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RE: Common curtesy - 12/2/2006 11:48:39 AM

DiamondOrchid

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I answer every message sent to me. Sometime it takes a while... a message can be read in about 5 seconds, whereas composing a response can take several minutes (I tend to check the profile, peruse the picture if there is one, note hobbies/kinks/whatever that we do/n't have in common, then start writing a decent response) and I don't always have those minutes to spare. One liners will get one liners back, but I since I don't have much spare time, I'm not going to waste the bit I do have on one-line-wonders. I'll get to them when I have time or am really bored.

My point is, everyone (eventually) gets an answer. If I haven't answered your first message, and you (general 'you', not aimed at anyone) send a second complaining about my lack of 'courtesy' because I read it and didn't respond within the hour... it's probably safe to assume that we are NOT compatible, so stop wasting both our time. I'm not here for you. I'm here because it amuses me to be here.

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RE: Common curtesy - 12/2/2006 11:51:30 AM

LadyHugs

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Dear CompelMe, Ladies and Gentlemen;

As for my personal experiences with Bobby/robert2serve; there was absolutely zero nasty or solicitations whatsoever. That is what I am proffering upon the inquiry about 'samples' of what Bobby wrote. I will not take what was sent in the spirit of privacy but, I will vouch for the fact that the correspondence was from a gentleman.

I am not saying that other's have not experienced unkind notes from other individuals and or that it may not happen to another dominant woman but, just for a brief snap shot as far as Bobby/robert2serve is concerned--I was approached respectfully and respectfully responded.
I think it is only fitting, that those who make an effort to be gracious should be treated with equal grace.

Bobby/robert2serve knew up front that distance was a restriction and excluded his consideration but, to me that means he was paying attention to my profile. I've seen other instances where that is not the case. Bobby/robert2serve, in my case, was one of those rare exceptions--he was a gentleman from beginning to the end and handled rejection as a man. Calmly, civil, polite and gracious.
Perhaps other lads will understand this is a good example of courtesy.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Common curtesy - 12/2/2006 7:17:39 PM

LadyTY2Uall

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I think it is polite to send some kind of reply even if it's a "you want me to do WHAT?"
I have answered every message sent to me, even the rude ones lol.

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