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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 7:50:02 PM

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Having children was her idea and not mine. I did this as a favor to her. Besides it will be cheaper for me to stay married with the way divorce laws are - she has no idea of my activites or of my plans to become a slave.

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 7:50:08 PM

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I get it...this has GOT to be someone's idea of a joke. I should say that you have got to be someone's idea of a joke.

LOL And what was your first hint?

That the profile was only just created?

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 7:50:57 PM

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That and no one can honestly believe the utter nonsense he is spouting.

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 7:51:22 PM

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MsSonnetMarwood: You're supposed to give us a heads up at the beginning of these sort of posts so we can put our drinks down before we start laughing.

He DID! Look at that handle. If that wasn't enough, check out this sad sack's laughable profile. Sonnet, had he put up a flashing 10 ft neon beacon that said "ATTENTION: I AM A WANKER" he couldn't have given you a clearer heads up.

So lets ignore Mr. Soft Boiled and get back to what could be an interesting thread.

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 7:53:44 PM

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Now ladies - there is nothing wrong with a little Saturday evening humor...........

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 7:58:33 PM

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Is that you LaM?

You little scamp, you.

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 7:58:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: SlaveHardBoner

From my perspective any woman who gets cheated on got cheated on for a reason.

You did something wrong to cause him to do that. Your objective in a relationship, whether you are a Domme or not, should be to keep your man happy...........

And you wonder why your single?
Is it not the man's job to keep his woman happy as well? Or is it one sided, because no matter what the relationship might be, its the MAN who is the main point?
What about when a woman cheats on a man, does that mean the man did something to deserve it too?

Get real. When someone cheats, its becasue they dont have the guts to tell their partner that theres a problem. Instead, they sneak around. And it isnt just men that cheat and do this, women do it too. Cheating boils down to being unable or unwilling to communicate with your partner, and instead of resolving a problem, just looking for whatevers missing elsewhere.

AS to the OPs question, I have not noticed subs to have more trouble with fidelity on average. I have, however, noticed that the more jealous the woman is, the more likely that the man wil stray. Its almost like a self fulfilling prophecy... if your always worried they are out doing something wrong even when they arent, eventually they will.

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 8:01:49 PM

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No need to ignore him, his profile is already gone...LOL

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 8:02:49 PM

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*retracts claws* Sorry about that, hit a nerve.

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 8:05:42 PM

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Good luck finding ANYONE with your profile!

Even as a pro domme, I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole after reading your posts.
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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 8:06:51 PM

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You aren't the only one that he got to. I don't understand why people think that things like that are humorous.

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 8:09:23 PM

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Um, I sure hope you were referring to the OP and not to me. That's not to say that I want you to touch me with your ten foot pole, but I hate to rule out any option :)

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 8:09:55 PM

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No need to ignore him, his profile is already gone...LOL

So it is! Ahhhh, what a shame!

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 8:13:18 PM

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Um, I sure hope you were referring to the OP and not to me. That's not to say that I want you to touch me with your ten foot pole, but I hate to rule out any option :)

Referring to our 'boner' poster dear.
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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 8:18:17 PM

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.is there such a thing as a faithful man? or a faithful sub?

Yes

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 11:41:18 PM

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No.

That's the end of this conversation, right?

Oh, as long as we're asking stuff like this, I have a question too. Is it possible for women to look over their shoulders before they change lanes?

Just wondering.

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is it possible for a man to be faithful

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 11:46:14 PM

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Oh, as long as we're asking stuff like this, I have a question too. Is it possible for women to look over their shoulders before they change lanes?

Just wondering.

Yes, but wether or not we actually change what we planned on doing because of what we saw there is a different story

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is it possible for a man to be faithful

Yes

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/16/2006 11:50:02 PM

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This question has come out of some recent conversations I have had with some male friends and I was wondering others opinions..... is it possible for a man to be faithful....is it in their nature or even if they do try.. is it always a battle?

Another thing.. has anyone else observed that it seems that many male subs they encounter seem to lack fidelity? A higher average then vanilla men? Perhaps many dabble outside their vanilla relationships.. or its the fantasy... or whatever...but I am curious of others opinions...and experiences...is there such a thing as a faithful man? or a faithful sub?

I think this is another one of those cases of one's personal interactions with other people blinding them to everything else not in their particular circle. I'm very faithful whenever I am in a relationship. I know a number of others who are extremely trustworthy as well. For me, I'm never looking for someone else. I'm almost always overjoyed beyond belief to mean something to the woman I'm with. I do see a lot of cheating going on around me with other people, but that doesn't mean I'm going to become one of those. I've never done so in the past, and I can't imagine ever doing so in the future.

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/17/2006 7:35:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistrssM

This question has come out of some recent conversations I have had with some male friends and I was wondering others opinions..... is it possible for a man to be faithful....is it in their nature or even if they do try.. is it always a battle?

Another thing.. has anyone else observed that it seems that many male subs they encounter seem to lack fidelity? A higher average then vanilla men? Perhaps many dabble outside their vanilla relationships.. or its the fantasy... or whatever...but I am curious of others opinions...and experiences...is there such a thing as a faithful man? or a faithful sub?

Why do you think monogamy is natural for human beings, male or female?

Or do you mean something else by "fidelity"?

If you mean why aren't they "faithful" then you are confused. We live in a poly family but my men are completely loyal and faithful to me and to my expectations. Perhaps I have more realistic or "easy" expectations?

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RE: Men and Fidelity - 12/17/2006 10:06:45 AM

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Can't speak for anyone else but I don't stray if I'm in a relationship or even if seeing someone on a regular basis. IMHO a person should at least have the decency to wait until a split before they move on to another....cheating or straying is the ultimate slap in the face....total disrespect.

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