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Ok here I am - 11/30/2006 11:14:34 AM   
Lovetolose


Posts: 17
Joined: 11/30/2006
Status: offline 		Have been reading this site all day and looking at other dom/sub sites as a result of a flirt with someone I have known for a few months who was pretty clearly into domination in a very cool way...well not that I have much to judge on. I realised reading through this stuff that it actually makes a lot of sense to me and you are all (or mostly all) extremely funny - and I mean witty/ amusing so I signed up and I look forward to an education.

Lovin' Losin' x
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RE: Ok here I am - 11/30/2006 11:18:15 AM   
childoftheshadow


Posts: 458
Joined: 8/2/2006
From: London UK
Status: offline 		Hello and welcome. I hope you enjoy your stay.

shadow

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RE: Ok here I am - 11/30/2006 11:20:28 AM   
Lovetolose


Posts: 17
Joined: 11/30/2006
Status: offline 		Why thank you! I am loving your photo...must get digital camera!! x

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RE: Ok here I am - 11/30/2006 11:23:27 AM   
childoftheshadow


Posts: 458
Joined: 8/2/2006
From: London UK
Status: offline 		Thank you very much.

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RE: Ok here I am - 11/30/2006 11:34:32 AM   
ShadowWalker666


Posts: 10
Joined: 11/20/2006
Status: offline 		Lol! We *all* love her photo!

David

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RE: Ok here I am - 11/30/2006 11:45:36 AM   
sophia37


Posts: 1433
Joined: 2/7/2006
Status: offline 		Well then I guess you'll like my photo too. Except that I havent attached it to my name. But thats ok. I know what I look like by now. Welcome. 

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RE: Ok here I am - 11/30/2006 11:56:14 AM   
childoftheshadow


Posts: 458
Joined: 8/2/2006
From: London UK
Status: offline 		*laughs* I really don't see why David, but thank you.

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RE: Ok here I am - 11/30/2006 9:20:09 PM   
popeye1250


Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Welcome aboard now where's your picture?

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/1/2006 1:52:06 AM   
JerseyKrissi72


Posts: 10238
Joined: 8/21/2006
From: Reed City, Michigan
Status: offline 		welcome to collarme. hope you choose to stay around.

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/1/2006 1:57:07 AM   
Lovetolose


Posts: 17
Joined: 11/30/2006
Status: offline 		Thanks..you all sweet ..sorry don't have photo yet! I hope to stay around too x

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/1/2006 2:25:55 AM   
vield


Posts: 354
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		There are many interesting people in the BD/SM scene, and quite a few of them visit CM regularly. I enjoy the exchange of ideas that takes place on these bulletin board style forums.

As in most internet sites you will find people you like and people you do not wish to deal with. At least here you can block the negative ones.

I suggest you take in all that you read here as data, and take your time weighing things and assessing what interests you and what attracts you.

No matter how honest any of us are, if you do not understand the terms someone uses the same way they do, miscommunications can occur. A simple example of that is to take a tablet of paper and write the word love at the top. Then begin to list all the ways the word can be interpreted by different folks in different situations. There can be hundreds of meanings, and everyone tends to apply the one they desire, rather than the one originally meant.

Have fun!

vield

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/1/2006 2:49:16 AM   
Lovetolose


Posts: 17
Joined: 11/30/2006
Status: offline 		Vield,

Thank you for your kind (and wise) advice. Having read through a lot of this and other sites..I feel like I understand myself better. I am a successful executive and couldn't understand why had so many issues about control and relationships. Now I realise that this isn't anti-feminist and that being submissive takes an enormous amount of wit and confidence ... I am most turned on by the psychological aspects rather than some of the more creative physical ones in all honesty.

Lovin' Losin' x

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/1/2006 4:32:52 PM   
DreamWizardNJoy


Posts: 234
Joined: 10/15/2006
Status: offline 		Our Yahoo group was just discussing submission, particularly in the context of strong women, especially those that work in demanding, professional careers. It is interesting to see the strength of the women who willingly choose to submit, and what reasons they have given. Their intelligence disproved any notion that submissives are 'less'; i'm glad to be part of their cadre.

Best regards, from one capable woman to another,
joy, David Dream Wizard's dreamgirl


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RE: Ok here I am - 12/2/2006 2:30:48 PM   
Lovetolose


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Joined: 11/30/2006
Status: offline 		Hi Joy,

Thank you for this post. I also greet you, capable woman! Thanks for the link to the discussion group..I will check it out.

Lovin' Losin' xx

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/2/2006 2:33:14 PM   
childoftheshadow


Posts: 458
Joined: 8/2/2006
From: London UK
Status: offline 		hi Lovetolose, I hope you're enjoying the site, and finding things of interest to you.

shadow

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/2/2006 2:39:55 PM   
Lovetolose


Posts: 17
Joined: 11/30/2006
Status: offline 		Hi Shadow,

I am having a lot of fun and getting really useful mail, messages and just really friendly/ funny people here which is enormously appreciated. Thank you, and you?

Lovin' Losin xx

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/2/2006 2:42:48 PM   
childoftheshadow


Posts: 458
Joined: 8/2/2006
From: London UK
Status: offline 		Oh yes, having some good talks with a few people. Being a chat junkie, it's great fun for me. And since I'm stuck here by myself tonight, it's nice to not feel all alone.

I'm glad you're getting on so well.

Take care,
shadow

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/2/2006 2:45:52 PM   
Lovetolose


Posts: 17
Joined: 11/30/2006
Status: offline 		LOL

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/2/2006 2:47:21 PM   
Lovetolose


Posts: 17
Joined: 11/30/2006
Status: offline 		Sorry posted before finished...D'uh! Am also chat junkie...guess one of the first challenges for doms and me and you is getting us to shut up long enough to instruct!!! LtL xx

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RE: Ok here I am - 12/2/2006 2:50:07 PM   
childoftheshadow


Posts: 458
Joined: 8/2/2006
From: London UK
Status: offline 		*laughs* yes, there is that. Thankfully, my One understands my need to talk, but He has His ways of keeping me quiet!  Living so far from home, it's nice to be able to interact with my online "family".

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