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stef -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:15:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsatori Hmmm... interesting... I'm immatuer for venting because I'm 19... ok thats my excuse? Is it? Are you asking me or telling me? Personally, I think you're immature because after barging in here acting like you were the only person on the planet who had come to the realization that not everyone online is 100% honest (and having that notion immediately quashed by everyone who replied), you felt the need to email at least two of us to continue the "discussion" in email instead of sharing your erudite musings with the rest of the forum. It has nothing to do with your being 19, 49 or 99. Your follow-ups to that illustrious first post haven't done anything to change that opinion. quote: Whats yours? That your so insecure about yourself you need to berate someone half your age for her ventings rather than offering constructive criticism? I'm quite secure, actually, but thank you for your concern. If you go back and read, I did offer advice in the third paragraph of this post. While it was directed to your "Master," you would almost certainly benefit if he took the time to add it to his training curriculum. If he does, let's hope that he spends more time on that than the time you have devoted to looking for your new girlfriend. quote: Hmm perhaps like many of the other people who have said be patient... take your time... dont rush Isn't that exactly what I suggested? I wonder if memory stops being so selective when one reaches 20? Stranger things have happened, I suppose. ~stef

LaTigresse -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:21:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsatori quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse oh damn, I didn't get one.............................I shall pout now You know... All this posturing and preening of one’s self as you and some of the others on here have displayed reminds me of something I thought I had finally been rid of... High school drama and hazing... new girl comes in... all the other girls haze her, give her a hard time, try to ridicule her, and you have to try to kiss their butts and boost their ego, and convince them that you aren’t a threat to them. I understand... I'm young... and you're old... I have the rest of my life ahead of me and you're forced with the realization that you're becoming increasingly less marketable as you watch all the men going after the young ones like me... its ok... the more people grow up the more they stay the same... amazing... and we complain at men for being immature? You want bitchy hon... I can give you bitchy. Awww, did you get your panties in a bunch over some good natured ribbing. How unfortunate. Wellllll, let this old broad give you a tip or two on the bitchy thang of which I excel. #1 Know thy enemy. If you had read any of my prior posts you would know that I adore being the age I am. Any comments you make saying I am old and you are young and desirable will only entertain me. I wouldn't want to be your age again for anything. #2 Know thy enemy. Though I have many men that have expressed a desire for me, sadly, I am not terribly interested. As my profile clearly states...................LESBIAN!!![:D] #3 Know thy enemy. As I have expressed in several of my (holy shit) 3903 posts, there is NOTHING anyone on here can possibly do, say, type, that could even come close to upsetting me. You could type vitrol until your fingertips are numb and it will be for naught. #4 Know thy enemy. I have the most obnoxious sense of humour of anyone I know (except maybe Ron, benji or Trespank). Anything you could possibly think up to attempt to upset me will very likely either bore me.....or if I am lucky, and you are more intelligent that you appear so far.....amuse me. Fire away!!!!!!!![:D]

crouchingtigress -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:21:33 PM)
staying with the flea market theme: and sometimes you get to the flea market and you find a 19 year old girl who thinks she knows all the answers, ...pointing fingers and shouting at a room full of people she does not know, living lives she does not understand..and you have to laugh.... because she actually assumes that the reason that the reason she is getting a massive backlash is because she is so hot ....instead of seeing that she is acting like a petulant child...then you move on to the next table full of damaged goods....

SlaveAkasha -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:22:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsatori quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong quote: ORIGINAL: UnvailedPurpose The only thing real I can find throughout all you’re ranting, Sweetsatori, is, you are really out of control. Oh common now.. what do you expect of a 19 year old...? to the OP: I suggest your master relieve you of the task of seeking another for him.. You'll have to obey regardless and it's primarly for his enjoyment.. no? No my dear... its not for his enjoyment... its because I love women, and I would like to have a commited relationship with a woman also. As for Master.. he doesnt care if he doesnt get anything sexual out of it at all... as a matter of fact he outright said that the only requirement he has is that she not be a man hater... other than that she can simply be polite, obedient, and non sexual with him completely. I understand this part also. I had been looking for a female lover and they are hard to fine. Most want my Master to Dom them, or something along those lines. We don't want a third, it was just so I could have bit of that part of myself back, the part that enjoys women. I want a friend, lover, just someone to spend time with. I was bi long before Master and he knows that. He did say he would like to watch once in a while, but not join in or anything. You have a harder road, because of what you are looking for... but you will find her. Kasha

MaryT -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:24:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsatori So are you going to call? I sent you my number in your email... <Mom mode on> Yes, you did - impulsive, immature child that you are. Did you stop to think for one minute that it is NOT wise to send your phone number to strangers? Did you consider that it might actually be a dangerous thing to do? Did it occur to you that I would no more call someone who did that than I would call someone whom I know is a nutcase? I hope your Master is taking very good care of you because you are doing a lousy job of taking care of yourself. Smarten up, sweet. <Mom mode off> MaryT

LadyEllen -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:28:50 PM)
I'm now well and truly confused E

sweetsatori -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:31:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaryT quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsatori So are you going to call? I sent you my number in your email... <Mom mode on> Yes, you did - impulsive, immature child that you are. Did you stop to think for one minute that it is NOT wise to send your phone number to strangers? Did you consider that it might actually be a dangerous thing to do? Did it occur to you that I would no more call someone who did that than I would call someone whom I know is a nutcase? I hope your Master is taking very good care of you because you are doing a lousy job of taking care of yourself. Smarten up, sweet. <Mom mode off> MaryT Sweetie... Master set up the phone on the internet... he has this box thing that you plug your phone into that uses the internet to make the calls...from what he told me, there is no way anyone could use the phone number to find our address.... so I may be young... but I'm not stupid... So whats stopping you from calling?

missturbation -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:44:49 PM)
So whats stopping you from calling? From what i read i kinda gathered she doesnt want to. I think you need to chill out a little bit and listen to the advice you were given. Don't bite the hand that feeds you hun!! There are a lot of people here with a lot of good advice when you need it and you seem to have managed to piss the majority off in one swoop when all they have tried to do is help you.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:46:09 PM)
Not every one here is on collarme to get "their rocks off" just so you know. quote: ORIGINAL: lateralist1 Don't we all like to get our rocks off lol.

sweetsatori -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 12:47:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaryT quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsatori So are you going to call? I sent you my number in your email... <Mom mode on> Yes, you did - impulsive, immature child that you are. Did you stop to think for one minute that it is NOT wise to send your phone number to strangers? Did you consider that it might actually be a dangerous thing to do? Did it occur to you that I would no more call someone who did that than I would call someone whom I know is a nutcase? I hope your Master is taking very good care of you because you are doing a lousy job of taking care of yourself. Smarten up, sweet. <Mom mode off> MaryT You have no problems questioning my sanity, or my integrity... yet you give me absolutely NO way to prove anything at all? Even though nothing I have said has been a lie? Master set that phone up specifically for me to use in verifying those people I talk to are really women... and not men pretending to be women.. since he said that it would not be prudent for me to ask for someones number when they might think I'm some stalker myself... he set this up and assured me that it would be safe.. and given the fact that he works in the computer field and does security stuff that I have no clue of I tend to trust him. So now not only am I a liar, but I'm crazy.. impulsive, idiotic? Anything else anyone wishes to add to that list? oh yea, immature and impatient too... well ok I'll own up to impatient.

Aileen68 -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:00:17 PM)
sigh Wish Benji was here. He'd have some fun with this one. Seriously though...be patient and learn from mistakes on how to weed out the fakes. There are real people here. A lot of them tend to post on this side. Unfortunately, you've just made a hell of a first impression. All is not lost if you can show that you are mature and level headed. Some find and some never do. How did your master find you? Start there since it worked once.

MissyRane -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:06:01 PM)
I'm sorry to inform you all that I'm not a real woman I am a 50 year old dude from argentina..I weight around 320 lbs and my biggest obsession is beer and TV[8\|] this thread is still going? how about all the men on here..are they real?

yourMissTress -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:13:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsatori quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse oh damn, I didn't get one.............................I shall pout now You know... All this posturing and preening of one’s self as you and some of the others on here have displayed reminds me of something I thought I had finally been rid of... High school drama and hazing... new girl comes in... all the other girls haze her, give her a hard time, try to ridicule her, and you have to try to kiss their butts and boost their ego, and convince them that you aren’t a threat to them. I understand... I'm young... and you're old... I have the rest of my life ahead of me and you're forced with the realization that you're becoming increasingly less marketable as you watch all the men going after the young ones like me... its ok... the more people grow up the more they stay the same... amazing... and we complain at men for being immature? You want bitchy hon... I can give you bitchy. Ahem, would that be the same high school drama where your boyfriend steps in to defend you? Oh, and you aren't the first to try that approach, so you get no points for originality. And just who are the "we" you are talking about complaining about the immaturity of men? And what does that have to do with the current discussion? Let's forget that you are 19. You seem to have a complex about your age. Let's talk about your level of maturity and your attention seeking behaviors. You are displaying less maturity than someone half your age. The idea that you call out people who are unknown to you and attempt to insult them reeks of seeking attention, any attention. The best part is that you have taken on some of the people that would be most likely to empathize with you, had you been a bit more respectful and pleasant. Respect is a two-way street that every human being is entitled to. Pleasantry is something that most people exhibit when entering a community of strangers, especially when they are looking for help and advice. The people on this message board have heard the whining before, in fact there are more than a few very similar threads regarding fakes on the internet, do a search. That is not to say that there can't be a valid discussion regarding fakes each and every week. But the tone of your OP as well as your responses have brought out less than a pleasant debate. Good luck to you, and don't let your baptism by fire keep you from learning all you can.

happypervert -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:25:46 PM)
[fast reply] Threads like this are why this place is so entertaining. It starts with a first post that is kinda like throwing chum into shark infested waters, and once they start circling the OP gets the brilliant idea to jump in and go swimming!

LaTigresse -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:28:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: happypervert [fast reply] Threads like this are why this place is so entertaining. It starts with a first post that is kinda like throwing chum into shark infested waters, and once they start circling the OP gets the brilliant idea to jump in and go swimming! Oh how funny but true! Remember the BDSM Guardian Goddess that came in attacking alt a week or two ago? There was alotta blood in the water before the waters settled on that one.

LadyHugs -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:29:58 PM)
Dear sweetsatori, Ladies and Gentlemen; In speaking with someone in 'the know,' in tela-communications, computers and such--computer forensic sciences; there is no stopping an expert in tracing phone through computer and vice versa; ever since 9-11 and "Homeland Security;" no transmission, phone, cell phone and or computer is totally immune from "law enforcement's" monitoring. Summary--if someone had connections and or the legal authority to do so, if you are a target of interest--nothing any civilian can do to thwart it. And, if you may recall--a high level "Homeland Security" official got busted on indecent liberties/porn with a minor. Now, my mind's eyes see; if they are willing to look within their own agency; certainly they will look out from their agency. In addition--I am a seasoned Dominant. I've been around a while. In my day, which might be ancient history to you; I came through a time a slave was a reflection of their Owner. Please consider, what you say and or do, is a reflection of him. It would be most sad, to be acting in a manner that would cause him any disappointment. Respectfully submitted for consideration, Lady Hugs

MasterLordguru -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:30:47 PM)
Wow.. several hours later and this has turn into a clusterfuck. Seriously Santori.. why do you take anything here personally? For someone who started the original post as "where are all the real woman here" And commenting that there are so many fakes, why are you allowing your frustrations to vent on others who for all sense and purposes are not "Real"? Come on, none of us are real. Its like a Lie and Truth. It is not a lie until the truth is proven to be false. Until then it is the Truth. For you, Many here are not real if anyone is. So to get frustrated at an imagined slight makes you out to be petulent and childish. NOW, I'm not saying you are. But perception is what people grasp when you read words. Remember, it is not easy to convey genuine sincerity, emotions, inflection, passion in words on a screen. Everything written can be interpreted to be something that you did not say. and thus the game continues. So just accept hwat you desire, if other's disgree with you.. fine. This is a Sterile enviorment. I myself am not here to please anyone. I'm in this for myself. I talk to like minded people and people who are not like minded and just give a tic for a tack. I know you are not trying to please everyone, but it is percieved that you are. Stick to your guns and believe what you want. One more thing, Carpe Diem. Sieze the moment/Day. May you find Shade and warmth this December afternoon/eve M.L.G (The Midnight Son)

sweetsatori -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:39:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterLordguru Wow.. several hours later and this has turn into a clusterfuck. Seriously Santori.. why do you take anything here personally? For someone who started the original post as "where are all the real woman here" And commenting that there are so many fakes, why are you allowing your frustrations to vent on others who for all sense and purposes are not "Real"? Oh my FREAKING LORD... you guys are talking about me overreacting yet I never said that everyone was a fake.. I simply said that most people on here are fake... Why are YOU taking it personally? Why do YOU feel I attacked you in particular about your sex? Did I say you're not really a man? No I dont think so.. did I say that everyone on here is fake? No... I simply said that most of the people I have interacted with have turned out to be fake. It was a vent session... NOTHING more nothing less... I did not direct my vents at anyone in particular.. however I have been called a liar, an idiot, a child, immature, imapatient and a host of other things... Not in general like I did, but specifically me.. and you're questioning why I'm defending myself? Are you KIDDING ME!?!?!

AquaticSub -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:40:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsatori Sweetie... Master set up the phone on the internet... he has this box thing that you plug your phone into that uses the internet to make the calls...from what he told me, there is no way anyone could use the phone number to find our address.... so I may be young... but I'm not stupid... So whats stopping you from calling? Probably, he tells you wrong. Information is not hard to find. To question you asked: Do you really think you are the only one on an online community site who got a wave of offers they didn't want? Grow up, this isn't unique to you. Or.. to voice advice already given "Yes. You are the only real one on this site. Get out now while you are ahead." I dunno about everyone else but I'm completely fake. Really, I don't like serving at all. The floggers and other hundred dollars worth of toys, the time I spend on my knees and the occasion I stood in the corner in front of friends for "stealing" my dom's wallet? All for show. I'm a severely closeted vanilla. Can anyone direct me to a support group?

MasterLordguru -> RE: Are any women on here real? (12/21/2006 1:41:14 PM)
Wait? You call them Men? Shit.. All this time I thought they were boys playing the role of a Man. OH man.. I need to reevaulate this. M.L.G

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