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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/15/2008 4:05:57 AM   
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Two of my previous partners were uncircumcised, and one of the things that I liked to do was pull the foreskin back when doing cbt, and use various stingy lotions or whatnot on the head. It is definitely more sensitive than a circumcised penis, however, so you really want to 'go light' on any products used there, and I didn't use things for longer than 20 minutes or so.  I also kept a water spray bottle on hand to dilute things if need be.

(Honestly, I *would* recommend reading The Family Jewels for advice on cbt play, but we all know how well that went in the other thread. It's a really good book! )

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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/15/2008 9:03:15 AM   
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i'm going to have to politely ask you ladies to be a little quieter, Ma'am is plenty creative enough without all of the brilliant ideas presented by all of you wonderful ladies.

*he crosses the room to the door and goes back to his place, where his sits before the computer with his legs crossed*



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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/15/2008 10:21:50 AM   
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Cirmcized or uncircumcized; in my experience, women care much less about a penis than the man it is attached to.  


I agree with you darch!  I was born in an area where boys weren't circumcised unless they were Jewish.  Later, we moved to an area where being circumcised was the norm regardless of faith.  Apparently a lot of doctors made plenty of money snipping off foreskins in that part of the country.  As a result, I felt "different" for still having mine and can remember being teased about it, along with a few other boys that still had theirs. 
 
Since becoming a man, I've found that there are women who indeed appreciate the fact that I still have it, even if I've been the first uncircumcised male they've ever been with.  I've also been with women who prefer uncircumcised men and who also greatly enjoyed having fun with CBT on my foreskin. 
 
Let's just not talk about regular clothespins and foreskins in the same sentance though unless you want to hear me beg to have them removed!  
 
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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/15/2008 10:35:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaMistressa

Two of my previous partners were uncircumcised, and one of the things that I liked to do was pull the foreskin back when doing cbt, and use various stingy lotions or whatnot on the head. It is definitely more sensitive than a circumcised penis, however, so you really want to 'go light' on any products used there, and I didn't use things for longer than 20 minutes or so.  I also kept a water spray bottle on hand to dilute things if need be.

(Honestly, I *would* recommend reading The Family Jewels for advice on cbt play, but we all know how well that went in the other thread. It's a really good book! )



As an FYI for those reading, water doesn't dilute all products and can actually make some of them feel more intense.  Depending on the product, other solutions may be more appropriate to apply than water in order to dilute their effects.  Aloe lotion, hydrocortisone, baby oil (mineral oil), some make-up removers, and a few others come to mind.  Water tends to intensify most of the mentholated products that I'm aware of  (e.g. BenGay or Tiger Balm since they're not water soluable). 
 
The same would apply to other irritants as well when applied to areas that are considered mucous membranes (which would includ the head of the penis & particularly the urethra, all being naturally spread if in contact with the foreskin).  Some of the homeopathic remedy books may have treatments listed for them.  I simply don't recall what they are or have of those books at hand at hand at the moment.
 
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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/15/2008 10:48:38 AM   
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I agree with you darch!  I was born in an area where boys weren't circumcised unless they were Jewish.  Later, we moved to an area where being circumcised was the norm regardless of faith.  Apparently a lot of doctors made plenty of money snipping off foreskins in that part of the country.  As a result, I felt "different" for still having mine and can remember being teased about it, along with a few other boys that still had theirs. 
 
Since becoming a man, I've found that there are women who indeed appreciate the fact that I still have it, even if I've been the first uncircumcised male they've ever been with.  I've also been with women who prefer uncircumcised men and who also greatly enjoyed having fun with CBT on my foreskin. 
 
Let's just not talk about regular clothespins and foreskins in the same sentance though unless you want to hear me beg to have them removed!  
 
 - pixel



First, i don't know if i can forgive you for bringing up clothespins at all.  But yeah, the main complaints i've heard against uncircumcized penis are the "fragrance" and "cheese".  These are both issues that can be easily remedied by proper hygiene.

I've generally had very few conversations with women i've been with about being uncut.  Normally these conversations only arise when i hear a woman who states a particular preference.  In the past, and this was partly a self-confidence thing (as my size when erect is more than average but soft i have very little in the way of a "package"), i had always been careful that the first time a woman saw my penis was when it was already erect. While, like i said, part of the reason was self-confidence, i've noticed that when erect there is none of that "earthworm" appearance and my penis is visibly undistinguisable from a cut member.

In my experience, with women who have stated a strong preference for circumcized; after having been with me, they opinion has changed to basically not caring, so long as it's clean.  On the other hand, i had been with several women who never even noticed that i wasn't cut.

On the whole, i believe circumcision should wait until the child/man is of an age to be able to informatively decide for himself.  Though, i can't imagine a guy voluntarily going through any cosmetic surgery in that area of their own accord; without having had some related medical issues.


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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/15/2008 6:02:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

As an FYI for those reading, water doesn't dilute all products and can actually make some of them feel more intense.  Depending on the product, other solutions may be more appropriate to apply than water in order to dilute their effects.  Aloe lotion, hydrocortisone, baby oil (mineral oil), some make-up removers, and a few others come to mind.  Water tends to intensify most of the mentholated products that I'm aware of  (e.g. BenGay or Tiger Balm since they're not water soluable). 
 
The same would apply to other irritants as well when applied to areas that are considered mucous membranes (which would includ the head of the penis & particularly the urethra, all being naturally spread if in contact with the foreskin).  Some of the homeopathic remedy books may have treatments listed for them.  I simply don't recall what they are or have of those books at hand at hand at the moment.
 
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You are correct, and thank you for the clarification. I use water-soluable products (specifically Ben Gay gel), so water will dissipate it somewhat. But yes, water for water soluable things, and it won't stop them 100%. Oils will,  but then you can't use condoms afterwards (like anyone would want to have sex with someone with Tiger Balm on their member!)

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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/15/2008 6:32:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaMistressa

quote:

ORIGINAL: pixelslave

As an FYI for those reading, water doesn't dilute all products and can actually make some of them feel more intense.  Depending on the product, other solutions may be more appropriate to apply than water in order to dilute their effects.  Aloe lotion, hydrocortisone, baby oil (mineral oil), some make-up removers, and a few others come to mind.  Water tends to intensify most of the mentholated products that I'm aware of  (e.g. BenGay or Tiger Balm since they're not water soluable). 
 
The same would apply to other irritants as well when applied to areas that are considered mucous membranes (which would includ the head of the penis & particularly the urethra, all being naturally spread if in contact with the foreskin).  Some of the homeopathic remedy books may have treatments listed for them.  I simply don't recall what they are or have of those books at hand at hand at the moment.
 
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You are correct, and thank you for the clarification. I use water-soluable products (specifically Ben Gay gel), so water will dissipate it somewhat. But yes, water for water soluable things, and it won't stop them 100%. Oils will,  but then you can't use condoms afterwards (like anyone would want to have sex with someone with Tiger Balm on their member!)



LOL!  Would that be a case of avoiding "what goes around comes around?"  LaMistressa, please don't tell me you wouldn't want to enjoy the intense sensation of having the say the "white" version of Tiger Balm inside you??  I'm certain your sub would unknowingly be happy to add lots of water based lube!
 
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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/15/2008 8:12:28 PM   
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LOL!  Would that be a case of avoiding "what goes around comes around?"  LaMistressa, please don't tell me you wouldn't want to enjoy the intense sensation of having the say the "white" version of Tiger Balm inside you??  I'm certain your sub would unknowingly be happy to add lots of water based lube!
 
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Having accidentally rubbed that in my eye area before, I'm going to vote "hells, no" on this one!

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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/15/2008 10:56:20 PM   
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Well, I'm cut and I'm so glad it happened when I was a baby.  I don't remember the agonizing pain and excrutiating discomfort...LOL.  At least I think I was circumcised as a baby, otherwise I've pretty much stroked off the excess skin while masturbating as often as I do and made it look cut.

Seriously though, I'm glad I'm circumcised because I don't like the idea of Lil' Johnny playing peek-a-boo.  To each their own, though.  Some women like them, some don't, and some don't care.  Mistress likes the one I'm carrying around, so She's taken ownership of him, too.  That makes me so proud of him, after all, I grew him myself! 

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RE: Uncircumcised sub - 1/17/2008 7:06:06 PM   
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First, i don't know if i can forgive you for bringing up clothespins at all.


What can I say?  Someone's gotta keep the sadists among the dominant ladies around here entertained.

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But yeah, the main complaints i've heard against uncircumcized penis are the "fragrance" and "cheese".  These are both issues that can be easily remedied by proper hygiene.


Absolutely!

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i've noticed that when erect there is none of that "earthworm" appearance and my penis is visibly undistinguisable from a cut member.


Unlike you, my foreskin is still visible when erect and has always been a problem for me in regard to using condoms.  Movement of my foreskin back & forth within the condom, tends to work them foreward such that they eventually "walk" their way toward the tip of my penis, sometimes falling off; not exactly what one would hope for if desiring to have "safer sex"!  
 
When I first separated at the beginning of my divorce with my now ex-wife/former-Mistress, a very helpful woman at the local adult store suggested using O-rings or one of the various jelly style rings/stretchable stimulators that are currently available to help hold condoms in place at the base of my penis.  Finally, at the fine age of 48, my problem with them was solved!  I still don't like the loss of stimulation that results when I use them, but at least they no longer want to work their way off; interrupting all the fun!
 
 - pixel



< Message edited by pixelslave -- 1/17/2008 7:12:54 PM >


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