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RE: Sub Space - 12/4/2006 6:27:04 PM

ownedgirlie

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I will also note (as I did in the other threads) that subspace is NOT always happy- subspace can go bad, it can become too much, it can get dark.

I have experienced the range from pure, lighter than air bliss to diving deep into the abyss of my inner self - a frightening place to be. For me that darkness was terrifying and overwhelming, yet highly cathartic and healing. I worked out much of what used to be my inner rage in some of those extremely dark places of subspace. Fortunately I was in good hands while doing so.

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RE: Sub Space - 12/4/2006 7:38:37 PM

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i read an article once.. who wrote it or where i found it eludes me now.. but written by a doctor who was involved in this lifestyle. In a study they found that subspace that we have during scene has the same effects as heroine.. i about died when i read that!!

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RE: Sub Space - 12/4/2006 7:43:39 PM

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wow..this has been the most interesting thread i have read...

it seems that sub space is just like bdsm..ther are as many variants out there as their are ppl..

for me it is hte complete trust, saftey, care ,love and all associated feeling i have when in masters arms...in his care.and in his control

pure bliss

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RE: Sub Space - 12/4/2006 8:58:37 PM

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i am interested in the concept that subspace can get very dark. i've not experienced that, and i'm curious what that is about.

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RE: Sub Space - 12/5/2006 12:02:49 AM

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For me, there are levels of subspace. It is somewhat like a medatative state and somewhat as I imagine being high would be like. I experience it differently depending on my mood and what took me there. I drop into a submissive state easily, but it is just the first level where my will sublimates to His. Intense physical sensation drops me into a floaty feeling space. Occasionally I feel as though I leave my body, but that is extremely intense and rare. Other times it is almost like panic, especially if I am bound tightly. Usually there is a drop following that kind of space and He knows I need a lot more cuddling and petting.
The problem with articulating subspace is that it feels different for everyone and even for individuals, it may feel different at different times. Just know that whatever you experience as a submissive may be your subspace. When do you feel most submissive. What is that like for you. You mayu experience what others describe or it may be unique to you. You don't need to experience what others feel; just honor what you feel.

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RE: Sub Space - 12/5/2006 5:36:47 AM

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i am interested in the concept that subspace can get very dark. i've not experienced that, and i'm curious what that is about.

That is interesting to me too, dd. And even though it does not sound ideal, I think the experience would still be most worthwhile. Any closer I can get to understanding my submission is of great value to me.

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RE: Sub Space - 12/5/2006 4:50:07 PM

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Hmm so is subspace really a good thing or is it a point where the body says it has had enough and blocks out the pain?

There is no denying it is a chemical release, it is a natural process but in most cases under extreem conditions the body goes into self defense mode. Could that be what subspace really is?

To many it is total enjoyment, but could it really be the same as the high from drugs? I do not think there has been any real scientific studies on this and because there has not been does not make it right but on the same hand does not make it wrong.

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NO! It is not a bad thing! I have heard it can go bad, but I personally have never experienced it. My apologies for not making myself clear. I was using that situation as an example where I can bring it (sub space) on! At that point, for me, and I am a pretty extreme masochist at times and have been known to "ask" (SAM) for more than I could handle, have focused and brought it on to help me get to the "good" place in my submission. At other times, I have found myself in subspace just being in the presence of a very dominant person.

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RE: Sub Space - 12/5/2006 6:16:56 PM

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Sub space is the wonderful place i go alone. He brings me back and sometimes that pisses me off because i want to stay there.

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