crouchingtigress -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 10:09:07 AM)
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at first i thought you were one of the million posters that post something incendiary and never come back....but as i read i see that you did come back to answer posts, and to me that takes some stones...so kudos...that inspired me to read your profile, very nicely done. i think your experience here was pretty typical, and although you came to the boards looking for help, you insulted folks inadvertently, and there for you got a lot of negative resposne..(a rookie mistake)[;)] here is a thought or two about what steps you could do to address your problem of having the majority of people you communicate with turn out to be women. you could say in the profile, right in the tag line "any one who communicates more then once with either of us, will be asked to prove their gender" you may alienate some shy girls in this process, but i dont know, call me crazy but i dont seem to meet to many overly shy people in BDSM as a rule, so i dont think you are missing too many also as you must know you are beautiful, that is going to attract a number of wankers, you could post a picture of you and your partner in a loving embrace as your main picture and then here comes some pretty tough advice: be patient, looking for a third is the needle in the haystack...more often then not, it takes years to find a good fit.... so in those years, get comfy, pull up a chair and stay a while...you will learn a lot here, and grow a lot here....and by the time she does come into your life you will have picked up some skills that will help her to more easily blend in with you and your partner. so welcome to the fora....if you decide to stay you might want to start another post saying that you are new and that you apologise for any offense you may have caused (but that is up to you)
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