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Lessons. - 12/7/2006 4:41:28 PM

delust666

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Hello again, I am back with another question.
My Master is very big into my idea that I have, he likes me vocing them also. One thing I am having a problems with ideas with is lesson ideas. He ahs asked me this many times. I have told him as many things as I can think if that I needed help with and he is working on those but I wanna know if anyone has any good ideas that are close to them that I might find intresting and put thought into....I hope ppl undestand what I am asking.....As a Sub whats lesson did your Master teach you that your keep close to you

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RE: Lessons. - 12/7/2006 4:46:33 PM

Quivver

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A very Dear old Master taught me that love isnt a possession, it's yours, and it cant be taken away.
Once realized, that is PRICELESS!

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The problem with communication ... is the illusion that it has been accomplished. ~George Bernard Shaw

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RE: Lessons. - 12/7/2006 4:47:09 PM

Tikkiee

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quote:

ORIGINAL: delust666

Hello again, I am back with another question.
My Master is very big into my idea that I have, he likes me vocing them also. One thing I am having a problems with ideas with is lesson ideas. He ahs asked me this many times. I have told him as many things as I can think if that I needed help with and he is working on those but I wanna know if anyone has any good ideas that are close to them that I might find intresting and put thought into....I hope ppl undestand what I am asking.....As a Sub whats lesson did your Master teach you that your keep close to you

That I am indeed worthy.

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RE: Lessons. - 12/7/2006 5:43:13 PM

littleone35

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He taught me that i can trust him and that trust is the most important aspact in any relationship and love and respect are close behind.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Lessons. - 12/7/2006 6:05:26 PM

pixelslave

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There are many different kinds of lessons that one can learn. Some, one learns over time and aren't things they can learn in a week, a month or even a year. Some lessons are about yourself and what you are made of. Others are about what you have been taught and whether or not what you have been taught fits with what you have observed about your reality, or the reality that you wish to live. Then there are lessons that are about skills, abilities, limits, and self-discipline. These are all self-oriented lessons that I have listed. There are many others to learn about compassion, caring, observation, listening, and so on; lessons that I'd refer to as being "other oriented". Without knowing more of where you think your strengths and weaknesses lie, its impossible to give you advice, only to give you this kind of list upon which you can reflect upon.

In summary, your master can help you learn many things about yourself, how you perceive others and how they perceive you as well. Each lesson requires honesty. If you can't be honest with yourself when you look into the mirror, you can't hardly expect to at all be capable of being honest with your master. If you haven't learned that lesson, I suggest that's where you start.

- pixel

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RE: Lessons. - 12/7/2006 6:09:32 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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That time together reveals all lessons in their own way.

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RE: Lessons. - 12/7/2006 9:19:11 PM

ownedgirlie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tikkiee
That I am indeed worthy.

I have to echo this. In a most profound way.

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RE: Lessons. - 12/8/2006 7:33:26 AM

darksdesire

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i've learned how to trust.
i've learned to value my submissiveness
i've learned i can communicate my own needs, and i've learned how to do so in an honest and respectful manner.
i've learned to like myself
i've learned congruency

No matter how much i work at serving and pleasing him, i can't help but think i've got the better end of the deal.

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RE: Lessons. - 12/8/2006 10:50:37 AM

MmakeMme

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I am learning to find balance, inner tranquility, in letting go and giving Him what I am.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. ~~ Dalai Lama

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RE: Lessons. - 12/8/2006 11:44:41 AM

Kalira

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Biggest lesson I learned was to never disobey

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We are more easily led part by part to an understanding of the whole.
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RE: Lessons. - 12/8/2006 11:45:48 AM

agirl

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I'm not quite sure what you mean entirely(practical or mental) but I'll write a few here that I've learned or had enormous help with.

He's taught me;

... to budget.
... to be stoical.
... to bear pain of all kinds.
... time management.
... to trust (even if it's only him)
... to be careful what I wish for.
... a little bit of self-discipline.

There are tons of other things that he's influenced, too many to begin mentioning, really. Those are off the top of my head.

agirl

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RE: Lessons. - 12/8/2006 12:08:16 PM

agirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kalira

Biggest lesson I learned was to never disobey

Crikey....lol. I've learned that it's bloody painful to disobey but not never to do it.

agirl

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RE: Lessons. - 12/8/2006 12:18:29 PM

AquaticSub

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He taught me how to be a better gamer. I kill zombies like flies now!

Seriously though, we've taught each other. In being his submissive I've realized that there are times and places for everything. There are times when I need to speak up and say what I want or I think. Because if I don't and he makes the decision without my input and then finds out that I didn't like it/felt uncomfortable/was miserable about it, he is going to swat my ass and tell me that's what I get for not talking to him about it.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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RE: Lessons. - 12/8/2006 7:19:29 PM

kisshou

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He taught me the difference between a want and a need.

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RE: Lessons. - 12/8/2006 9:16:05 PM

LaMspeach

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Master has taught me so many things that don't know where to begin. Perhaps the most important ones are ... to find myself and be true to it. There is no shame in being ourselves as long as it is natural. He taught me to trust again, to communicate openly and that i am worthy.

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"Only when the year has grown cold does one know that the pine and cypress are the last to wither"

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RE: Lessons. - 12/9/2006 8:56:01 PM

homework

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I am just being with my Dom.The three most important lessons so far have been trust, communication and being careful when I ask for things. It can end up I get exaclty what I asked for and it ends up that it wasn't what I was expecting at all.

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RE: Lessons. - 12/9/2006 9:05:16 PM

DiurnalVampire

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Angel has learned that being beautiful depends on how you act as much as how you look.
We have both learned that without communication, you aret going to get anywhere
He has learned that just ebcasue something scares you doesnt mean you arent going to enjoy it in the end
He has learned that service doesnt have to involve sex
And most important in my eyes, he has finally learned that as his owner, I am going to love and cherish him wether or not I necessarily always agree with him. Just becasue he gets in trouble doesnt mean I am going to stop loving him, it just means he is going to be taught correctly.

DV

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If you cannot change your mind, how are you so sure you still have one? -proverb

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RE: Lessons. - 12/9/2006 10:05:35 PM

juliaoceania

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There have been a few lessons, but the most important one was that he wasn't going to leave because I voiced a negative emotion, that it was ok to feel things that weren't happy, mellow or joyful. It is a huge lesson, and one I will never forget or stop being grateful for.

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Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

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RE: Lessons. - 12/9/2006 10:18:27 PM

ownedgirlie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

There have been a few lessons, but the most important one was that he wasn't going to leave because I voiced a negative emotion, that it was ok to feel things that weren't happy, mellow or joyful. It is a huge lesson, and one I will never forget or stop being grateful for.

This gave me chills. I remember learning this lesson. A huge lesson, very huge. He was the first person in my life I was safe with like this. Thank you for writing this post. It reminded me of something I can never be reminded too much of.

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RE: Lessons. - 12/9/2006 10:21:23 PM

juliaoceania

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Yeah, made me weepy when it sprang to mind, and I will have to direct him to this post so he knows I am grateful..smiles.

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Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

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