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beltainefaerie -> RE: What is a brat? (12/25/2006 10:27:10 PM)
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Greetings MstrssScarlet,
Thanks for sidestepping the argument, as the original topic is interesting. I'm glad you are having fun with your brat too. I think to the outside observer, it often looks like brats are ill trained submissives or topping from the bottom, but when the relationships work, it simply isn't true. Certainly that could be true with some brats, but not mine. She can behave beautiful when necessary, but I enjoy her little rebellions when the timing is appropriate. If I were to always respond by giving her whatever she wished, she would be topping from the bottom, but as I do not unless it is My wish to do so, I am still the one in control.
There often is humorous banter in our play too. I think too many people think it has to be seriouis all the time. The serious scenes can be wonderful and even take on a spiritual element, but there can also be times for a playful spirit that I find most enjoyable. Certainly one can have a spirit of play without brattiness, this is what works for us.
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