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RedSavageSlave -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/2/2006 4:55:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: acctonthelook

[:D]  I guess I did not word it correctly in my post.  It's not that I have a problem with Anal penetration, in fact I rather enjoy it whether in a vanilla or D/s relationship, I have always enjoyed it.  [:D]  

The part I don't understand or have a problem with - is 'why' is it something that a Master thinks is important in retrospect to his domination of me as his sub.  What I'm saying is that if it's something I DO enjoy, how can it be a domination thing?  It's just part of serving for his pleasure to me.  He seems to want it to "mean" that I am being dominated.  I guess if it's something I enjoy like giving a bj, to me it's service, he seems to want it to be dominance.  Maybe because I do enjoy it, it can and never will be pure dominance for me or him.

I cannot seem to get my Master on the phone as of late and I hope all is well with him.  I would ask him or discuss this but I cannot seem to connect with him.  I'm concerned.  That's a whole other issue.




While I understand what it is you are having a problem with...I dont understand why it is such a problem for you.

This statement is taken off of your profile:   "I feel at peace in the realm and dynamic."
 
If he wants this to be an act of domination for himself....why does it trouble you? 



sunnydays -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/2/2006 5:49:55 AM)

i think some of you need to resalise the urin is NOT sterile......i repeat....NOT STERILE

im not condoning ppl drinking urine if that is what you want to do.. but please be careful..there is a reason it comes out of our bodies.. it carries bacteria not good for us, chemicals dangerous to the body ( hence the reason the body is gettign rid of it). Ask any dr or lab tech... when you pee in a cup for a dr..and they test it.. they test it for bacteria...again..urine is not sterile..

i have no problem ppl doing  what they want to do..but please be informed



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/2/2006 7:59:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: emdoub

But when they're doing something they don't want, something they dislike - they're doing it as an act of submission.  They're doing it because you're dominating them into doing it, and for no other reason at all.

That gets me into domspace quite nicely, thank you - so that's why.



I didn't want to quote your entire post, but I really liked your explanation. 



mnottertail -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/2/2006 8:06:20 AM)

During the Civil War here in the US patients recovering from surgery drank their urine to increase their potassium levels.

FYI,
Ron 



darkbigdaddy -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/2/2006 1:13:36 PM)

Well. I like to make me sub's submit to me anally (at least during the breaking in period). A lot of it for me is trying to break down her walls and building a connection between her and I. After all, it isn't truly all about my desires -- its about giving her a sense of belonging to me. I am her daddy, her man, her Big Black Master.
If you really have a problem with your Master using anal sex to dominate you - tell him. It's a relationship - communication is important. Of course, if my sub told me she didn't like anal play with me - she'd better be prepared for offering something in its place.



strangefruit -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/2/2006 5:39:15 PM)

I instinctively covered my ass upon reading the title. Swell thread though!



Petruchio -> Kiss My Ass (12/3/2006 12:59:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: acctonthelook

Anal Dominence, Why is it that a Master demands that he take me in this way? I have no problem with anal activity, but I do have a problem that it's purely just because it's driven by Dominence.

Why does anal activity equate ownership for a Master?


Anal sex doesn't hold the least appeal for me and I personally do not see it as a prerequisite for dominance. Earlier today, a slave mentioned to me she thought it was a dom requirement.

Wrong. It's an individual preference.



Prunesquallor -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/3/2006 6:58:10 AM)

sunnydays,

Nothing is sterile unless it has been sterilised, but fresh urine from a healthy person is pretty damn close.

If you are ill, this won't be the case.  Bacteria in the urine is an accompaniment to many diseases and conditions.  And that, of course, is why labs test for bacteria.

I think we can be a little too obsessed these days with germs.  We live in a germ-laden environment, and our bodies are designed to cope with it.  Indeed, some people regularly eat other people's shit without becoming ill.



Petruchio -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/3/2006 8:23:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Prunesquallor

Indeed, some people regularly eat other people's shit without becoming ill.


Shouldn't this be posted on the political forums?




ownedgirlie -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/3/2006 10:04:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AGORANTE
Just peeing into the girl's open mouth is inferior. Its messy. You can get it on her clothes or the carpet. It seems improvised. 
 


Then she's doing it wrong [;)]

As for the OP, my Master can take my ass simply because he wants to.  And he does, regularly.  And I love it, always.  Not at first - it is very painful at first.  He doesn't use a lot of lube.  He doesn't take his time going in.  He wants and he takes it, it's that simple.  And after my body, in all its intense pain, adjusts to his brutal taking of it, I become animalistic in my heat - just as he likes me.  Anything I do for him, whether I love it or loathe it, is an act of submission, because it gets him exactly what he wants. 



acctonthelook -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/5/2006 11:06:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkbigdaddy
If you really have a problem with your Master using anal sex to dominate you - tell him. It's a relationship - communication is important. Of course, if my sub told me she didn't like anal play with me - she'd better be prepared for offering something in its place.


It's not that I have a problem with him using anal sex as domination and I have no problem with the activity.  I was simply inquiring as to "WHY" does it equate domination for a Master.
 
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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
As for the OP, my Master can take my ass simply because he wants to.  And he does, regularly.  And I love it, always.  Not at first - it is very painful at first.  He doesn't use a lot of lube.  He doesn't take his time going in.  He wants and he takes it, it's that simple.  And after my body, in all its intense pain, adjusts to his brutal taking of it, I become animalistic in my heat - just as he likes me.  Anything I do for him, whether I love it or loathe it, is an act of submission, because it gets him exactly what he wants. 


I think this is more what I was seeking when I wrote the OP.  My master has yet to do this but has stated it will be.  He also has stated that the amount of lube will be the dominance because of the pain involved.  [:@]
 
Have had anal sex many times before, but the lube was liberal.  [:D]  I think ownedgirlie's response was exactly what the Anal Dominance is all about.  Thanks!




LotusSong -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/5/2006 11:11:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sunnydays

i think some of you need to resalise the urin is NOT sterile......i repeat....NOT STERILE

im not condoning ppl drinking urine if that is what you want to do.. but please be careful..there is a reason it comes out of our bodies.. it carries bacteria not good for us, chemicals dangerous to the body ( hence the reason the body is gettign rid of it). Ask any dr or lab tech... when you pee in a cup for a dr..and they test it.. they test it for bacteria...again..urine is not sterile..

.. I would like to add.. they do NOT check for taste, either.
 
I've always been of the mind that if my body didn't want it.. yours doesn't need it.



amaidiamond -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/5/2006 11:21:20 AM)

I have to admit the theory that the main thing a Dom would enjoy about anal is because it is something a girl would not normally do is a little worrying.... I mean, with a girl like me (total anal addict) - that enjoys it immensely, I would hope the experience for most Doms would not be lessened...
I guess what I'm saying is, my Dom doesn't really care if I like it or not, he'll do it regardless because he feels like it however the fact that I do like it so much is, if anything a bonus rather than the opposite..

Hope that made sense.



poplolly -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/5/2006 11:47:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunnydays

i think some of you need to resalise the urin is NOT sterile......i repeat....NOT STERILE

im not condoning ppl drinking urine if that is what you want to do.. but please be careful..there is a reason it comes out of our bodies.. it carries bacteria not good for us, chemicals dangerous to the body ( hence the reason the body is gettign rid of it). Ask any dr or lab tech... when you pee in a cup for a dr..and they test it.. they test it for bacteria...again..urine is not sterile..

i have no problem ppl doing  what they want to do..but please be informed


I'm sorry, but unless in the person has a bladder infection, urine IS considered sterile.  Goggle it or go to Ask.com.  Here is only a single link: http://www.medhelp.org/forums/urology/archive/1382.html but I think it sums it up quite nicely.  In fact, if wounded and too far from medical attention, an acknowleged folk remedy recommends you pee on your wound to keep it from becoming infected.  (Not necessarily my idea of a good time, but if it works...!)



Bearlee -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/5/2006 11:55:26 AM)


What would concern me more than a few germs would be the medications a person might be taking.  Meds for bloodpressure, depression, hormones, etc. All are evident in the urine of the person who takes such meds.

beverly



Bearlee -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/5/2006 12:05:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: emdoub

quote:

ORIGINAL: acctonthelook

{...} I do have a problem that it's purely just because it's driven by Dominence. 

Why does anal activity equate ownership for a Master?


Because she wouldn't do it in a 'nilla relationship. 



I dunno emdoub, I learned about it when I was 19 and a newly wed; and still quite vanilla
.........loooooong before I discovered 'the dark side'!   [&:]



poplolly -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/5/2006 12:33:00 PM)

I completely agree.  But the information and "warning" from sunnydays were inaccurate.  You couldn't get me to drink mine or anyone else's urine for anything but I love the idea of the Pee Ceremony for a subbie!

**edited because my brain had a spasm** 



darkbigdaddy -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/5/2006 12:48:50 PM)

Urine only is leaves the bldder is sterile. BUT if the person has an virus or bacteria it can be picked up only it leaves the bladder. This is not common but happens. Once exposed to the "air" urine can pick up "buggies".

Urea is a natural antibacteria but not the best. Also the PH of urine isn't the best for buggies.

If the person is healthy, go for it. Just make sure the person is health before you let them pee all over you, right.



lateralist1 -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/5/2006 12:59:28 PM)

I see anal as part of vanilla sex. It is nice for both parties. However when I am in a D/s relationship with a man my strap-on is part of the way I dominate. I put it on and I'm now the alpha male. It is symbolic I suppose of the transfer of power. Dominating a man is more intense for me because of the inequalities in our society. Right or wrong good or bad that's how I feel.



slavemaia -> RE: Anal Dominence (12/7/2006 8:27:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ShreveportMaster

Because Masters like to be a pain in the ass...it goes along with being an evil rotten bastard [:D]


LMAO -



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