NaiveTempest
Posts: 345
Joined: 11/20/2006 From: North Carolina Status: offline
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Okay, I've made it to page 4 so far so I know the original poster is gone. I plan to keep reading but for now I really need to comment. Aeon and AK Barbarian, actually all of you, I am in practically the exact same situation she was in. I understand EVERYTHING that has been written to her, from BOTH sides of this war that seems to be going on. I do beleive she was being entirely too sensitive if she deleted her profile over the comments posted. This IS an OPEN forum, she should have expected things she might not like. But, nothing that was said to her was wrong. If she really is strong and secure in her position, she should have been able to shrug it all of. Hell, I get stuff like that in real life. I'm my own worse critic. Nothing said here is anything I haven't told myself. I've had men from this site and others offer to "teach" me (I understand she's more experience than I am, that's not the point) or ask me if I'm willing to relocate. While I too am moving, it's something I had already planned for the benefit of MY UNMENTIONABLES, not for a Dom or anything. And I would not relocate for the same reason-stability for them. I understand for some maybe it worked, but my unmentionables are always my number ONE consideration in any action. And when someone gives me well-meaning but nakedly truthful advice, I sit down, shut up and listen. I may not agree, hell I my get angry, but for them I will listen. Nothing said to her was anything that she shouldn't have said to herself. If on this site to learn and find a community not really to look for a Dom, but I don't ignore the possiblity. But it is not a priority, not matter how hard it is to be alone sometimes. I will be strong and if that means waiting years a decade or two even then SO BE IT. As a mother she should be secure enough in her role and the decisions she makes that affect her unmentionables that these post should only mildly upset her. She should reply to express what she thought of the posts and then MOVE ON! Don't run away! That to ME, is a bad sign. Now, I will continue to read the next few pages and see what's been said already. I'll probably end up posting AGAIN, LMAO.
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