dcnovice
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It's funny: I just got back from helping my aunt decorate (on the scale of several department stores!) for Christmas, so my love-hate relationship with the holiday is in my face. I do enjoy seeing my family, the Messiah (really an Easter piece, I know), the carols, the excuses for celebrating, the wrapping, rereading A Christmas Carol, and (in recent years) making the plum pudding according to my great-grandmother's recipe. And there are times when I do glimpse that elusive Christmas spirit, when the season really does feel like, in Dickens's words, "the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely...." That said, I have very little patience with the commercialization, with my family's tendency to make the decorating such a project that it eclipses the joy, with the cultural wars over whether clerks at Wal-Mart say "Merry Christmas" or "Happy Holidays," with the hysteria. Two things help me stay grounded (well, as close as I get) during the madness. One is that I take time for Advent, the four weeks before Christmas. I love sitting by the light of the Advent wreath, being still and praying. I also spend the second weekend of December on retreat with great folks from a quirky Episcopal church. The second is that I've recognized that I can opt out of a lot of Christmas "musts." I don't send cards unless I feel like it, and I seldom bother with a tree in my small apartment. I skip the mayhem of toy stores, giving books and money to the kids in my life. I don't bake any cookies. Not taking on all these things helps me enjoy what celebrating I do. Warmest wishes of the season to all of you!
< Message edited by dcnovice -- 12/3/2006 8:31:10 PM >
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