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It was like being more people than just myself, and myself at the same time if you can understand that train of logic.

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My 'wiring' doesn't work that way. I view a session as the ultimate intimate act between two people. Sex requires functionality. A BDSM scene requires a knowledge of a person, and responsibility for a person that, IMO, goes beyond the sex act. I've missed out on many opportunities over the years because of this attitude, but if anything I've gotten more adamant about the need to know the person.

I'm sure people will feel I have it all turned around, but I'm much more likely to engage in casual sex with 'strangers' than I would have 'casual session'.


I don't see it as turned around at all. You are doing what is right for you and you know what is right for you and I can only respect that.

(in reply to Mercnbeth)

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No other man, or woman, outside of my late Master, Father and mother have ever taken a belt, a whip, a paddle to me. However, in the past, I had been called upon to serve another other than my late Master ( somehow though, I do not think that your question was in this context )

Outside of direct punishment though, I have been disciplined by others outside of the ones that I have mentioned. Discipline is much different though.



hi Serenity

When you say you were called upon to serve another I am guessing you mean you were called upon by your master to do that. You are right that wasn't my question because I think that is a whole other dynamic but I am glad people took the question however they felt it related to them.

You mention discipline from relative strangers but not punishment. Could you be more specific as to how you deferentiate the two and why one but not the other?

(in reply to Serenityy)

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  You mention discipline from relative strangers but not punishment. Could you be more specific as to how you deferentiate the two and why one but not the other?