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defiantbadgirl -> ass play (11/28/2006 4:16:10 PM)

What exactly is meant by ass play on the profile questionaire? I have it marked as a hard limit, which seems to be turning doms off. I love being spanked and having my buns played with. It's just my hole that's exit only. Is bun play and spanking a type of ass play? Just trying to figure out if I should change this on my profile.



Lordandmaster -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 4:18:16 PM)

I think most people assume "ass play" means "play involving the penetration of the anus," but it sounds like one of those terms that's up for eternal interpretation.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 4:29:20 PM)

How can you mark it as a hard limit if you have no idea what it is?



defiantbadgirl -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 4:32:41 PM)

I assumed ass play meant anal sex at first, then I started to wonder because of the word "play". That's why I'm asking.



juliaoceania -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 4:35:26 PM)

I took it to mean anal sex, rimming, caning, spanking, carassing, and other forms of attention paid to the backside...



defiantbadgirl -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 4:55:53 PM)

I've never been caned.  Spanking and caressing I soooo enjoy. As for anal sex.........there's a thread right now in health and safety about tearing and bleeding.........yikes. If I do change my profile, will it give doms the idea that I like anal sex?



KatyLied -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 5:09:32 PM)

Read about caning here:

http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/chcane.html



defiantbadgirl -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 5:16:32 PM)

I think I would be willing to try caning. Thanks for the link.



KatyLied -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 5:18:43 PM)

I don't like a full out ass-whipping, but I had it done in the way described in the article and I really enjoyed it.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 5:56:51 PM)

Anyone who doesn't take the time to get beyond check marks on a questionairre, really isn't going to be good for a relationship anyway.

I tak e'ass play" to mean specifically playing in or around the anus.



akisha -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 7:00:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I think I would be willing to try caning. Thanks for the link.


Reading about it and experiencing it are two very different things.[:o]

But something everyone should try atleast once hehe



RedSavageSlave -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 7:01:57 PM)

Mark it as a like then put more details in your written profile..

easy answer eh?? <wink>



defiantbadgirl -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 7:04:05 PM)

Did it cause tearing or bleeding?



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 7:31:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
Did it cause tearing or bleeding?

Caning can cause tearing and bleeding.

So can a hairbrush- though it tends to take more force and be less precise.



defiantbadgirl -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 7:33:53 PM)

*runs for cover*



whisperedsighs -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 7:50:46 PM)

I take ass play as meaing penetration of some sort, they go through the trouble of listing spanking, caning, cropping etc seperately.



juliaoceania -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 8:08:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
Did it cause tearing or bleeding?

Caning can cause tearing and bleeding.

So can a hairbrush- though it tends to take more force and be less precise.


It has been a while ... geesh I could use some blunt force trauma to my tush[:D]



theRose4U -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 8:23:14 PM)

Frankly if you don't know what it is I wouldn't list it as a like or dislike. Such precise discussion can take place if you meet someone you like. My interpretation of ass play is different from someone elses. In my mind the interpretation and definition of the person performing the act should be more important than how I define it.



defiantbadgirl -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 8:30:18 PM)

Good point.



CalliopePurple -> RE: ass play (11/28/2006 9:05:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I tak e'ass play" to mean specifically playing in or around the anus.


I think that's the first time I've ever seen you typo. It amuses me. Excuse the randomness.



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