TPEOwner -> RE: Slave Registers? (12/4/2006 8:58:31 AM)
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I can't shake this irrational need to expect better of the bdsm community [:D] ~laughs hysterically....um you might be taking the i am lord of my universe a little too seriously... word to the wise: you will be so much happier in this lifestyle long term if you dont judge what other people do to, and with, each other as silly nonsense...and they in turn will be happier with you....[;)] welcome to the boards. Well...I'm all for puncturing the balloons of pomposity that abound in the bdsm world, even when I'm guilty of it myself. We are all of us judgmental, though, no matter how much we might believe otherwise. I have no problem with it, either. It's when people try to influence what other people can and can't do because of their judgments that I have a problem. I might think it's a bit over the edge because someone else has sex with a coconut. I might even say so. Perhaps I'd go so far as to point and laugh. but I wouldn't try to prevent them from doing it. If everyone else drew the line there, the world would be a happier place. As for happiness in the lifestyle, I was happy with it before it turned into a "lifestyle", I'm happy now despite all the silly nonsense, and people can choose to be happy with me or not, but I call em like I see em. Thanks for the welcome. :)
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