pixelslave -> RE: G-Spotless.... (12/22/2006 5:45:47 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ADomlesssub oh honey i dont think you are broken at all..... i used to find it hard to allow myself to accept pleasure from my partner too - not thinking i was worthy of it, or that they weren't really enjoying pleasuring me.... please please try to overcome that - a Master once ordered me to lie and back and relax for him and hey presto it worked.... we chatted afterwards, and he said that it was making him feel inferior or useless beacuase i couldn't orgasm under his touch....... snarf xxx In my experience, not only is it a matter of feeling worthy of receiving pleasure, it is often an issue of feeling connected to one's partner and being relaxed with them. Some people don't seem to need this kind of connection in order to relax and enjoy the sharing of sexual intimacy and pleasures, while others do. As a male, I personally find it difficult to reach an orgasm through penetration with a new partner without this kind of mental and emotional connection. It seems as though there are a myriad of factors that go into what it takes to be able to relax and allow oneself to receive and enjoy all of the pleasures of another's company when being intimate with them. It appears to me that those who can do it with just anyone they have no particular connection with or feelings for are more the exception than the norm. To my way of thinking, that's a good thing in this day and age where one can so easily die as an outcome of one single casual encounter. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image] - pixel
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