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RE: 24/7 slavery - 4/27/2007 2:24:29 PM

Stranger1

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ORIGINAL: birdie7015

I am at the stage when a face to face meeting is about to take place but now I am getting cold feet. Is this normal? The problem is that although the 24/7 real slave situation will be in my country the interview is going to be in another european country as the mistress will not be residing here until March.

We have briefly discussed issues but not in any great detail and she is very loath to give me the information I need. I am now getting really cold feet at spending a total of £350 on something that isn't at least got good prospects of happening.

The issues concerning me is that the following issues have not been discussed as yet:

How will I be treated
Will I be able to maintain family connections and visits
I have a pet and can he still be accommodated
Will I still be managing my own purse as I do have family responsibilities and also to my pet.

These are the sort of question I believe should have been discussed and the face to face meeting should be used to tidy up the loose ends.

Perhaps I'm wrong in expecting these things. Another thing that is bothering me is that when she inflicts mental chastisement on me and I apologise, I never get the compassion of forgiveness from her and that then turns it into a believe it is called mental torture. I find that my emotional makeup cannot accommodate this and it is now disturbing my sleep at night.

HELP!!!!!

The lack of compassion should tell you all you really need to know.

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RE: 24/7 slavery - 4/27/2007 4:31:16 PM

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Obviously if they are not address your questions they probably won't in the future. If you don't feel trust than there is nothing there at all period. Do whats best for you.

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RE: 24/7 slavery - 4/27/2007 5:26:29 PM

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If she won't communicate with you now she won't later. Go with your gut instincts. You have a right to know the things you have asked.

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RE: 24/7 slavery - 4/27/2007 5:44:41 PM

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~SMILES~ Wonders if anyone else ever bothers to check the dates on top of the threads.

The first question was from Dec 2006 the second one asked that is post #14 was started today April 27 2007.

Just thought you might like to know.

~ misty ~

Edited to added this was not posted to anyone person

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RE: 24/7 slavery - 4/27/2007 5:58:19 PM

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Some threads regain a life of their own. Just because its old doesn't mean people still aren't interested in it. And yes alot of us do read the date of the initial thread.

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RE: 24/7 slavery - 4/27/2007 7:15:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: sicily

maybe its not the right place to ask, but do Y/you think that a 24/7 relation with a disabled person is possible ?
Are there Doms or subs who have such a relation, and what is their experience ?

I think this belongs in an entirely new thread, but yes I am in a 24/7 relationship as slave to a master who is disabled, and although it interferes in the normal ways of doing things it doesn't interfere with my being his slave and perfectly happy together.

I am a sub in a 24/7 relationship with my Husband/Dom who is disabled (renal failure/diabetes are the two main problems). Sure there are bad days, and times when we can't play because He is too tired or feels too ill, but it doesn't stop Him from being my Dom

If you have a great relationship, and are prepared to work through problems, and talk about things together, there's no reason why this shouldn't work just as well as a relationship between able-bodied people.

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RE: 24/7 slavery - 4/28/2007 2:06:33 PM

elderrook

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

Proving, yet again, that getting to "know" each other over the internet is an exercise in futility more often than not. You are very lucky she told you not to come, and are only out £60.

If you learn from the experience, that was £60 well spent.

Namaste, Sir Dominic

I think I am an exception to the rule, but I agree with you. The internet is not a good place to meet others for relationships.

Meeting my Mistress here was quite a surprise to me, but things have gone splendidly.

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RE: 24/7 slavery - 4/28/2007 2:35:20 PM

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From your posting, it seems that you have not met this Domme in person. If this is the case, believe me, any one can sound genuine in writing or even by phone. A 24/7 situation is not something that one should pounce into with first having extensive in-person interaction. Just because someone is a Mistress/Master does not mean that every slave would fit with their requirements. It takes time to see how the pieces go, and this can only happen slowly and with frequent vists that build up over time.

Be well and take your time!

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