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forced bi - 2/21/2005 4:03:19 AM   
sari


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Status: offline 		I enjoy being transformed into a woman by my girlfriend who then takes me by her strap on dildo which is great but lately she wants to see me pleasuring a man as a woman can. I enjoy the strap on treatment but will I enjoy the real thing knowing that I'm 100% hetro?????
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RE: forced bi - 2/21/2005 6:27:53 AM   
SecretDomme


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Status: offline 		It depends on your mindset, in my opinion. If you enjoy the control she exerts over you to make you do the things that you may not typically enjoy, and get your pleasure from truly submitting to her, then you will not be thinking about sexual orientation during that act. However, if she wants to do that as a humiliation tool, she might want you to think about other things... ;-)

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Julie

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RE: forced bi - 2/21/2005 7:03:59 AM   
indydomme


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Status: offline 		I think that doing what your Mistress tells you is not going to make you gay or bi. My own personal definition of Bi is someone who actively seeks out, or doesn't care whether they end up with either/both sexes. As a submissive, I did interact with women, but I did not actively seek women. I don't consider myself bi. I have a penis addiction that would proclude such a possibility. But, as a Mistress, I do have a couple of my boys interact with one another, and they enjoy it, because they know I enjoy it, but neither of them is gay or bi, in my own opinion.

That's my Two Cents.
Miss Erin

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RE: forced bi - 2/21/2005 8:59:52 AM   
NATI


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Status: offline 		Being forced to have bi-sexual sex with a man will not 'make' you bi. Many men enjoy giving up this level and degree of control and it is the humiliation in the act that gives them the fulfillment. As long as you are mentally okay with where she has determined to guide you (and you are of course practising safer sex) go for it.

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RE: forced bi - 2/21/2005 12:11:44 PM   
Dave8544


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Status: offline 		I am sure your a hetro male, but is anybody really 100% in anything, Do we wonder at times what other things would be like? I have never been with a man, My upbringing said No!!!No!!!. play with guns not dolls. Silly fagot dicks are for chicks. But you do wonder what it would be like. Or at least I do. Dave

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RE: forced bi - 2/21/2005 2:32:01 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		These threads might help:

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RE: forced bi - 2/21/2005 5:44:46 PM   
LadyAngelika


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Being forced to have bi-sexual sex with a man will not 'make' you bi.


What is bi-sexual sex exactly... ;)

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RE: forced bi - 2/22/2005 7:17:36 PM   
webeeknky


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Status: offline 		very well put. Spanks! Neesa-jo n eager willow

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RE: forced bi - 2/22/2005 7:28:01 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

What is bi-sexual sex exactly... ;)

Sex with a bi-plane?

~stef

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RE: forced bi - 2/23/2005 6:19:11 AM   
Dave8544


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Status: offline 		What is bi sexual? Having sex with twin guys, I thought everyone knew that! lol

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RE: forced bi - 2/23/2005 6:41:37 AM   
ProtagonistLily


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I think that doing what your Mistress tells you is not going to make you gay or bi. My own personal definition of Bi is someone who actively seeks out, or doesn't care whether they end up with either/both sexes. As a submissive, I did interact with women, but I did not actively seek women. I don't consider myself bi. I have a penis addiction that would proclude such a possibility. But, as a Mistress, I do have a couple of my boys interact with one another, and they enjoy it, because they know I enjoy it, but neither of them is gay or bi, in my own opinion.

That's my Two Cents.
Miss Erin


Miss Erin,

It's nice to see someone else articulate this the way I do. I consider myself straight because A) I do not seek out females as ongoing partners in primary or subsidiary intimate relationships and B) although I may play with a woman sexually, it really does nothing for me.

However, I will play with women in a sexual manner for many reasons. Even though I'm a Dominant, sometimes, what I get out of it is knowing that I have the power to bring another woman to orgasm. The 'kick' I get isn't really the act as much as the reaction.

Lily

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RE: forced bi - 2/23/2005 9:48:02 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Doing what your Mistress tells you doesn't make you bi-gay-straight-anything ... it just makes you a good sub.

However, I do have a qualifier for this. If you haven't known your Mistress for very long, and have only belonged to her for a very short while (and I consider this to be less than 2-3 months) then I would say either a- she's pushing you a bit fast and you might want to reconsider being hers, or b- maybe you are more bi than you thought if you are ok with it (and I'm not posting this because I think that you are, since obviously you are having doubts about it no matter how long you have been with her, I'm posting my thoughts for those who are reading the thread and haven't been with their Dom/me for very long).

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RE: forced bi - 2/23/2005 3:07:21 PM   
Voltare


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

Being forced to have bi-sexual sex with a man will not 'make' you bi.


What is bi-sexual sex exactly... ;)

- LA


Gives me the chills, just thinking about the sub vs slave rant!

For the OP, I'll just echo what has already said. You left out the part about whether you would love (or hate, or love to hate) the idea. More importantly, it would seem that this might be something you would try at the command of your girlfriend, without actually being something you would seek. If it's not a hard limit, you might consider trying it after talking it over, VERY clearly, with her in a non-sexual situation. Talking about it rationally and clear headedly (preferably without the dildo in you) will help you both make a good decision. Some couples enjoy the interaction of a third person - and others have broken up over far less.

Stephan

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RE: forced bi - 3/7/2005 5:43:42 PM   
outlawrider


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quote:

I think that doing what your Mistress tells you is not going to make you gay or bi. My own personal definition of Bi is someone who actively seeks out, or doesn't care whether they end up with either/both sexes. As a submissive, I did interact with women, but I did not actively seek women. I don't consider myself bi. I have a penis addiction that would proclude such a possibility. But, as a Mistress, I do have a couple of my boys interact with one another, and they enjoy it, because they know I enjoy it, but neither of them is gay or bi, in my own opinion.

That's my Two Cents.
Miss Erin

MsINdyDomme?

thank You for Your helpful input here.
i have met 'a' domme online, and talking about me becoming Hers,--so,..this is something She says She enjoys, Her boy performing bi acts with another male.
and my vanilla side says oh yuck but my slave side says as long as safety is looked on, i wish to please no matter how it is, within reason, no one is hurt permanently, and nothing illegal is asked for.
so,....maybe?...if this works out?..and i become Hers?..i guess i may be doing just that, performing for Her. my slave side seems lately stronger than my vanilla side.

thank You Ma'am
outlaw

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RE: forced bi - 3/18/2005 8:19:49 AM   
indydomme


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Status: offline 		I really REALLY like your quote about the hand basket, Lily. Fantastic...

And thanks, I only say what's on my mind. It's good to know that others out there DO think like I do.

Miss Erin

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RE: forced bi - 4/1/2005 12:47:52 AM   
Floridapussyboy


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Status: offline 		The first time a Mistress ordered me to suck Her lovers cock it revolted me.However this was something which pleased Her immensly and was required whenever another male was present. Strangely enough, after a short time i came to enjoy it...even looked forward to it because of the pleasure Mistress derived from watching. The thrill only intensified when She mounted and controlled me with Her strapon, using Her thrusts to cause my mouth to stroke harder. Occasionally Mistress would have a male friend mount me as She and others watched...usually at parties or clubs. In the end i came away with no difficulty performing with other males if my Domme so desires.In fact i find it quite erotic, especially in the presence of several other Women. Try it..you may come to enjoy it as well,if just for the pleasure your girlfriend/Mistress/Domme gets from watching or participating.

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RE: forced bi - 4/1/2005 10:57:14 AM   
KarbonCopy


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I've never had an experience with a male, but dildo play and future strapon play I've proven to enjoy and fantisize about.
One day, my Mistress asked me if we had a threesome or a foursome with another couple, and I was around another male, would I be unconfortable. Immediately, I shrugged it off, I didnt care, I'm in no way a prude.

Then she asked me if I would be willing to do stuff with said Male. I dont think I even had to think about it when I said yes. I want to please my Mistress, she's talked about how seeing me with another man would turn her on immensly, and I dont care enough about it.

I dont think private parts or sexual acts dictates sexual prefrence or orientation, its your sexual attraction to the person that does. Of course thats just my two cents.


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RE: forced bi - 5/16/2005 4:20:30 AM   
frankrds


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Status: offline 		im kinda new on this site, and ive never tired to give a strapon or a real cock a bj, but the idea of doing it, either to please my Mistress if She askes me, or She forces me to do it, turns me on, and i would do it as often as She wanted if i knew it pleased Her.
but that is just my simple opinoin.

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RE: forced bi - 5/16/2005 9:59:11 AM   
AAkasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sari

I enjoy being transformed into a woman by my girlfriend who then takes me by her strap on dildo which is great but lately she wants to see me pleasuring a man as a woman can. I enjoy the strap on treatment but will I enjoy the real thing knowing that I'm 100% hetro?????


The question I always have for subs who have this fantasy is this:

Would you also be willing to passionately kiss the man on the lips?

Seems like lots of subs don't mind the idea of sucking a real cock for the pleasure of their femdom, but locking tongues is out of the question. Which is a shame, because I get REALLY turned on seeing men (especially straight men) kiss!

Akasha

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RE: forced bi - 5/16/2005 11:01:31 AM   
onceburned


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Seems like lots of subs don't mind the idea of sucking a real cock for the pleasure of their femdom, but locking tongues is out of the question


How interesting! Is it because when they suck cock they can "bury" themselves in the mechanics of it? But kissing would require face to face time giving them no place to "hide" - face to face forces them to come to terms with their self-identity?

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