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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 6:23:38 PM   
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I'm not a guy, but I like breasts, so I think I'm kinda qualified to answer? A little? Maybe?

I think breasts are just kind of an extension of the body type that you like. If you like small, slender women, her breasts aren't going to be so large. If you tend to like the curvier gals (like myself) then her "equipment" is going to reflect a slightly larger scale. Since I would assume you're not going to be spending quality physical time with a body type that you don't find attractive, its pretty much a moot point.

And yes, I know there are definitely petite gals out there that are well-gifted by nature, but they seem to be rather few and far between.

Thats how I see it anyway. Am I wrong?

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 8:29:09 PM   
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Mr.slaveMastery, you get an A+


I've never seen a post get graded before.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 8:54:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PONYSEEKER

I can honestly say that I have never slept with a woman strictly because of her appearence. As far as breasts are concerned I must say that a great rack is admirable and hard not to glance at especially if they are naturals but other than that I have never really gotten into them so to answer your question I would have to say that I dont care at all what a womans breasts look like.  In fact I dont really think I would even have much problems dateing a woman that has had a masectamy.  I remember when I was in my early 20's and running around a lot that a womans breasts were probably the number one reason why a woman would be self conciouse about her appearence sometimes to such a degree that it interfeared with there sex life.  I have also known a few woman that had very small breasts and complained a lot but then they never would really use them right. I guess I allways thought that the way woman feel about there breasts were really dumb.  I have known woman that have been augmented and they attract more attention then previously but that was because they had a more out going attitude not because they had better looking breasts. I dont know how many times in my life I have heard woman complain about the way they look when it comes to that and each time it has really pissed me off to an extent.  One thing I really hate is bras... I mean most of them that you see now-a-day seems to have like an inch thick of padding which is crazy.  I was once told that they are all like that now to hide the niples and I think its just a horrible thing to do to someone...LOL.

Oh and one other thing I got a lot was comments from woman that they wish they had tits like a teenager... well my reponse to that is yeah okay thats cool and all but those type of breasts belong on teenagers not adult woman ... there is a difference for a reason and I much prefer the look and feel of an adult woman over that of a teenager (yeah I was teenager once thats how I know)



This whole commentary was really cool.  Nice attitude, really.  And you even sorta answered the question. 

About the padded bras....well come on... we can't have "show-through";  all the guys stare.  Nipples poking out are not cool  for women who work or for PTA moms and the like.


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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:10:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

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It seems almost like breasts are a non-issue for men, from what I have read so far. I guess that slightly surprises me; not because I think men in general are shallow , but because Ive always gotten the impression that men are bit overly enthusiastic about breasts.


marie,
You are dealing with a poor sampling for opinions. Assume for a moment that the men on this site, in particular the men who replied so far to this thread, are 'lifestyle' men. Regardless of what side of the flogger they prefer their presence here indicates that their sexual interests lean to, or require, a 'dash' of kink. Therefore I would be surprised if the predominate opinion indicated a physical requirement.

It could be that the level of desire for 'lifestyle' acted as fulcrum. for physical attraction. In other words, the more obsessed or desiring of a lifestyle relationship the less important a part physical appearance played. Its said that men are more visual about their preference for a sexual partner than are women. (Thank goodness for that huh guys?) But for those interested in the lifestyle, they may be willing to offset the visual for mental/emotional compatibility.

It would be an interesting study if it could be done.



Merc:

I agree, but it was just sort of a fun question, that I had been rolling around in my head for a while.  I know CM is a very small slice of society, but of course, I still wanted to get some honest feelings about breasts as they correlate directly to sexual arousal for the partner.

Your theory about lifestylers could have some validity.  Im thinking that breast structure as it relates to arousal could be less important for a dominant because they have so many more options to do as they please in order to arouse themselves, as opposed to someone who is not with a submissive woman who will say "do with me as you will".  So therefore, with such an open 'buffet' so to speak, rather than 2 or 3 choices, the importance of the breasts falls away or drops to a lower level because there are so many avenues open to travel.  Even with the breast themselves...There are more options even with a set that he/she may not find attractive....Bind em up or put clamps on them or whathave you, carve your initials in em (lol).  You know what Im saying.  Vanilla guys dont have those options, so that could be another reason why it may be less important to 'lifestylers'.


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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:15:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bound2pleez

Ok.. now to answer the question.. yes, if the breasts are not my desired type it does affect the play.  I have only met one woman whose breasts were, to me, ugly.  they had no nipples...  HONESTLY!  They were these teeny tiny wisps of  flesh that turned me right off.. I felt like asking her for a hit of Viagara before we could continue.

Mostly, if the breasts suit the body then I am fine with them..  mostly, I like nice nipples.  They have to stick out and be substantial...  if they don't, then to me that is unattractive and will affect the quality of our play together.

Just my opinion.




Thank you.  I admire your honesty.  I actually thought more men would have had similar answers. :)



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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:20:49 PM   
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Sorry to do a jumpthrough here, but here it is.

Unless you want a pearl necklace, more than a mouthful is just a waste.

Gawd, think of what we nuts could do if we were allowed out in public.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:24:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RiotGirl

Thanks Marie for putting things in red - i'd of never gotten past all the blither blather about boobs.  i do find this
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It seems almost like breasts are a non-issue for men
  that to be abit highly unbelievable... LOL 

<grins>  if you wouldnt mind continueing to make sense of their responses?  



Hey Im trying!  Lol.  I think they deserve a huge round of applause for their effort. 
I hope more post.
For myself.....I have to admit...I myself look at women's breasts.  I like them.  Ive never had a bisexual encounter in my life, but would consider myself mildly curious....sort of like...if it ever happens it happens, if it doesnt, I'll live...No matter tho...I still love the female body.  Im sexually drawn to the male body.  But I think the female form is nicer to look at ....especially the breasts.  Unfortunately I cannot answer my own question except to project how I think I would feel...And I think there are certain breast types that I would prefer over others and I have to almost say that my thinking falls in line with meatcleavers....If I was a male or female, for that matter who wanted to have fun for a night, (Which Im not prone to anyway) but if i were, Id likely want someone with a body that aroused me.  If on the other hand, If I  was with someone that meant something to me emotionally, then their body would arouse me regardless of size and shape, because the person themselves turns me on. 

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:36:00 PM   
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If you got fried egg titties they have a certain charm as well.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:49:11 PM   
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Hmm... so far, very few big-breast lovers have stepped up to the plate here.

This is in contrast to my group of male friends, where a much higher % openly admit to being highly attracted to a big rack. Of course, these admissions only occurred in stag company.  

Some time ago, I read a theory that guys who are highly attracted to female breasts were often breast-fed as infants.

I wonder if male infants can experience orgasms while being breast-fed. If so, that certainly would explain a part of the big attraction later in adulthood...

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 9:58:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subfever



Some time ago, I read a theory that guys who are highly attracted to female breasts were often breast-fed as infants.



Yeah and I once read a theory that guys who are highly attracted to vaginal sex once slid through a vaginal canal as newborns.

Like my mother always told me. Men want to go back to the place they came from; a set of breasts and a wet hole.

heh.  I digress....


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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 10:20:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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ORIGINAL: subfever



Some time ago, I read a theory that guys who are highly attracted to female breasts were often breast-fed as infants.



Yeah and I once read a theory that guys who are highly attracted to vaginal sex once slid through a vaginal canal as newborns.

Like my mother always told me. Men want to go back to the place they came from; a set of breasts and a wet hole.

heh.  I digress....



And how does that explain my feverish desire to perform analingus? ...

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 10:33:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subfever

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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ORIGINAL: subfever



Some time ago, I read a theory that guys who are highly attracted to female breasts were often breast-fed as infants.



Yeah and I once read a theory that guys who are highly attracted to vaginal sex once slid through a vaginal canal as newborns.

Like my mother always told me. Men want to go back to the place they came from; a set of breasts and a wet hole.

heh.  I digress....



And how does that explain my feverish desire to perform analingus? ...


Simple.  You were born a pervert.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 11:31:11 PM   
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Being an artist, I am incredibly visual, so certain things done to breasts, like tying them off till purple, or lashing them till striped and damaged, or even clothespins hanging off em, crusty candlewax marring them or nails and pins poked in them destroy the visual symmetry and are a major turnoff.

Really never met a breast I didn't like, and although most of my ex's save one were rather small. the one who wasn't had big natural beautiful breasts that were splendid, and what always bothered me was that she didn't like her "puppies" and how most men fixated on them and not her mind or face. I always saw it as tragic..they were fucking beautiful, but not at all why I loved her. She finally suspected, quite erroneously, I was like all the rest, which upset me profoundly  This precipitated the events which led to our breakup. We remain great friends, and she now knows she made a mistake, and I learned it's as much the women's over-sensitivity about breasts as men's over-enthusiasm about them that can be just as big a problem. Perhaps even why this thread was born?

The nipples are a much more important aspect to me than size, prefering them sensitive, easily hardened above all, and the smaller and pinker the better.

I do think vanilla men are much more obsessed by boobs and size than us deviants, and finally gave up on titty bars, after nightly attendance for 3 weeks, not because I didnt enjoy the view, but because of the embarrassing drooling, pawing, utterly regressed, fucktards most men turn into when confronted with naked twin sweat glands. Indeed embarrassed and alienated by my own gender...they repulsed me.

While I feel size matters little, I do like a woman with a figure, to the point her wearing padding or stuffing out in public wouldnt bother me in the slightest if it enhanced her figure, or made her less self-conscious, just like the addition of spikes etc enhance her legs and ass. I'd never push for augmentation, and have refused to pay for it more than once, and have become very annoyed at hearing an ex or 2 complain of her size and hint that she wanted bigger, as though i'd be the major benificiary, so should therefore subsidize its becoming reality. Obviously, my reassurances that I was perfectly content with her current measurements were met with contrived disbelief and scoffing, not being the wanted response.

Nothing I dislike more than a bad, lumpy obvious boobjob. but if she's had a quality, unobtrusive and unscarred augmentation, fine, and in my mind they are now "her".

That said, and bottom line, a woman has what she has, and critiqueing or wishing she were more or different behind the bra seems downright ignorant, shallow and inconsiderate. I also reserve acidic disgust for married or very much taken men who continually stare and comment at other womens boobs who have bigger better racks than the "old lady" back at home. After such exhibits of neanderthal classiness, I've more than once been guilty of lying to provoke by saying: "Well, now I don't feel so bad about fucking your "old lady"now dickhead." One "so called" gent/ex-friend took large exception to the comment, and we had to re-evaluate the nature of our association after a quick visit to fist city, during which I informed him I'd merely prevaricated out of contempt for his personality. But even so, he went home and took his wife to task for cheating on him. Unable to punk me out, I suppose he then felt any random spousal unit would suffice. But during my later profuse apology to her in person, was informed he'd (thankfully) stopped short of actually hitting her. Me and my bright ideas.


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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 11:47:17 PM   
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I guess it might sound like a cliche, but I'll give it a shot:

An attractive pair of breasts is more attractive than an unattractive pair, but an attractive pair on an otherwise unattractive woman (physically and otherwise) isn't going to outweigh her general unattractiveness.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/29/2006 11:57:35 PM   
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You've just made me realise how straight many so called deviants are. A theory has been gestating in my head and is still not quite fully formed but most devants aren't deviant, they are rather anal and want to be deviant. They find a relationship in which they can safely play out their fantasy of being deviant but underneath have a lot of self disgust and self hatred for what they want to be. This idea has been forming in my head since I had a relationship with a sub who had issues. She wanted to push out her tits, she wanted men to look and use them but loathed men who actually did what she wanted them to do in her fantasy. She wanted the man in her life to use her as a slut and when one obliged, self hatred and disgust would rise up in her and she would blame the person who was treating her as she wanted to be treated. Fucked in the head, thoroughly and completely. I also find many deviants to be very conservative, regardless which wing their politics is on. I'm thinking that their oppressed conservative socialisation causing these deviant thoughts and when they act them out they are disgusted with themselve. All this is speculation and maybe people just want to present themselves in what they see as the best light and that is why so many posts on CM seem so liberal and straight and not at all deviant. Tits are tits, some men have a penchant for them and some don't. I'm not sure I believe it when men say they don't care what a woman looks like. They may have to put up with the best they can attract but I bet if you can look into the heads of men, most have a perfect female in their imagination that they wish they could possess but accept the reality of what they can attract and make do, that is life.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/30/2006 4:41:32 AM   
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Mgdartist - you remind me of my neighbour Adrian. He's an artist too, and could have spoken every word of your post.

Except he'd have been drunk.

Can I ask you, is heavy drinking and whatever prevalent in artists? I've discussed with Adrian this question and he reels off lists of artists who were alcoholics, drug users, violent and so on, which I put down to the temperament required to produce art being one of pain, anguish and rage.

Thanks
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sorry for the hijack people. Well, I'm not really sorry, but one has to say so I guess.

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/30/2006 5:20:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mgdartist
Perhaps even why this thread was born?



As the OP of this thread, the only reason this thread was started was to have some fun with something that I have always been curious about;  Just how important is breast preference to someones sexual arousal.   Nothing more, nothing less.

You seem to have some very strong feelings about breasts and peoples reaction to them.   I appreciate you taking the time to share your input.

:)



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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/30/2006 5:22:05 AM   
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Master has an immense...and yes, I mean an immense...nipple fettish...so breasts are very  important to physical arousal for him

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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/30/2006 5:34:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: untamedshysub

here is a test put a picture with boobs up and put a really serious quote underneath and when you are in private chat ask him what the quote says lol most cant tell you


This is funny...I once asked my ex-husband years after we had been married ...."what was the first thing about me that attracted you to me"  His answer "your tits".  In complete honesty, and I dont know what this says about me, it didn't offend me one bit...my reaction was a smile and a giggle. 




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RE: OK MEN, I WANT THE TRUTH! - 11/30/2006 5:45:33 AM   
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