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Master & Mistress? - 5/4/2004 9:21:34 PM   
GoddessMarissa


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Status: offline 		I hope I can get some answers because this is very intriguing to me. I am curious about Master & Mistress couples. Do they switch with each other? Or are they just both dominant when another person enter's the relationship? What does Master and Mistress do with each other?

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/5/2004 12:15:52 AM   
MistressDREAD


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In My Relationship
There were three DominanTs
One Mistress and Two Masters
We all stayed in the Dominant
position. We all had slaves under
Us. Love knows no Lifestyle or
gender or age or sexual preferance
or race or religion, it only knows
when it finds People whom come
together in Its name LOVE.

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/5/2004 8:22:02 AM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		in my relationship, my Master and Mistress are both switches who switch with each other and with pre-aranged people. they have more dominant tendancies, in generally, but do need to occationally switch to indulge their other side.

in their interaction with me they are always dominant, because that was how we set up the realtionship when i entered it.

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/5/2004 9:00:35 AM   
sirrob


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Status: offline 		I am a female Domme and my partner, who I live with, is a male Dom. No, we do not switch and our D/s relationships come from outside.
My male submissive has been with me for 3 years and he did live with us for a period of time.
We are currently looking for a female slave who would probably be more for my partner then me.
In the meantime, we do co-top occasionally and are very active within the community in Canada as well as the U.S.

Ms Crysta [e]

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/13/2004 8:51:10 PM   
CruelDomina


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Status: offline 		There is no one "right" answer to this question...so many ways We can be with each other successfully. It's all about deep communication, a loving caring partnership. What you do is what works for both. Just like in a Dom/sub relationship.

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/14/2004 12:13:06 AM   
HouseOfDragon


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Status: offline 		All I can add is what works for me. I was already in the Lifestyle when I brought my husband into it. At the time he really tried to Switch for me but after 3 years of trying and with it just causing issues. We agreed to leave D/s at the door and when it is just our time we are just husband and wife nothing more. With the outside he has his slave I have mine it is a united front and for us this works it makes a well rounded home and marriage. We now have 8 years together happy years I might add. May A/all be so blessed.

Ms A,
HoD
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that means respect is Earned not Demanded"~

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/14/2004 12:44:16 AM   
GoddessMarissa


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Status: offline 		I think that's great, whatever works for you. It is always nice to have a partner that really understands you and your needs. That was insitfull and l love to hear about those type of relationships that have been long term.

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/14/2004 2:29:14 AM   
ShadeDiva


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Status: offline 		It's all relative to the people directly involved in the relationship as is true of all things that humans are involved in.

There is no answer that is set in stone when it comes to BDSM or people - I'm a bit surprised that someone with your years of experience wouldn't have realized that or come across this before - this would be fairly standard in the realm of BDSM, I'd think.

Switches are everywhere, especially one switch or two in a relationship, or is your area one of those areas where switches are hounded into the shadows because of people's silly prejudices?

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/14/2004 12:53:16 PM   
GoddessMarissa


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Status: offline 		I have switched in the past and have had my own experiences, I was just curious about others.

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/20/2004 9:17:08 PM   
ShadeDiva


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Status: offline 		<nods> I was aware that you had switched in the past - just this seemed like a very basic question considering the years of experience one of your sites states, so I was wondering if your location wasn't switch friendly and they were all in hiding as some places are like that.

I also suppose I didn't read your question as asking for folks experiences since it didn't ask for that, as much as asking them what switch couples do - I guess it just seems obvious to me that they would do whatever they *wanted* to do and that of course there could be no real one answer.

Thus why I asked if switches were rare, but you didn't answer that, so I'll ask again, hehehe, are they rare where you are at?

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/22/2004 12:09:54 AM   
GoddessMarissa


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Status: offline 		I have seen and scened with many switches, so no I dont think there rare. I also believe that we all have switched in different aspects of our lives be it BDSM or any other area. I dont switch any more as far as BDSM goes.

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/22/2004 7:21:09 AM   
ShadeDiva


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I know a few folks would argue that but I somewhat agree in some sense or another to some extent, anyway.

~ShadeDiva

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/22/2004 12:01:14 PM   
MsDawnbbwdomme


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Status: offline 		[B]My husband and I met in alt.com about 5 yrs ago. He moved in with my ex and me as my sub on March 20th 2000. We got married on Sept 20th 2003. I should mention my hubby and I are poly and bisexual. We hosted an alternate lifestyle club in PA that had mostly submissives in the group, my hubby starting topping to help me out with the group... we found he was very good at it and so he became a switch. Usually he would only sub to me. In Dec we met a wonderful female sub whom he collared and he decided he is really a Dom that occasionally likes to be his wife's crossdressing whore pain slut LOL. We both scene with others and hope to meet a male slave or sub to live with us 24/7. I do not and can not switch... I tried on our honeymoon and it was a nightmare YUCK!!!! I would add having 2 dominants in the home can be difficult BUT it can and DOES work with much communication. Blessings MsDawn[/B]

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 5/22/2004 12:11:41 PM   
ShadeDiva


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsDawnbbwdomme
I would add having 2 dominants in the home can be difficult BUT it can and DOES work with much communication.


I dunno - a good wrestling match releases a lot of angst. *chortle*

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 10/27/2005 9:44:43 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		My wife and I are both Alpha/Dominants. We are also both Gorean and she is my Free Companion. We have no issues over slaves at all. At the moment we are looking for a kajirus for her and I'm not looking at all. Even though we have an excelent pertnership, when push comes to shove, I have the final word, however there are many occasions when Neets calls the shots, especially in areas in which she is best.

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 10/27/2005 10:17:26 AM   
Kasia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessMarissa

I hope I can get some answers because this is very intriguing to me. I am curious about Master & Mistress couples. Do they switch with each other? Or are they just both dominant when another person enter's the relationship? What does Master and Mistress do with each other?

I am nobodys Mistress yet and my husband has no tendencies to be anybodys Master. But we are both dominant personalities.
Do you mean switching in bed or what? Yes, sometimes. Otherwise I wouldnt call it switching, just making reasonable compromises. If we didnt, there would be no relationship.
If another person enters our relationship - and that can be only sexually, yes, we are both dominants.

As for what do we do with each other..... we watch TV, talk, cuddle, go for a walks, share our sexual fantasies, have fun and sometimes argue (that is probably something quite terrible for someone witnessing, but we manage to make up later on very nicely)........ like all other couples sharing strong bond of love and respect. I dont find that being dominant ot whatever should affect that at least.

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 10/27/2005 10:54:18 AM   
Evanesce


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quote:

I hope I can get some answers because this is very intriguing to me. I am curious about Master & Mistress couples. Do they switch with each other? Or are they just both dominant when another person enter's the relationship? What does Master and Mistress do with each other?


Master and I are both dominant in our interactions with others. Within the privacy of our relationship, even though I am still dominant, I am His slave, and I defer to Him in all areas.

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 10/27/2005 8:06:13 PM   
LadiesBladewing


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Status: offline 		Though this question asked about M/F dominant couples, I am part of a F/F couple. We acceed to each other's strengths in the running of the household, but neither of us switches, and our servants serve both of us.

Lady Zephyr

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessMarissa

I hope I can get some answers because this is very intriguing to me. I am curious about Master & Mistress couples. Do they switch with each other? Or are they just both dominant when another person enter's the relationship? What does Master and Mistress do with each other?

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 10/27/2005 10:18:25 PM   
MissDiandSirHugh


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Status: offline 		We are both Dom here and have tryed switch but neither of us could do it or be part of it just was not somethign we found able to so our subs and slaves are from out side and hope soon to have one inside full time

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RE: Master & Mistress? - 10/28/2005 4:36:11 AM   
chgodomcouple


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Status: offline 		Master and I are both doms... however, right now we are searching for slaves because how we cant do certain things to each other somethings causes struggles in our relationship.
Lately i been letting him do things to me that i would never let anyone else do.... and i learned not to talk on commands as much anymore... hard thing to do for me..... he said that i have potential to be a switcher but i just cant see myself that way. but in the end we work it out, we talk alot about things and see all the possibilities...

As far as dom/domme relationship goes.. it depends on the couple and what they trully want... but let me tell you one thing It aint easy!

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