happen to be a Mommy type Domme as well. At first I didn't think it was going to interest me, but in the spirit of exploring, and looking for a way to make my partner feel safe, secure and loved, things I'm sure his biological mother never made him feel, we tried it out. It has become a way for us to share time together without the world demanding things of him, he can let go and let me fully take care of him, which I think is important if I expect him to be able to take care of me. It's not something we do all the time, but when the world is getting to both of us, it is nice to take a few hours and cuddle my little boy, to play childish games with him, and to feel that unconditional love of a child.

*~Miss~*

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RE: Mommy - 11/30/2006 7:36:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: Smythe

quote:

ORIGINAL: boy4mom2tease

I have a question that I hope is not impertinent.

I have seen some threads about daddy doms and girls, but I have not been able to find anything about the reverse situation. Is this just something that does not happen online (I am quite sure it happens in real life).

Though I am rather young (20), the girls my age are just of no interest to me (even the more dominant ones just come across as....ummmm....well you know).

Is this subject of interest to anyone here?

Once you have children it is hard to see the Mommy role as anything erotic. Squicky. Not sure how the reverse works with Daddy Doms though. They seem to be able to make that leap.

Smythe

I'm not sure, but I suspect that men simply don't think of a female sub as "their" daughter, and I certainly don't think of it as being with my mother. Does that help?

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