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RE: Dom seeks Dom . . . for Matchmaking purposes, of co... - 12/15/2006 3:55:48 PM

MmakeMme

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This has nothing to do with proactivity. It sounds like neither of you want to let go. Inspect your motives carefully.

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RE: Dom seeks Dom . . . for Matchmaking purposes, of co... - 12/15/2006 7:18:13 PM

Tamerofwild1s

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well . if your looking to find her a Dom . then you know what she likes and dislikes in men obviously ... search those Doms out for her . if you would like a better option . why not give her a list of good question she can ask herself of any prospective Doms .....

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RE: Dom seeks Dom . . . for Matchmaking purposes, of co... - 12/15/2006 7:41:21 PM

Hisslavedesires

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Each M/s relationship is very different.... we started with the CREEDS on www.submissiveloving.com and my mind went directly to the Modern Master's Creed, which reads....
"Owner
The Modern Master recognises His responsibility that in accepting the gift of submission from His slave/submissive, He has obligations. He owes her His trust and will behave with the utmost trustworthiness too. His submissive must be safe in the knowledge that he will never harm her (the definition of harm will have been clearly stated before the transfer of power). . He will recognise that His responsibilities transcends any agreement. He cannot allow His submissive to enter into a self-destructive activity no matter how willingly He will manage the transfer of power; accepting that it is He who should ensure that all activities that He expects from His submissive will have been discussed and honour the fact that no submissive can honourably be obliged to comply with any omissions. He will honour His submissive's hard limits as He would His own.
**** While always seeking to make this relationship His last, He will honour His obligations should the relationship fail. His goal will be to leave His submissive whole and able to trust again."
Granted most girls are just released ..... dumped. Can love, devotion and loyalty just be "dumped?" Esp by the woman?
Yes the motives need to be deeply evaluated.... but I applaud this one for his attempt to "leave his submissive whole."

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RE: Dom seeks Dom . . . for Matchmaking purposes, of co... - 12/15/2006 9:45:56 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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First off I applaud your efforts to help out ....and although La has a point I too,disagree...From what I can gleen from Talls OP..she has been doing her own search and has been running across the very many wankers and trolls out there.Sometimes they are very hard to spot,the words it takes a thief to catch a thief comes to mind...why not have a former player Dominant help weed out and spot other players, trolls, or wankers...why make it hard when there is a way to cut through the chaff and cut down on the destructive forces out there...do not choose for her Tall...just simply show her the way...be well...Tempting

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