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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/20/2006 8:31:25 AM

insanityprevails

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ORIGINAL: littlesubjess

Wow, I'm finding this post bizarre ... I never knew things like this happened .... can i ask a question, Insanityprevails ? Its just merely out of curiosity, but doesnt it marr the image you have of your Dom, and alter your perception etc ? I think I would be qiute confused in your situation. Credit for taking the time to research and understand the topic for the sake of your Dom though ...

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Jess xxx

Nope, doesn't marr my image at all, considering I'm sadistic, but I can't stand dominating. I've just never been able to be sadistic until now, so I'm rather happy :) I just don't quite know how to do it, as it's always just been a fantasy.

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/20/2006 8:49:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: insanityprevails
[Nope, doesn't marr my image at all, considering I'm sadistic, but I can't stand dominating. I've just never been able to be sadistic until now, so I'm rather happy :) I just don't quite know how to do it, as it's always just been a fantasy.

Interestingly, I've found some submissives/slaves to be incredibly sadistic. Some in a direct fashion, others more vicariously.

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/20/2006 9:06:26 AM

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I'm mainly a sadist but I have some masochistic tendencies and as long as I am totally in control of the sub and the relationship then I like to instruct my slave in anyway to please me.
It looks as if I am not unusual from the posts above.
However I should talk to your Dom about how he feels about you coming up with the ideas.
I know how I'd feel if my slave tried to come up with them. Just the same as I feel when slaves come up with ideas on how I should dominate them lol.
If a slave wants to please me then he does as I say.
But then every Dom/me is different and he might be happy with you finding ways to please him.
Do make sure though. I would hate you to get it wrong for your sake.

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/20/2006 12:44:11 PM

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*nods* Myself, I hand her a very exact script when I am in the mood to recieve pain. I also see nothing wrong with masochism and dominance. They are seperate aspects of BDSM to me.

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/20/2006 2:27:38 PM

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Wear Spurs to bed *eg*

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/20/2006 2:37:00 PM

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don't know if anyone said this but if i wanted to hurt my Daddy i would merely squeeze tight the balls / cock and not let go

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/20/2006 7:30:18 PM

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Hummm...a good left hook?.....

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/20/2006 8:34:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: Rover
Tell him the neighborhood adolescents are bigger than he is?

John

LMAO
To the OP, pick up a book called "The Family Jewels" and you'll learn new wonderful ways to hurt him. M

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/22/2006 8:56:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: Rover

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ORIGINAL: insanityprevails
Does anyone have any ways to hurt a dom during sex, from the bottom? Any help appreciated!!

Tell him the neighborhood adolescents are bigger than he is?

John

... or a simple "...is it in yet"?

But seriously.. try some nipple biting or tweeking.

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/22/2006 9:14:03 AM

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Tell him the neighborhood adolescents are bigger than he is?

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... or a simple "...is it in yet"?

LOL...we could probably cross this thread with that one Michael of Georgia had a while ago..."What not to say to your Dom"

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RE: Hurting Dom During Sex - 12/22/2006 9:35:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: LordODiscipline

Then sharpen your nails - run them down his back during the buildup of passion - and, at the "moment of truth" - grab a handful of salt and apply liberally.

~J

Or swab his back with an alcohol soaked cottonball. Just make sure you broke the skin while scratching.

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