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Hercuckslave -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/2/2006 3:29:33 AM)
yours might be a "clever" way to gain audience with a Domme. who knows... another avenue for advice/mentorship would be to talk to a fellow male sub/slave??? not discounting the vast knowledge among some amazing Dominant Women....i think in D/s, the Masters/Mistress are a completely different species than the Sub/Slaves. I have been with Mistress for nearly 6 years and I know I still confound her. I don't think a Dominant can truly understand the mind and heart of a slave....just as I could never truly understand the inner workings of a Dominant. It is beyond my comprehension that one would want to own another. Just as I know it is beyond Mistress' comprehension why I enjoy serving and giving to her so much. We are two parts to one whole, though can never really see through to the other side. Just my opinion. M's m

tetherboy -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/2/2006 3:42:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sophia37 I see we've got our newest member, a yellow lab who refuses to reveal himself. Its cool he got his sub tetherboy to write his questions for him. Im impressed. Cant wait to hear more. Unfortunately I told my irish water spaniel about it all. So now Im sposed to ask questions to tetherboy about whats the best way to Dom the cat? I told my dog Cassidy, the first step was to stop chasing him, but who listens to me? Dear Sophia, Rover here. Well, that's not my REAL name, I mean my eyes are covered for a reason, yanno? Anyhooo... I am using the computer while the T-man is sleeping. Tell Cassidy there are several tried and true methods for domming the pussy.. errr.. cat. First, I highly recommend the use of a cold, wet nose pushed firmly against said pussy's behind. That always elicits a response and it's usually something feisty which just gets the blood going! Follow that up with the "Huh? Why you so upset?" stare - cocking the head at an angle actually helps deflect the "Die you bastard dog!" beams of hate that come out of their eyes. I know.. believe it. I like to bully the pussy near the food. For some UNGODLY reason, the T-man has me sharing the water thingie with the cat. I use this to my advantage as well. When I see pussy going towards the water, I quickly intercept and drink it all down! Muuuwwaaahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaa! I usually have to pee right after, but that's beside the point. What I am doin drains the pussy's will and also makes her physically less able to resist my attentions. In fact, now would be a good time to apply the cold wet nose once again. The next step in the domination is less subtle. Everywhere she used to have to herself, I now take over. I find gaseous expulsions to be extremely helpful during these manuevers. And there you have it. ~ Rover

SweetDommes -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/2/2006 4:57:27 PM)
Unfortunately, there is no 'one true way' when it comes to this lifestyle. There are multiple versions, and different flavors of each version. Asking a quesiton publicly to gain a variety of experiences and viewpoints is about the only way to figure out what all is out there and then you can decide for yourself which you think you like best (although, of course, the reality may not be what you really want, in which case, it's time to go back, re-read, and revise).

theRose4U -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/2/2006 9:12:19 PM)
quote: I am looking for a very strong guide to show me the realities of the things I feel inside. His profile reveals him as a troll. In theory someone with 12 years of experience that's an expert in everything wouldn't need a mentor to explain what a slave is.

tetherboy -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 1:16:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: I am looking for a very strong guide to show me the realities of the things I feel inside. His profile reveals him as a troll. In theory someone with 12 years of experience that's an expert in everything wouldn't need a mentor to explain what a slave is. A troll... now that's cute. I enjoy busting theories. Let's start with your's. 1. I'm not an expert in everything. Twelve years has gained me quite a bit of experience in a vast majority of different play components. And it's given me insight into myself as well. I think if you peruse the list and compare it with all that is available to choose, you'll see that quite a few were omitted. Why? Because I have no real interest in them which mostly likely means my expertise in them is quite low. 2. I never claimed to be looking for a mentor. I have some questions that I would like to keep private from the world and wished to hear a few PRIVATE views on what I was thinking. 3. I don't think there is a person in this world who can truly define what a slave is because the word means so many things to so many people and there will never be one solid end all be all definition of it. And to think, it didn't take twelve years of lifestyle experience for me to learn that! I think three counterpoints is plenty. Please next time, know what you are talking about before you open your mouth.

LadyEllen -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 4:51:21 AM)
Look, tetherboy - would you just ask your questions please? I cant stand the suspense much longer! I'm trying to ignore it, but being nosy is in my nature so its not that simple. I promise not to laugh, or wretch or anything.....well, as long as its nothing to do with the dog or cat, that is. E

DiannaVesta -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 5:42:38 AM)
The emotional aspects of servitude & subjugation can be very conflicting. I get the sense that this might be where you are having trouble. Unfortunately I just can’t answer all the private email I get and I also make a living at this, HOWEVER I can offer you several options and I bet they will prove to be enlightening for you. The radio show we just did (see the post femdom radio interview) was with a submissive gentleman and there were some aspects addressed that touch on conflict for a submissive man. The download is free. I also suggest that you consider posting your concerns in the forum because then you’ll get varied points to consider which is why discussion forums like this prove to be so valuable. You can also submit your questions to me for consideration but I will post them (discreetly) at my personal web site under a column “Ask The Goddess” I just revamped this area and I am adding and answering new questions now. www.diannavesta.com

MstrssPassion -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 7:23:14 AM)
I really wish he would post this openly. I had a very brief exchange with him in regards to his question & haven't heard a thing back from him since. It is really hard to help someone out with their questions if the don't communicate them.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 12:03:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion I really wish he would post this openly. I had a very brief exchange with him in regards to his question & haven't heard a thing back from him since. It is really hard to help someone out with their questions if the don't communicate them. But you're not really suprised are you?

tetherboy -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 1:14:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion I really wish he would post this openly. I had a very brief exchange with him in regards to his question & haven't heard a thing back from him since. It is really hard to help someone out with their questions if the don't communicate them. Oh.. that's NOT good. I sent you several lenghty discourses regarding your comments. Must be getting eaten in the mail. I will have to copy them and resend. :( I posted this then it occurred to me that maybe additional letters wouldn't get through either. My sent file shows the letters having been read and if so, perhaps I'm the one who is missing a response that I didn't know I had. * Dear MstrssPassion, I am still thinking things over but I wanted to take a few minutes to address some of the questions you asked and perhaps offer a bit more insight into how I feel. * If this looks familiar, then we are on the same sheet of music and I haven't sent anything further. If it isn't familiar.. gosh.. wouldn't it be nice if the mailing system worked properly? lol

MstrssPassion -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 2:36:00 PM)
nope, didn't get it... eh, one mail I was looking for goes poof & one I would rather have not received makes it... such is the way of it all (just had some jackass call me a fucking moron all because I had a quote from Dr. Seuss on my profile... you gotta be a real freak to not appreciate Dr. Seuss [;)] )

tetherboy -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 3:21:28 PM)
I like your Doc quotes. :) I will send the discourse to you again. Right now. If you do not recieve it by the time you read this, please let me know.

LadyEllen -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 3:23:06 PM)
Morons out there, who hate Dr Seuss? Someone I know? Was it that Bruce? I say that because of an email I had Its seems that this Bruce thinks that rhyming is bad Which makes him a moron, yes folks it is true 'Cause rhyming is loved, and by more than a few So I told Bruce to shut it, and cease with the sass And go shove some poetry, right up his ......... E

tetherboy -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/5/2006 3:32:02 PM)
One of my FAVORITE books is the Rhyming Book. Tweedle beetles battling in a tweedle beetle battle in a bottle on a muddled fuddled fox in sox on box sir! LOL Good times. Update: I PROMISE that I will make a very lengthy post on this thread detailing what this whole thing was originally about. I had kind of hoped for a few quiet referrals to speak with but this thread just refuses to die. lol Okay.. so stay tuned.

MstrssPassion -> RE: Looking for a Wise Referral for Questions (12/6/2006 5:38:08 AM)
It isn't even a rhyme: "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss~ The dolt said, "That's it? You quote Dr. Seuss! What a moron you are." To which I replied, "No, that's not it. I have a lengthy profile with additional journals & quotes but obviously Dr. Seuss is your best speed so that must be why this was all you got out of my profile." Seems he is yet another one of the fly-by insulters & has already made a name for himself on another discussion board. He makes a game of randomly insulting women. At any rate, thank you for resending the reply tetherboy. The mail system has been known to drop a post from time to time.

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