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RE: What makes yours different... - 12/10/2006 9:28:42 AM

Pangolin

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The intimate relationship I had with my slaves were very different from any relationship I could have had in my social life of in my former vanilla private life.

When I use my slave, I transform an human being into an object, designed just to please me, whatever I ask her.
I like this power, I like specially the fact that my slave gives that to me. I mean, even I put chains, collar on her, she basically agree to everything I do with her.

So the submission of my slave is the gift of her will.

That's something that I cannot find elsewhere, and makes such relationships so precious to me.

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RE: What makes yours different... - 12/10/2006 3:16:42 PM

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That much as I love and cherish my family and friends, my partner is the one I will spend the rest of my life with (God willing) and we're working toward the same future, one we've both wanted since before we knew the other even existed.

To me, that's what makes this relationship my first priority. There are many others who come close second, but he's what fills the part of my future that was missing.

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RE: What makes yours different... - 12/10/2006 5:59:05 PM

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i think for me, its the depth of connection. Is how far i let some one in. Even close friends that i have had going on 9 years do not know the very core of me. Its the amount of myself that i share. With my MasterlyDomDaddy (ooo i like that) i share so much of myself. Its a step by step process. Today i might shut the doors and share nothing and tomorrow i might share another part of myself that i have never shared before.

i do not think - i could ever share so much of myself again. Even with another human being. Partly becaue i do not know how i shared so much as it is and secondly because i do not think there is another person with as much patience and perseverance. From the depths of the sharing comes the deep connection.

Which is what makes my r/s different then any other friendship or what not. I share with others yet never to the level i share with him.

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RE: What makes yours different... - 12/10/2006 6:09:07 PM

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What makes your intimate relationships different than other relationships you have? When you break it all down, what are the defining factors that make one relationship more important to you than another? More of a priority than another?

i'd have to say it's intimacy itself. i define intimacy as the willingness and effort to reveal myself honestly and completely to another, and to provide a place that motivates them to do the same. i believe there are different degrees of intimacy depending on just how much people are willing to trust one another.

When i think of love in spiritual terms i feel love toward most people in general. But what makes that love or relationship feel "special" to me is intimacy and trust. To reveal myself, fears, doubts, hopes, dreams, wounds etc. and to carry theirs, in my heart and Soul, is something that rises above the common and into something more divine. i am blessed that i share a level of intimacy with a few close friends as well, but nothing like what i experience with Master, exists between me and anyone else.

i have never been with anyone before who is as willing as i am to reveal Himself completely. That makes my present relationship extremely special to me and this honesty that W/we share fuels O/our M/s and brings about, at times, TOTAL power exchange.

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She reaches up, not for the apple, but for what causes it to be there.
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