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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:42:49 PM   
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Oh my FREAKING LORD... you guys are talking about me overreacting yet I never said that everyone was a fake.. I simply said that most people on here are fake... Why are YOU taking it personally? Why do YOU feel I attacked you in particular about your sex? Did I say you're not really a man? No I dont think so.. did I say that everyone on here is fake? No... I simply said that most of the people I have interacted with have turned out to be fake.

It was a vent session... NOTHING more nothing less... I did not direct my vents at anyone in particular.. however I have been called a liar, an idiot, a child, immature, imapatient and a host of other things... Not in general like I did, but specifically me.. and you're questioning why I'm defending myself?

Are you KIDDING ME!?!?!


Oh ones! People are holding you accountable for what you said! Goshes and jeepers, Jughead, no one said anyone would do that.

Your OP didn't come across as "merely" a rant. How are we supposed to know the difference? You complained and it blew it up in your face.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:44:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sweetsatori
I understand... I'm young... and you're old... I have the rest of my life ahead of me and you're forced with the realization that you're becoming increasingly less marketable as you watch all the men going after the young ones like me...


What's really funny is that it's when you get older that you realize how ridiculous this mentality is.

Im really enjoying being present with myself as I age.

I wouldnt go back to the person I was at 19 for any sum of money. For one thing, I didnt know didly about much of anything. I think about things I said and did at that age, and I cringe with embarassment. For another, Im pretty darn happy in my skin today. Ive got an unmentionable who is just the biggest ray of sunshine ever to shine down on my life, a partner who not only "gets" me but is creative, intelligent, witty and a damn good kisser (And he's older than I am! Imagine, someone would want to kiss someone that ancient!) as well as every bit the Dom Ive looked for my whole adult life.

Sissy satori, I think you got caught up in something that has gotten out of control and you don't want to back down because you might lose face.

My advice, though unsolicited, would be to just let it go. It isnt going to get any warmer, cozier or prettier in this thread any time soon.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:45:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		In my opinion the op was only looking for agreement and validation for her rant. Most people have tried to help her but she has just responded badly to any comment made that hasnt fitted her agenda. I dont see the point in feeding her argument to be honest. 

< Message edited by missturbation -- 12/21/2006 1:47:45 PM >

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:46:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Um, you are looking for a woman to get involved with but not *too* involved. Essentially  a woman who doesn't care or has enough of her own program that she's not going to be bothered by the fact that she's not in a partnership per se, a traditional 2 person dyad unit where you each get all your romantic good stuff from one another forevermore, right?

I'm looking for the same thing. And I'm doing it very slowly, with a lot of relaxedness because there aren't a lot of women like that out there. You have to ask yourself when looking for non-primary relationships, "self, if I were the person I'm looking for, what exactly am I getting out of this beyond the wonderful privilege of my own attention and company for a moment?" If that's all she's getting, you need to get very up front and very aware that for most women, that prospect kind of sucks.  And get patient.

And yes, there are fake women online. It's kind of "duh" if you think about it, but that's been covered sufficiently.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:47:23 PM   
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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:47:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterLordguru

Wait? You call them Men? Shit.. All this time I thought they were boys playing the role of a Man. OH man.. I need to reevaulate this.

M.L.G


LOL.. Do you get off on making yourself look better by trying to belittle others? You must... because I NEVER attacked you directly... NONE of you, yes I defended myself, maybe I should let you all call me everything under the sun DIRECTLY when I never said any of you were fake directly did I? I never mentioned any of you by name did I? No, and if you feel guilt over my words thats your problem.. not mine... yet you have absolutely no trouble with attacking me directly and calling me fake and everything else... and I'm the evil witch?

You know what? if it makes you feel better to attack me personally, you go right ahead... you're SUCH a man for your manly ways... sure... put the girl in her place... god forbid she should be able to speak her mind huh?

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:48:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		my point exactly. We are making it bigger than it should be.

1st: I apologize. becuase my post was not meant to illicit you to get upset.
2nd: We all misconstrue things once in a while. Like this last post. You thought I was being sarcastic. I wasn't. I am who I am.. and was making that point. Like yoruself, be yourself, and if someone disagrees.. just shrug it off.
3rd: welcome to collarme.com I know you been around, but hey.. until you can join the ranks of the being Slammed in an open forum.. its never the same you know?
4: Seriously.. this is an apology. I dont want you to think I was jumping down your throat.
5th: I been called many many things over my life. (leans in and whispers) Do you think I ended up believing them? Hell, I call myself the LORD, so what do you think? (laughs)

and finally... Insults are words. It is said that words take a life ofr their own. and this post defintely has expressed that. Again.. dont think of my words as an attack. Its not even advice. Just words.. on a screen.. but perhaps something ALL of us can think about.

M.L.G

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:53:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sweetsatori
I understand... I'm young... and you're old... I have the rest of my life ahead of me and you're forced with the realization that you're becoming increasingly less marketable as you watch all the men going after the young ones like me...



*Cracks up*

I'm only two years older then you and I can already you that is the biggest load of bull. Men want a woman who has life experience and who can actually think for themselves. Lemme tell ya a secret I learned from watching older men in my community go after young ones: They don't give a damn about you.

That's right my dear you are arm candy! You have nothing, no security, no nothing. Soon as they find another little slut who will spread their legs and give better head, you will be on the street and without a place to go. Because if they are going for the young things just for looks, that is all there is to it.

Trust me. If you and yours seperate (assuming for the moment that aren't just a piece of candy who will be ditched as soon as something prettier comes along), wise up. With that "I'm young and hot" attitude, you aren't going to get anything but the dregs who only care about your ass. And it will start to drop. And you will age. And you will get ugly. And you will put on weight. And then... you will be all alone because everyone who would have been your friend have been isolated from you by a bad attitude.

I mean really... if your best assists are your looks and your youth... there isn't much to you, now is there?

I do hope you prove in other threads that you actually have a brain worth having. Because that is what is going to keep a man.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 12/21/2006 1:55:54 PM >

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:55:35 PM   
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LOL.. Do you get off on making yourself look better by trying to belittle others? You must... because I NEVER attacked you directly... NONE of you


hmmm...wait a minute...

quote:

I understand... I'm young... and you're old... I have the rest of my life ahead of me and you're forced with the realization that you're becoming increasingly less marketable as you watch all the men going after the young ones like me... its ok... the more people grow up the more they stay the same... amazing... and we complain at men for being immature? You want bitchy hon... I can give you bitchy.


What was that?


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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:55:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: missturbation

In my opinion the op was only looking for agreement and validation for her rant. Most people have tried to help her but she has just responded badly to any comment made that hasnt fitted her agenda. I dont see the point in feeding her argument to be honest. 


Aww... but I just joined in. Does that mean I have to go away now?

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:56:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Trust me. If you and yours seperate (assuming for the moment that aren't just a piece of candy who will be ditched as soon as something prettier comes along), wise up. With that "I'm young and hot" attitude, you aren't going to get anything but the dregs who only care about your ass. And it will start to drop. And you will age. And you will get ugly. And you will put on weight. And then... you will be all alone because everyone who would have been your friend have been isolated from you by a bad attitude.

I mean really... if your best assest is your looks and your youth... there isn't much to you, now is there? 
Much better than i could have said it but very true.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:57:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Grlwithboy

Um, you are looking for a woman to get involved with but not *too* involved. Essentially  a woman who doesn't care or has enough of her own program that she's not going to be bothered by the fact that she's not in a partnership per se, a traditional 2 person dyad unit where you each get all your romantic good stuff from one another forevermore, right?



Actually if you may allow me to correct something... no, I AM looking for a commitment... LOVE, long term romance... someone who will be part of our family, my best friend, my confidant... I want forever... well as forever as anything is these days... but yes, I want to have someone be a part of my life for the long term... not just a once in a while thing... Does it need to be a live in type thing? No.. not necesarily, but I would LOVE it if she wanted to live with us, wake up every morning with us, have times when we I can sleep with her instead of Master for those times I want a soft female touch.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:57:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Uhm... santori.. the oringal quote about the men was made in reference to another person here.. that wasn't directed at you.

And I wasn't attacking you. Seriously, nothing I said was meant to insult you. My sarcasm and wit were toward something else posted, in fact I believe the thread says in response to... (whoever it was, I'm not looking now) I also never called you a fake. not once in my three post here..

And hey.. I am who I am. Never said I was a Man did I? (grins) I leave that to the woman who are in my life to answer.

and I"m not here to try to make myself look better. I already look hot enough. (winks) and of course you have the right to defend yourself. but in about a few days everyone will have forgotten about this topic. And what was said before will be forgotten. Short memory span.. its the bane of humanity.
I need to do laundry. Already spoke with my pet. Going out to the Karoake bar.

ANY request?

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 1:59:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

In my opinion the op was only looking for agreement and validation for her rant. Most people have tried to help her but she has just responded badly to any comment made that hasnt fitted her agenda. I dont see the point in feeding her argument to be honest. 


Aww... but I just joined in. Does that mean I have to go away now?


Lol no way - i enjoy your posts way too much for that.

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:00:21 PM   
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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:00:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsatori

Oh my FREAKING LORD... you guys are talking about me overreacting yet I never said that everyone was a fake.. I simply said that most people on here are fake... Why are YOU taking it personally? Why do YOU feel I attacked you in particular about your sex? Did I say you're not really a man? No I dont think so.. did I say that everyone on here is fake? No... I simply said that most of the people I have interacted with have turned out to be fake.

It was a vent session... NOTHING more nothing less... I did not direct my vents at anyone in particular.. however I have been called a liar, an idiot, a child, immature, imapatient and a host of other things... Not in general like I did, but specifically me.. and you're questioning why I'm defending myself?

Are you KIDDING ME!?!?!


Oh ones! People are holding you accountable for what you said! Goshes and jeepers, Jughead, no one said anyone would do that.

Your OP didn't come across as "merely" a rant. How are we supposed to know the difference? You complained and it blew it up in your face.


Hmm... may I invite you to go back to my original post and read it.... and right at the very end... I suggest you read the part that says ok I'm done venting now.

How would you say that I never said I was on a rant?

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:02:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think I finally figured something out.. the more post you put out here.. the better your icon will be. (looks at my vanilla cone) Damn.. how many post Must I put to get that Wooden handle? (SMIRKS)



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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:03:11 PM   
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Are you KIDDING ME!?!?!


Probably.


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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:03:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: missturbation

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Aww... but I just joined in. Does that mean I have to go away now?


Lol no way - i enjoy your posts way too much for that.


Yay! *does a happy dance*

What is that creature anyway?

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RE: Are any women on here real? - 12/21/2006 2:05:28 PM   
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