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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 6:49:10 PM

Slavetrainer2007

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ORIGINAL: Rover

Me thinks the... errr... ummm.... "trainer" doth protest too much. That's quite a bit of rhetoric just to say that you have no references from any real time organization vouching for your stated active participation and demonstrated expertise as a trainer.

I see that you're new to these boards, and perhaps you're unaccustomed to interacting with real time folks. You'll quickly learn that many people here are not impressed by unverified online resumes. It's darned difficult to lie to people who know better.

John

... Im sorry let me get you a copy of my MA from the BDSM Institute of Alternative Lifestyles. If being part of some real life organisation and having some proof of that makes you feel special and important im happy for you. Being able to say i am a member of... means nothing in BDSM, save you were interested enough to become a member. Your trying to define a Doms abilities based on qualifacations and references from clubs, groups and whatnot. Good job maybe you can do the hiring at Mc Donalds.

You should get a clue, before you join some BDSM club get a members card and go around saying i have real time qualifications " see my card" , do you have one? Why do you care so much if im qualified? you should be worried about you being qualified to decide who is qualified for what. Maybe next we can all stand in a line and you can decide who is qualified to be Dom or sub. That way we all make sure , we are qualified to your liking, Lord Almighty.

Again refrain from the derailment , i know you are no more than the common board troll, every board has them, but do please try to at least stay on topic.

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 6:54:44 PM

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Greetings!

A little confused though... How was the information that your former shared you relevant to your current search? Am i just too muddy headed to figure it out tonight?

Ah, either way, please accept our welcome, and invitation to visit our group. It's nice when people have a chance to connect with those that are real in the lifestyle, struggling with questions and sharing their answers. Always a great thing, imho.

Best wishes on your journey,
David Dream Wizard and his dreamgirl, joy

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 7:00:43 PM

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One sure way to attract a Master, is to show him moving parts in your inventory that he needs, or does not currently have in stock.

Your Local neighborhood NAPA dealer,
Ron

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 7:03:13 PM

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Oh my thats just wrong!

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 7:07:28 PM

mnottertail

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don't play the innocent with me, babe. You got wet.

Ron

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 7:08:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

don't play the innocent with me, babe. You got wet.

Ron

Lol. Maybe moist.

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 7:20:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: atendersoul

I have only been under One until His death in 2000.....if we had private get togethers or within a club..He would permit me to being used by anOther....
what could anyone suggest that is the main attraction on online searching for a Master?

I can only answer for what attracts me...

Be open and honest.

Don't bestow respect on me that I haven't earned from you. Unearned respect means nothing.

Speak English. Talikng in third person, gorish, or W/writing L/like T/this, tells me that the writer and I have little in common.

Don't demean yourself. I know very few dominants, and none who I consider worthy of the term, who seek worthless women. Humiliation and degredation can be a very powerful form of play, but are not something I would base a relationship on. I want the best, not the worst.

Don't be overly defensive. It's a lesson I had to learn myself. We've all had to deal with idiots, but being too cautious is only going to keep potentially good partners away, and won't deter the idiots.

Have perspective. Being kept chained and naked 24/7 isn't realistic for very many. We live in, and must interact with the vanilla world on a regular basis, and speaking for myself, that's not an undesirable thing. I enjoy my vanilla life just as much as my bdsm life, and seek a partner who will fit into both worlds.

Good luck in your search.

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 7:25:20 PM

Slavetrainer2007

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

One sure way to attract a Master, is to show him moving parts in your inventory that he needs, or does not currently have in stock.

Your Local neighborhood NAPA dealer,
Ron

I need that thing you put the piston in ... whats that called again? It has a little spark plug at the top of it....... Do you have any of those in stock?

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 7:31:49 PM

mnottertail

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Clits? you need a hot one or the diesel glow plug type?

How big a hole you throwing it in? Has it been reamed? What you need 40 over?

Oh, what the hell am I thinking of, you're looking for one of them god-damn upside down jobbies, ain't ya? (actual qoute from my favorite junk car guy, god rest his soul, the stories I could tell about him...........Cliff Norgren RULES!!!! I am sure he is rebuilding motors in heaven.......made it to 90 I will never get that far)

Ron

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 7:43:41 PM

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Really, dude... enough of the online posturing. There's nothing particularly special about someone creating an online persona and claiming to be a trainer, Master or Grand Master... you're a dime a dozen.

If you're upset that people will ask you to prove your hair brained assertions, then I suggest that you stop making them. You've portrayed yourself as a trainer, and I've called you on it. Now you're welcome to amend your statements to include the possibility that being a trainer is a neat little online role play game you enjoy playing, and we'll all walk away in agreement. Or you can continue with the charade, and I'll continue to point out that despite the continued bluster, you haven't a lick of evidence that your experience is anything more than two days online reading at Castlerealm.

I see that you're in Illinios and it's quite possible that we know some of the same people. What are some of the groups there that can vouch for your authenticity?

John

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 9:04:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rover

Really, dude... enough of the online posturing. There's nothing particularly special about someone creating an online persona and claiming to be a trainer, Master or Grand Master... you're a dime a dozen.

If you're upset that people will ask you to prove your hair brained assertions, then I suggest that you stop making them. You've portrayed yourself as a trainer, and I've called you on it. Now you're welcome to amend your statements to include the possibility that being a trainer is a neat little online role play game you enjoy playing, and we'll all walk away in agreement. Or you can continue with the charade, and I'll continue to point out that despite the continued bluster, you haven't a lick of evidence that your experience is anything more than two days online reading at Castlerealm.

I see that you're in Illinios and it's quite possible that we know some of the same people. What are some of the groups there that can vouch for your authenticity?

John

LoL go piss in someone elses cheerios cause i ate mine this morning. the only thing your discrediting, i would like to remind you , is yourself. your inability to interact with people without them justifing themselves to you, shows a great insecurity on your part. and you definately dont run in my circles cause your type isnt tolerated in my "circles". your 45 years old ( or thats what your profile says anyway) so why do you insist on acting like a 15 year old and im trying to steal your girl? To me you sound like a middle aged man in midlife crisis and is trying to justify your life by making everyone else( me in this case) justify things to you. You dont want to play forum war with me im quite good at it...i eat flaming trolls for breakfast and wash it down with cheerios. Oh btw you should come up with your own clever "demeaning quote" instead of stealing it off "Reba" reruns lol.

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 9:39:37 PM

Rover

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That's an interesting non-answer, though you get high marks for beating your chest. Seriously, the question isn't that difficult, nor that unusual. It's quite common to be asked for references, and particularly so when somene such as yourself has made some particular claims about themselves.

It really boils down to your veracity.

So, who are the organizations that can and will vouch for your authenticity? It shouldn't be very difficult to answer.

John

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/3/2006 9:43:20 PM

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Ok children, that's enough.

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/4/2006 5:28:02 AM

mons

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greetings

i mean this with respect to each one of you i see two strong men ( no i do not know you but i read some of you writing) when you have such strong thoughts and feeling it would be a treasure to share with other what you know help the new submussive and slaves to see how co,mfortable it will be to know someone of each one of your statist it would work so well. you both have such strong points and thoughts given your abitiy to lead is assure so i think it is ok to share if not with one another but with others

warm smile
mons

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RE: attracting a Master.... - 12/4/2006 5:42:51 AM

Rover

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I do just that, mons. I'm a founding member of the Pittsburgh Leather Archive for Newcomers (PLAN) and present to groups such as the Pittsburgh chapter of The Next Generation (TNG).

Steve & aimee are the munch coordinators at TNG and Beth supervises PLAN (http://pittsburghleather.org/index.php?option=com_contact&Itemid=3).

John

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