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ORIGINAL: Grlwithboy

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

Dom A goes up to Sub b and introduces himself. The typical diatribe of small talk pursues, followed by the submissive playing hard to get, and the poor pathetic Dominant almost begs her to consider him.. Following her around almost like a lost puppy.

Then invariably the following occurs.... the submissive outright acts like a brat, and he loves it... he thinks its cute... Oh boy oh boy oh boy, she's a handful... I'm going to have fun taming her LOL... so who's the culprit here? The sex starved Dominant who does nothing but show her that she's in charge by taking the crap, and teaching her nothing more than oh it’s ok.. You’re cute, so I'll pretend like you're not really toping from the bottom, or is it the subs fault for not saying egh, you're no Dom... I could probably have you kneeling in front of me calling me Mistress if I really felt like it, so shoo!

I find it amusing and kind of pathetic too, but you know what?

1. it's no skin off my ass, she's not my problem and if I don't like how they play I can choose not to watch

2.  it's not really my GD business

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

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ORIGINAL: Grlwithboy

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

Dom A goes up to Sub b and introduces himself. The typical diatribe of small talk pursues, followed by the submissive playing hard to get, and the poor pathetic Dominant almost begs her to consider him.. Following her around almost like a lost puppy.

Then invariably the following occurs.... the submissive outright acts like a brat, and he loves it... he thinks its cute... Oh boy oh boy oh boy, she's a handful... I'm going to have fun taming her LOL... so who's the culprit here? The sex starved Dominant who does nothing but show her that she's in charge by taking the crap, and teaching her nothing more than oh it’s ok.. You’re cute, so I'll pretend like you're not really toping from the bottom, or is it the subs fault for not saying egh, you're no Dom... I could probably have you kneeling in front of me calling me Mistress if I really felt like it, so shoo!

I find it amusing and kind of pathetic too, but you know what?

1. it's no skin off my ass, she's not my problem and if I don't like how they play I can choose not to watch

2.  it's not really my GD business

LOL... Do me a favor... Don't take things so seriously, you'll live longer... I don’t particularly care either, though I do find it humorous to watch. let me tell you a secret... I consider myself a student of human psychology and behavior, and as much as I enjoy watching the dating habits of various lifestyles, including the leather communities, BDSM, vanilla, swingers, and the like, I also find the whole "online" dynamic funny... how a few simple words that aren’t directed at any particular group, or people, by a perfect stranger who is nothing more than a few pixels on a screen tends to insight the most interesting emotions such as the ones I've seen so far :)

Thank you all.

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ORIGINAL: Grlwithboy

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

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ORIGINAL: Grlwithboy

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

Dom A goes up to Sub b and introduces himself. The typical diatribe of small talk pursues, followed by the submissive playing hard to get, and the poor pathetic Dominant almost begs her to consider him.. Following her around almost like a lost puppy.

Then invariably the following occurs.... the submissive outright acts like a brat, and he loves it... he thinks its cute... Oh boy oh boy oh boy, she's a handful... I'm going to have fun taming her LOL... so who's the culprit here? The sex starved Dominant who does nothing but show her that she's in charge by taking the crap, and teaching her nothing more than oh it’s ok.. You’re cute, so I'll pretend like you're not really toping from the bottom, or is it the subs fault for not saying egh, you're no Dom... I could probably have you kneeling in front of me calling me Mistress if I really felt like it, so shoo!

I find it amusing and kind of pathetic too, but you know what?

1. it's no skin off my ass, she's not my problem and if I don't like how they play I can choose not to watch

2.  it's not really my GD business

LOL... Do me a favor... Don't take things so seriously, you'll live longer... I don’t particularly care either, though I do find it humorous to watch. let me tell you a secret... I consider myself a student of human psychology and behavior, and as much as I enjoy watching the dating habits of various lifestyles, including the leather communities, BDSM, vanilla, swingers, and the like, I also find the whole "online" dynamic funny... how a few simple words that aren’t directed at any particular group, or people, by a perfect stranger who is nothing more than a few pixels on a screen tends to insight the most interesting emotions such as the ones I've seen so far :)

Thank you all.

I've posted about a total of 30 words on this topic. Who's seriously putting in energy? Or is it just not funny when someone's not giving you the response you are clearly fishing for?

How's this. "Wow, what a travesty of real submission. I can't believe people play such stupid games - these brat types are awful."

Was it as good for you as it was for me?

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

LOL... Actually, this was something I wrote up on a blong long ago, then transferred it to my 360 profile on yahoo more recently, and now... I copied and pasted it to here. So as for time, I spent all of oh I think 2 minutes to create this post LOL... However, I'm not the one who felt the need to use the word GD to oh so emphasize my point LOL. Oh that’s right... you must have skipped over the part where I said I'm playing devil’s advocate? And you have no idea what my intentions were for this post... Perhaps it was to get the response you FEEL I wanted you to give me, or perhaps it had something to do with another post you all felt the need to jump all over and get your panties in a bunch over, and this is simply my proving a point.... or maybe I knew that SOME of you "regulars" in here had a pension for getting all bent out of shape over a topic such as this, and I just really wanted to push your buttons and just get you oh so pissed off LOL

Again... I thank you... I'm really loving this :)

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

[... or maybe I knew that SOME of you "regulars" in here had a pension for getting all bent out of shape over a topic such as this, and I just really wanted to push your buttons and just get you oh so pissed off LOL

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Again... I thank you... I'm really loving this :)

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos
Oh that’s right... you must have skipped over the part where I said I'm playing devil’s advocate?

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And you have no idea what my intentions were for this post... Perhaps it was to get the response you FEEL I wanted you to give me, or perhaps it had something to do with another post you all felt the need to jump all over and get your panties in a bunch over, and this is simply my proving a point.... or maybe I knew that SOME of you "regulars" in here had a pension for getting all bent out of shape over a topic such as this, and I just really wanted to push your buttons and just get you oh so pissed off LOL

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ORIGINAL: MaryT

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

[... or maybe I knew that SOME of you "regulars" in here had a pension for getting all bent out of shape over a topic such as this, and I just really wanted to push your buttons and just get you oh so pissed off LOL

That would simply make you a troll.

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Again... I thank you... I'm really loving this :)

<yawn>

MaryT

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

I got my point across, now I'm back off into the shadows... but yes... I protect my property... so be careful next time you "think" you're trying to be cute :)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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Oh that’s right... you must have skipped over the part where I said I'm playing devil’s advocate?

Which, by your own words, you may or may not be lying about.  I can't see why you won't just come out and honestly state your intentions...unless you're trying to play some "fun" cyber manipulation games.  But then, you don't do those, do you?

Or you're getting your rocks off on feeling some superiority over making us "leap and dance" and spit fire at your posts?  The ending sentence of your OP certainly seems to suggest you are the type of person who enjoys anticipating responses and self-satisfied in being right.

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And you have no idea what my intentions were for this post... Perhaps it was to get the response you FEEL I wanted you to give me, or perhaps it had something to do with another post you all felt the need to jump all over and get your panties in a bunch over, and this is simply my proving a point.... or maybe I knew that SOME of you "regulars" in here had a pension for getting all bent out of shape over a topic such as this, and I just really wanted to push your buttons and just get you oh so pissed off LOL

A) It's penchant.  If you're going to attempt to be condescending and mysterious in a cyber forum- at least spell the words right.  Pensions are what I help calculate in my job for knowing when people can retire with how much

And if you ARE getting your rocks off on all this, then it just means that all your disdain over chatrooms and such IS really all a lie.

So you MAY prove yourself to be a liar, but you're certainly proving yourself to be someone who thinks he's some kind of hot stuff because he can type words and delude himself into thinking that because he's getting responses, he somehow is making us all dance to his little tune. 

Enjoy your little psych experiment here, I could point to a dozen threads where people have tried exactly the same thing as you are.  And it's been done for thousands of years in politics.

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

I got my point across, now I'm back off into the shadows... but yes... I protect my property... so be careful next time you "think" you're trying to be cute :)

Your sub was never under attack. How does this relate to the discussion at hand?

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that doesn’t fit into your "Click" well lets contemplate shall we?

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My slave got numerous emails from people saying how this is the exact reason they don’t post on the forums anymore... because they are sick and tired of the good ole boy mentality and the clicks that are on here... so I did some reading... and you know what?

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To offer constructive views? No because that would involve intelligence... its simply to try to make yourself look good.

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LOL I simply put it out in the open, and revealed it for what it is LOL. You do a wonderful job disguising ignorance for intelligence LOL.

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I got my point across, now I'm back off into the shadows... but yes... I protect my property... so be careful next time you "think" you're trying to be cute :)

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos
you're the best out here in trying to pick at the smallest thing

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 I did a spell check so you wouldn't have an excuse to make youself out to be the oh so wonderful spelling bee champion, but I said why not... let me make a mistake and invite an attack rather than simply saying something like you're pathetic, and leaving it at that... but thank you for proving my point once again LOL

You just made my evening :)

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ORIGINAL: beltainefaerie

I have a submissive that I refer to as my "brat".  I find it amusing when she talks back a little, or acts up a little.  Perhaps she isn't as bratty as some who choose the label.  Basically, to us, it means that she has permission with me to pout, beg, tease and even occasionally whine.  She knows when she whines or pouts she is likely to get smacked around and not necessarily with an implement she likes.  She needs a safe space to act out a little like a child and to be given boundaries.  I don't mind the pushiness of brats, in context.  If people behave this way in "real life" it is obnoxious.  In scene, she can ask, "Is that as hard as you can hit?" and I am more than likely going to laugh and change how I am hitting her.  However, I vary in response.  Sometimes I back off and hit softer, almost caressing at that point, just because I like to push her buttons.  Other times I hit far harder or pick up an implement that I like and she doesn't really care for.  There is a mutually playful spirit in our relationship, which I am not sure comes across well in print.  Sometimes she is a very quiet, respectful sub and other times she needs her brat space.  I enjoy either way.  Also, she is capable of restraining her brattiness when necessary, for it is just a role we enjoy, not an inherent attitude problem.  Many people would not find this relationship enjoyable in the slightest, but that is fine.  There are so many kinds of people and different relationships work for different folks.  
I also am submissive and when I am with my Master, that relationship is entirely different.  I would NEVER be a brat to Him, for as a sub I am extremely respectful.  He would not take well to brattiness and of course my goal is to serve and please Him.
Being submissive is really about pleasing your Master or Mistress, in whatever manner is required.  My brat's attitude is entertaining to me, so it works for us. 

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ORIGINAL: MasterMonos

LMAO... Then what does it make some of you "regulars" in here? Predators? You know.. that term troll is tossed out oh so easily these days...

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My slave got numerous emails from people saying how this is the exact reason they don’t post on the forums anymore... because they are sick and tired of the good ole boy mentality and the clicks that are on here...

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I got my point across, now I'm back off into the shadows... but yes... I protect my property... so be careful next time you "think" you're trying to be cute :)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Hmm for those who may wish to have further context of this issue, please refer to this thread, which Monos' slave began and which Monos interjected.  After many pages of discussion in which Monos' slave lashed out due to feeling attacked, Monos and the slave apologized for their behavior.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_735662/mpage_9/key_/tm.htm#736527

One can assume that in the time since then, they have since possibly changed their minds about those apologies, or were never sincere with them to begin with.