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RE: Lessons. - 12/9/2006 11:11:15 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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Aw cmon man, I thought all slaves simply instantly trusted and were so much stronger and better at communication than vanillas?

Myth busted!

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RE: Lessons. - 12/10/2006 2:45:34 AM

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Never assume- wait for the Facts

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RE: Lessons. - 12/10/2006 9:55:08 AM

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Thank you to all who wrote to my post. I value every workd writen. I am happy that for some this post brought back good feelings and I hope you enjoy the feelings that comes from within.

I just want to say also, with this message board I now feel more open with my submissiveness. I dont feel werid or as shy because good and important information is only a post away. Thanks to all who are helping me become more free and safe with what I am.........I'll never forget the words I've read. Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Lessons. - 12/10/2006 7:11:00 PM

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Thanks both ownedgirlie and julie for reminding me of one more important lesson i have learned.

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RE: Lessons. - 12/11/2006 5:05:24 AM

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I lernt that disapointing him hurts more than any phisical thing he could do 2 me.

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RE: Lessons. - 12/11/2006 6:45:39 AM

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i agree with this...the intangible lessons i have learned already are so intertwined.

However, i receive assignments to perform during the week when we are apart. These are based on His and my goals of personal developement. For example: one goal was to learn massage. He assigned this not just so i could give Him a better massage but because He knows of my needs as a healer and wants to help me develope that aspect of myself. This particular assignment surprised us both in its continued success and evolution. For me, it signifies the strength of my Master in His assignment of this.

it goes back to communication, especially the initial conversations where you are getting to know each other. As i mentioned in another thread, i would never thought i would have chosen a sadist for a master but there are many types of sadists and He is the type to break down my walls that He has already "seen" thru to pull out the best of me. The assignments He gives me enhance the process He has started and are trully intuitive on His part.