RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!!

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!!

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!!

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! - 4/20/2007 3:46:32 PM

his2pet

Posts: 23
Joined: 4/1/2007
Status: offline

You are young and still learning who you are. Look deeply into why you feel this way. Each of us will have our own bad days but we also have our own history that inspires our reactions. For myself a calming activity would not do. My history prevented me from being able to exhibit emotion. When I exhibit these issues it is because I have way too much unresolved emotion and no way to get it out. I know that a serious whipping helps push me over the edge so I can release these feelings. I always feel like a million dollars afterwards. An achy million dollars but, a million dollars just the same, lol. So look deep and talk with your mistress she may be able to help you identify the cause of your feelings and overcome them.

his2pet

(in reply to Arastella)

Profile

Post #: 41

RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! - 4/20/2007 4:39:48 PM

leili

Posts: 49
Joined: 3/18/2007
Status: offline

well what i meant was keep your mouth shut if you have nothing but angry words, but talk to her about what is bothering you (without angry words) lol!

(in reply to gringuita)

Profile

Post #: 42

RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! - 4/20/2007 9:31:19 PM

servilecat

Posts: 126
Joined: 10/8/2005
Status: offline

It's normal! Calming exercises and nutrients may help. I am horribly moody after sugar, allergy meds or too many carbs.

you can count to ten when you get frustrated or She can count to ten on your bottom.....See how that works?

i get frustrated, usually with myself and get as He says "pissy" Daddy has a not so nice corner i get to sit in bound till it passes or i remember to be calm and think it through.

(in reply to Arastella)

Profile

Post #: 43

RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! - 4/21/2007 12:31:37 PM

TexasMaam

Posts: 1467
Joined: 6/22/2005
Status: offline

I think it's pretty common for a sub to feel resistant and unsubmissive from time to time. You've had a lot of good suggestions posted here: relaxation, meditation, asking for a session for some release, struggling through the resistance to complete your chores/obligations, talking to your Dominant. All great suggestions.

Here's Mine:
I'm a big believer in redirecting frustrations and aggravations. Develop a creative hobby, drawing, craft, sewing, gardening, find an active hobby that requires more than sitting and reading or playing a computer game, something that draws on your inner creativity. When you find yourself aggravated, frustrated or moody go spend some time on your hobby.

In that world of creativity that you control, you can find the cure for resistance to the world of what another person controls.

TM

_____________________________

~ My opinions are not necessarily those of the management... ~

(in reply to Arastella)

Profile

Post #: 44

RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! - 4/24/2007 6:34:39 PM

MansizeDOM

Posts: 9
Joined: 4/21/2007
Status: offline

Arastella Sweeheart

You need more training ... Submission also includes eliminating behavior that does not please your domme.. and also assess if rebellious behavior pleases yourself... the process of being conditioned to eliminate unproductive behavior should be a part of your submissive training...You mental nature needs to be in sync with your emotional nature and inner desire..More training to condition your reactions may be helpful...

(in reply to Arastella)

Profile

Post #: 45

RE: I have a submission issue. PLEASE HELP!!! - 4/25/2007 7:28:08 AM

BDOMsecret

Posts: 43
Joined: 4/22/2007
Status: offline

Aint that the truth BRNaughtyAngel !! *hugs and an extra midol*

_____________________________

Take care and be safe.
His o};-

(in reply to BRNaughtyAngel)

Profile

Post #: 46