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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 1:01:19 PM

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I"ve never understood breast fascination. To me they are sorta like pickles on a burger. They are nice, but as long as they are in the sphere of normalcy, I honestly don't that much care what they are. You know a hamburger is still good whether the pickles are small, large, or even not there.

So, it wouldn't matter, unless it was craziness, like wheelbarrows were necessary or something.

But I do have this repulsion to ugly feet on women and that would affect my actions like alot of socks and I'm not touching them,LOL, I don't know I just can't stop fixating on them, not in a good way either. If I had to choose between a woman with tits I didn't like and ugly feet I'd take bad tits.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 2:10:43 PM

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I can honestly say that I have never slept with a woman strictly because of her appearence. As far as breasts are concerned I must say that a great rack is admirable and hard not to glance at especially if they are naturals but other than that I have never really gotten into them so to answer your question I would have to say that I dont care at all what a womans breasts look like. In fact I dont really think I would even have much problems dateing a woman that has had a masectamy. I remember when I was in my early 20's and running around a lot that a womans breasts were probably the number one reason why a woman would be self conciouse about her appearence sometimes to such a degree that it interfeared with there sex life. I have also known a few woman that had very small breasts and complained a lot but then they never would really use them right. I guess I allways thought that the way woman feel about there breasts were really dumb. I have known woman that have been augmented and they attract more attention then previously but that was because they had a more out going attitude not because they had better looking breasts. I dont know how many times in my life I have heard woman complain about the way they look when it comes to that and each time it has really pissed me off to an extent. One thing I really hate is bras... I mean most of them that you see now-a-day seems to have like an inch thick of padding which is crazy. I was once told that they are all like that now to hide the niples and I think its just a horrible thing to do to someone...LOL.

Oh and one other thing I got a lot was comments from woman that they wish they had tits like a teenager... well my reponse to that is yeah okay thats cool and all but those type of breasts belong on teenagers not adult woman ... there is a difference for a reason and I much prefer the look and feel of an adult woman over that of a teenager (yeah I was teenager once thats how I know)

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:19:30 PM

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Well, ok Im reading all the responses....and I can appreciate the fact that most men feel its not the most important thing, or only semi important....kinda like if someone is thinner or a bit heavier than your ideal etc etc.

But I havent heard a man yet say that a set of breasts that he considers unattractive was a turn off sexually. I thought some would've had stronger feelings about it on that level. It seems almost like breasts are a non-issue for men, from what I have read so far. I guess that slightly suprises me; not because I think men in general are shallow , but because Ive always gotten the impression that men are bit overly enthusiastic about breasts.

hmmmmm

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:25:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

As someone who would prefer the bubonic plague before a serious relationship, at least at the moment, let me make a defence of shallow. For the long haul you need a personality attached to the physical female assets but in the short term you don't. Who cares if she is moronic or whether she is a malicious vindictive harraden, you aren't going to marry her so see her as a way of lightening up a few cold winter evenings. She's in physical good shape, she's not cheap for a night out but a damn sight cheaper than a permanent partner with a direct link to your bank account. Since the relationship isn't going anywhere, she is a piece of art to manipulate so you want as near to a master piece as you can attract so I'm looking for physical not spiritual. Now if I'm worried about her personality I'm going to have to investigate her a lot more than just a couple of evenings but I'm not, I'm shallow, as long as we hit it off, I'm looking for physical so breasts as well as ass come into it, its the instant turn on, she's a shooting star, not the light of my life. In the morning I'll call her a taxi which she is fine about because I'm paying and then I get on with my day and no worries about a woman complaining I'm not around for her or not paying her enough attention or she doesn't like my attitude or the hallway needs painting or a shelf needs hanging and its your turn to cook or take the kid to school.

I gotta respect this. (I think I missed this on the first page.) The content aside.....The fact that you layed it out, no holds barred. Gotta love that.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:30:40 PM

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quote:

It seems almost like breasts are a non-issue for men, from what I have read so far. I guess that slightly surprises me; not because I think men in general are shallow , but because Ive always gotten the impression that men are bit overly enthusiastic about breasts.

marie,
You are dealing with a poor sampling for opinions. Assume for a moment that the men on this site, in particular the men who replied so far to this thread, are 'lifestyle' men. Regardless of what side of the flogger they prefer their presence here indicates that their sexual interests lean to, or require, a 'dash' of kink. Therefore I would be surprised if the predominate opinion indicated a physical requirement.

It could be that the level of desire for 'lifestyle' acted as fulcrum. for physical attraction. In other words, the more obsessed or desiring of a lifestyle relationship the less important a part physical appearance played. Its said that men are more visual about their preference for a sexual partner than are women. (Thank goodness for that huh guys?) But for those interested in the lifestyle, they may be willing to offset the visual for mental/emotional compatibility.

It would be an interesting study if it could be done.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:34:53 PM

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Doesn't matter as long as they are original equipment. I HATE FAKE BOOBS!!!!!

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:35:01 PM

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here is a test put a picture with boobs up and put a really serious quote underneath and when you are in private chat ask him what the quote says lol most cant tell you

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:37:45 PM

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I don't know if someone has already stated this, but I like breasts as much as ass and legs...and everything else, lol. The thing is, breasts alone are not what turn me on...but also the face and other features need to be agreable...I am not picky on breast size, but I prefer them large (they are more bouncy and catch the eye easier). I suppose breast is important initially to be attracted to the woman, but in the end its the atittude and personality that counts, and how she carries herself

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:39:01 PM

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quote? what quote? I didn't see a quote? LOL nice breasts though!!!

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:42:25 PM

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quote:

here is a test put a picture with boobs up and put a really serious quote underneath and when you are in private chat ask him what the quote says lol most cant tell you

untamed,
I was going to say that's the way it works 'on-line' however, walking around with beth I'd bet men passing would not be able to tell you if she was wearing a hat or not, but definitely would be able to tell you the color of her blouse. Except at Folsom where she wasn't wearing one. There, I don't think they noticed she had a head.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:43:59 PM

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Ok.. now to answer the question.. yes, if the breasts are not my desired type it does affect the play. I have only met one woman whose breasts were, to me, ugly. they had no nipples... HONESTLY! They were these teeny tiny wisps of flesh that turned me right off.. I felt like asking her for a hit of Viagara before we could continue.

Mostly, if the breasts suit the body then I am fine with them.. mostly, I like nice nipples. They have to stick out and be substantial... if they don't, then to me that is unattractive and will affect the quality of our play together.

Just my opinion.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:52:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

Breasts.....How important are they to you in regards to physical attraction?

(Im sure this has been done before, but Im interested in fresh conversation) :)

To those men who would be so inclined to honor my request.....I am not interested in hearing in particular what "type" or "shape" of breasts you prefer....I am simply interested in the importance of it to your arousal when naked with your woman.

In other words, If you have a preference for a particular type of breast, but your sub/slave/lover/whatever does not have the size and shape you ideally prefer, how much or little does it affect your arousal ----and/or does it turn you off to any extent? If so...is it Alittle? Some? Not at all? Alot??

Please be honest, without the fear of appearing shallow. Thank you in advance.

All I can say is, no matter who you're with, no matter how much you love the woman to your side...if Pamela Anderson (or someone with a strong affinity towards here) came sidling up on the sidewalk...I can tell you honestly (and since I'm not married...I have no fear)....

I'd be thinking over and over again for the next 3 weeks...what it would feel like to be 10 inches shorter than her and making this noise:

"brrrrapbrrrrapbrrrrrrapppp...."

(Often).

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 3:53:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: untamedshysub

here is a test put a picture with boobs up and put a really serious quote underneath and when you are in private chat ask him what the quote says lol most cant tell you

I'm sorry, could you say that again please? I was staring at your tits.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 4:02:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

Breasts.....How important are they to you in regards to physical attraction?

(Im sure this has been done before, but Im interested in fresh conversation) :)

To those men who would be so inclined to honor my request.....I am not interested in hearing in particular what "type" or "shape" of breasts you prefer....I am simply interested in the importance of it to your arousal when naked with your woman.

Breasts matter, but they are far down on the list of things that turn me on, and if a woman had lost them both to cancer, that would not keep me from wanting to be with her.

In other words, If you have a preference for a particular type of breast, but your sub/slave/lover/whatever does not have the size and shape you ideally prefer, how much or little does it affect your arousal ----and/or does it turn you off to any extent? If so...is it Alittle? Some? Not at all? Alot??

Please be honest, without the fear of appearing shallow. Thank you in advance.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 4:07:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

I'm sorry, could you say that again please? I was staring at your tits.

That reminded me of something that happened to me. Being on the smaller end of the scale, I dont get many stares of that nature, so when I met this young Czech guy for a business meeting over dinner and he kept looking at my chest instead of my face I found it a bit unusual.

The meeting lasted over an hour, throughout which I was catching him looking. Eventually I had to say something.

It turned out he was looking at my Thorshammer pendant. It turned out he was interested in Norse mythology. It turned out I had made a right idiot of myself. But we laughed about it, and it turned out we became great friends and business partners.

E

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 4:09:58 PM

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Joke;

Young woman goes to the doctor's. The doctor wants to check her heartbeat. She takes off her blouse and he places the stethoscope on her chest.

"Big breaths" He says

"Yeth" she says "and I'm only thixteen"

Thank you!

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 5:22:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

quote:

ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW

I'm sorry, could you say that again please? I was staring at your tits.

That reminded me of something that happened to me. Being on the smaller end of the scale, I dont get many stares of that nature, so when I met this young Czech guy for a business meeting over dinner and he kept looking at my chest instead of my face I found it a bit unusual.

The meeting lasted over an hour, throughout which I was catching him looking. Eventually I had to say something.

It turned out he was looking at my Thorshammer pendant. It turned out he was interested in Norse mythology. It turned out I had made a right idiot of myself. But we laughed about it, and it turned out we became great friends and business partners.

E

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!

(Goes to show ya lol!)

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 5:26:17 PM

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Men always look at my chest, and its not jewelry they are looking at.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 5:36:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

Men always look at my chest, and its not jewelry they are looking at.

I can relate.

The last time I got an erection, channels 4, 5 & 7 ran a blood drive for 9 days.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 6:01:17 PM

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Thanks Marie for putting things in red - i'd of never gotten past all the blither blather about boobs. i do find this

quote:

It seems almost like breasts are a non-issue for men

that to be abit highly unbelievable... LOL

<grins> if you wouldnt mind continueing to make sense of their responses?

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