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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 3:29:03 PM

sissifytoserve

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Brandysincharge

Attitude is everything.

Yup..and you can be as arrogant and egoistic as you want but if a sub is frustrated and angry
at his situation...shame on him.

Scratch that...soon to be ex-sub.

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 3:48:33 PM

defiantbadgirl

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I know for a fact that there are people your age into kink. One of the first things I noticed when visiting my ex's grandparents was the paddle hanging on the wall that said "husband tamer". The grandfather was older than you.

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 3:49:16 PM

DiannaVesta

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sissifytoserve

Guess what...NOT happening....

In fact....you just may be a key factor in rejecting my submissiveness.

Your arrogance and poisoned ego is enough to turn me 100% off femdom.

I would rather be dead than be under your thumb.

That breaks my heart. I thought you loved me. :(

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 3:51:44 PM

gooddogbenji

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I just realized that the last three posters could let me have a field day.

Instead, I'll behave and clean out my fish tanks.

I'm sure they'll do quite fine on their own.

Yours,

benji

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 3:58:55 PM

defiantbadgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

I just realized that the last three posters could let me have a field day.

Instead, I'll behave and clean out my fish tanks.

I'm sure they'll do quite fine on their own.

Yours,

benji

I think you would behave better with some duct tape on your mouth.
MMMMPPPPHHHH

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 4:02:08 PM

gooddogbenji

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I won't comment about being able to get out of that.
I won't comment about being able to get out of that.
I won't comment about being able to get out of that.
I won't comment about being able to get out of that.
I won't comment about being able to get out of that.
I won't comment about being able to get out of that.

Deep breath. Deep breath.

Okay.

Yours,

benji

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 4:22:33 PM

defiantbadgirl

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mmmmmmpppppphh

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 4:32:11 PM

gooddogbenji

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nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnkay..... wtf, mate?

Yours,

benji

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 4:56:07 PM

defiantbadgirl

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wooof woof

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 5:23:45 PM

adaddysgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

wooof woof

i think she's flirting with you benji!

DG

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 5:38:16 PM

defiantbadgirl

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Actually, I'm making fun of him the way he makes fun of everyone else.

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 6:23:51 PM

gooddogbenji

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Oh. Well, thanks for explaining that. I honestly had no reply, simply because I had no fucking idea what you were getting at.

Anyone seen that Monty Python interview sketch, where they keep making him do random shit, then acting as if it was really deep?

That's how I felt.

Yours,

benji

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/3/2006 6:59:41 PM

MistressDolly

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quote:

ORIGINAL: skareamoos

It is surely preposterous of me to assume that anyone can privide a reasonable answer to my question, but frustrations drives the fool, so ...... :
THE FACTS: I am in my mid 70s. I have been kinky since prepubescence. (Bound ladies ... or males ... meaningme, were erotic before I understood eroticism.) In earlier years I was able to satisfy these urges, but I am now at an age which, due to some curious anomaly in the female brain, no woman finds alluring.

Nevertheless, the flames of desire burn noi less brightly thyat in the past, and I am bitterly frustrated over my inability to satisfy these rather inane urges. (You are at liberty to insert and (s) into in ane ((blank left deliberately )) if you so desire.)

Finally I get to the point: Does anyone believe that there is the slightest damned chancve that I will be able, at this age, to find an acceptable DS-BDSM partner of whichever persuasion (profile indicates preference) to enhance my so-called "declining years?"

(Responses which say old fool should shut up will be met with understanding, but disdain)

If you lasted so long, thanks.

I was in a Vegas hotel room one weekend giving my slave a spanking. I heard some elderly people outside the room and thought it would be funny to humiliate my slave by having some willing on-lookers watch him get spanked. (I figured it was "Vegas"--anything is possible.) It was a spontaneous decision. After some brief small talk, I got the impression they wouldn't be opposed and I was right. They both were a little older than you: mid 80s. Needlesstosay, they wanted to do more than just watch. She couldn't bring herself to do the spanking but was excited to see her husband do it. I'll never forget the way his fragile body looked as he held the big black leather paddle in his delicate hand and said with a soft shaky voice: "Naughty Naughty Naughty" with each spank of my slave's ass. You could see it in his eyes the xcitement! lol. He looked like a kid in a candy store. Too funny!

So, yes, I would say there is still definitely a chance for you. Without a doubt.

Anything is possible.

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/4/2006 5:27:36 AM

AlexAussieSub

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skareamoos, looks only count until you open your mouth. One of the most popular guys on YouTube would be about your age (I forget his name, but it wouldn't be too hard to find) and stacks of younger people download his videos to hear his opinions on life. If you want an example from the BDSM scene I can remember seeing a Master from the Old Guard scene seriously getting hit on by a girl who would have been about a quarter of his age (but of course he was gay so nothing happened). There are plenty more examples I can think of of girls in their early 20's (and not Anna Nicole Smith gold-digger/psycho types either) going out with guys in their 60's. If they can be popular with the younger generation then so can you. Just make sure you take care of yourself, make sure you have a life and be able to have a conversation on things younger people find interesting and you shouldn't have a problem.

sissifytoserve, I don't agree with DiannaVesta on much, but she's got a point. I'm not trying to be insulting here, but you seriously remind me of an exotic dancer (she went mental whenever you used the word stripper, which is a clue to the sort of personality she had) a friend of mine used to go out with. Like every day she said things like "I'm no good for anything" or "my life's hopeless", and when you asked her what she was on about she said "what are you talking about? I'm a dancer" (the underline is the best way I can put into writing the way she said it). The whole idea of looking for value in herself was totally alien to her. Guess what happened, he dumped her and she hooked up with an alcoholic. I'm not saying that things would have worked out if she'd thought "OK I might not have the best job in the world, but I'll still make sure I'm a fun person to be around", but there definitely would have been some chance for her relationship instead of none. Swap the words cross-dresser for dancer and we have you. This means that if you become the cross-dressing equivalent of the happy, fun-loving girl, instead of the miserable dancer you'll have better relationships.

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/4/2006 10:15:25 PM

ineedotk

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Mistress Dolly, that was the most amusing story I've ever read here on collarchat. Thank you.

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/5/2006 5:11:41 AM

Lashra

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

To the OP:

Yanno, I loved your post. It showed humour, intelligence, and probably a fun guy. If I were dominant, female, and into men, I'd take you here and now. Unfortunately........

Anyway, one great thing about these boards is that most of the Dommes are not superficial. I don't have a picture up and half of them want to spank me.

So keep posting in that spirit, make some friends, and before you know it, someone might come a-knocking.

Yours,

benji

Benji is SO right! OP you have a great attitude and I am sure you will meet just the right Lady. It does take time but she will come along.

To benji, Yes I somedays have visions of strapping your lil furry butt over a spanking bench and letting you have it barehanded. The only thing that ruins the vision is when you start to hump the bench

Puppies, what can you say?

~Lashra

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RE: The usual frustrations - 12/5/2006 10:42:26 AM

Jeniluscious

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Charming post and charming profile. It's unfortunate that it's such a far distance from Detroit to Ocala... then again, I doubt you'd like the weather we're currently having. *stares out the window at the snow*

Still and all, it IS lovely, and service is not limited to impact play. Besides, I like subtle, but evil, sting anyway. :D

Good luck; I don't think you've no luck at all, unlike some posters here. You have a brilliant attitude and that quite often counts for about 75% of the whole thing for first meets.

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