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Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 4:54:30 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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Threshold of pain

How many Dom and Dommes have a low threshold of pain yet enjoy
administering pain to thier submissive?

I admit to being such.

To Me the more that a submissive takes is not just a physical thing but
definitely a mental mindset which gets Me excited.

Knowing a submissive is doing something to please Me makes it the
cherry on top.

Any others feel the same?

Ross

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 5:00:47 AM

katie7

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My Master has admitted to me that he has no tolerence or pain threshold but loves watching me squirm and cry.

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 5:05:30 AM

SlaveAkasha

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My Master has a decent threshold of pain, but he won't let me try and see just how much.

I do know he loves to see me cry and try to make myself stay still. That gives me a thrill, to know I took all of it just to see him happy and to give him pleasure.

Kasha

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 5:58:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

Threshold of pain

To Me the more that a submissive takes is not just a physical thing but
definitely a mental mindset which gets Me excited.

Knowing a submissive is doing something to please Me makes it the
cherry on top.

Any others feel the same?

Ross

Taking great physical pain is to me, at the core of the power exchange. I crave the pain simply because he (a sadistic dominant) enjoys giving it...and few can take it at the level I can. For me, it is completely a mental exchange through a physical act.

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 7:31:07 AM

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I thought ihad quite a low pain thresh hold i certainly have to pain like fallinover lol But i can take a hard spanking and floggin if i fancy it. My boy has quite a good pain threshold too

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 8:11:29 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69
How many Dom and Dommes have a low threshold of pain yet enjoy
administering pain to thier submissive?

I admit to being such.

To Me the more that a submissive takes is not just a physical thing but
definitely a mental mindset which gets Me excited.

Knowing a submissive is doing something to please Me makes it the
cherry on top.

Any others feel the same?

Ross

I can take a lot of pain, but I never enjoy it. I like knowing who I am playing with is enjoying the scene- either directly from the pain itself, or indirectly from pleasing me.

I rarely ever get into scenes there the purpose is to prove enurance or threshholds. I tend to be far more about enjoying the moment in itself and where the energy takes us together.

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 8:48:42 AM

Grlwithboy

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I have a moderate threshold in SM. I've done a lot of the things I do to others - often not *quite* as hard.
Sometimes much harder, and sometimes I admit I bait them mercilessly with the fact that they're wimpier than I am :) (if they're not traumatized by some ribbing)

I pride myself on this to a degree, and I think it makes me understand the processing I'm seeing happen really well, intuitively, when I am working on another. I'm a Sadist, and never happy till I work someone up to that slight edge where it's become unpleasant, whatever that might be - I've become adept at recognizing that point to the point where I've only missed it a couple of times and left someone relatively unchallenged.

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 9:02:39 AM

RayvenGoddess

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When I first started out exploring BDSM, the person who was teaching me was trying to make me into their sub. Didn't really go as planned for her, but I still got to see what it was like on the other side of the whip a few times. Later on, whenever I got a new tool or toy I would try it on myself first to get an idea of how much pain it had the potential to cause. As a kid I would run around with no shoes all summer and wouldn't even notice the thorns, burs, and sometimes glass that I got stuck in my feet because I was too busy playing. I've had some horrible injuries that, while they took my breath away, didn't make me cry/pass out/really react at all. My family were all firemen so I learned simple first aid early. Every time I pop my arm out of its socket I can grab it and put it back by myself. I guess I can handle a lot of pain actually, but I am not numb to any of what I have mentioned. I felt everything, and it hurt, but I have some weird ability to control my reactions to the pain.

edited because I can't spell, blegh.

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 6:56:10 PM

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I have an unusually high pain tolerance.

This made some of my early experiences edgier for my submissive partners, because I didn't see the pain inflicted as significantly as they did.

Of course, pain is relative, as most who administer it come to learn. And proper pain delivery, as well as any good personal interaction, requires one to learn empathy.

Interesting topic, OP.

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 8:55:23 PM

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I can tell you that my Daddy shrugs off most pain, and his attitude is it will hurt until it doesn't anymore. His domspace with sadism is not through the amount of pain he can inflict, but my reaction to the pain. He will inflict the pain he wants until he gets the reaction he desires.

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RE: Threshold of pain - 12/28/2006 11:49:06 PM

UtopianRanger

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

Threshold of pain

How many Dom and Dommes have a low threshold of pain yet enjoy
administering pain to thier submissive?

I admit to being such.

To Me the more that a submissive takes is not just a physical thing but
definitely a mental mindset which gets Me excited.

Knowing a submissive is doing something to please Me makes it the
cherry on top.

Any others feel the same?

Ross

I have a tremendous threshold for pain. Hell..... I've been stabbed in the gut before {younger days} and still kept thrown' - Same goes with fear......taken some seriously tumultuous swims in ice cold rivers and I'm back in the water the next weekend.

- R

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RE: Threshold of pain - 1/11/2007 11:21:37 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OedipusRexIt

Of course, pain is relative, as most who administer it come to learn. And proper pain delivery, as well as any good personal interaction, requires one to learn empathy.

Well said...very well said...

Ross

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RE: Threshold of pain - 1/11/2007 11:39:29 AM

PONYSEEKER

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Although I do have a pretty good threshold I can honestly say that I do not understand how they can take as much as they do for as long as they do. If for one second I didnt know that they were having a good time I would be crushed.

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RE: Threshold of pain - 1/11/2007 11:42:07 AM

mstrjx

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My pain threshold is inordinately high - through the roof.

A few years back I inadvertently broke my right ankle in two places. I thought it might be a sprain.

The next day, I drove (on said right ankle) 500 miles to a business meeting that was supposed to last through the week.

The following day, things weren't getting any better, so I drove to a hospital. The doctor let me know my ankle was broken (in two places), and since I was 500 miles from home it was decided I should wait until I got back home to have it set. So, at 3:00 in the afternoon, I drove the 500 miles back home (on said right ankle).

It was finally set on what would be day 4 of the adventure.

Personally, I thought the whole thing was an inconvenience at best.

I can take what I can dish out.

Jeff

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RE: Threshold of pain - 1/11/2007 11:44:03 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PONYSEEKER

Although I do have a pretty good threshold I can honestly say that I do not understand how they can take as much as they do for as long as they do. If for one second I didnt know that they were having a good time I would be crushed.

Might it be ENDORPHINES junkies? ;)

The only thing I'll ever ask of you
You've got to promise not to stop when I say when
She sang....

Ross

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RE: Threshold of pain - 1/11/2007 12:02:07 PM

juliaoceania

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edited because I already posted on this thread...doh

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RE: Threshold of pain - 1/12/2007 1:12:42 AM

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My Dominant regularly says, "I am at one with my inner wimp."

Not so good on the pain threshold, that one

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RE: Threshold of pain - 1/12/2007 1:20:02 AM

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My Sir has a high pain threshould unless you do one of two things. Hit his privates or hit his side. Then you are in trouble. Other than that nothing phases him. I know, I bit him while playing around just short of drawing blood and he didn't flinch, move, or otherwise let me know I was biting hard. It wasn't till after I let go that we saw just how hard I was biting. Good thing he was in a good mood at the time or I have a feeling I would have been in trouble.

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RE: Threshold of pain - 1/12/2007 3:39:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: simplyangelic1

My Sir has a high pain threshould unless you do one of two things. Hit his privates or hit his side. Then you are in trouble. Other than that nothing phases him. I know, I bit him while playing around just short of drawing blood and he didn't flinch, move, or otherwise let me know I was biting hard. It wasn't till after I let go that we saw just how hard I was biting. Good thing he was in a good mood at the time or I have a feeling I would have been in trouble.

There is a certain mindset when playing for doms I imagine but for Me perhaps it is more of focused determination and care? hmmm

Ross

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RE: Threshold of pain - 1/12/2007 3:40:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I can tell you that my Daddy shrugs off most pain, and his attitude is it will hurt until it doesn't anymore. His domspace with sadism is not through the amount of pain he can inflict, but my reaction to the pain. He will inflict the pain he wants until he gets the reaction he desires.

So what is his desired reaction? Does he get it?

Ross

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