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ORIGINAL: pixelslave


Is there an echo in here?   

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

And I believe that explination is what pixel was looking for when he asked you.

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

Is there an echo in here?   

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according to your sarcastic comment, there is. 

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

Is there an echo in here?   

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according to your sarcastic comment, there is. 

**Heads up, if you tend to read a lot of people's opinions, you will see many beating
dead horses to death and also trying to beat others over the head, to make sure they "get"
their points.  LOL 

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ORIGINAL: MzMia
 
I tend to chuckle over submissives that enjoy screaming about what they like and need,
hey its collarme ladies!  Listen to these submissives and heed what they say or else!
**2007? Bring it on!**

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig
Pixel, I've actually met one very educated man in person, who called himself a slave and the biggest reason we did not get together was that I my terms for his slavery included him being a lover, and he was not in the least bit interested in sex beyond watching me do it with someone else, and cleaning up.

I've also had numerous emails from men who tell me that the way to get them to submit is to enforce chastity...   Like you, I don't see what is in it for them either, and frankly those types are not compatible with me, but wankers or not, they are around and they are seeking chastity.    M

Thank you for the polite explanation of where MistressDolly is apparently coming from...  Clearly a case of "Your Kink is Not My Kink!" and to each their own!  

Cuckolding is something I just don't "get".  Cleaning up after myself with a woman, one whom I care deeply about, can be a very intimate act of submission which can really push my buttons!  But cleaning up after another man sounds like a very risky proposition to me, both for the health of myself and the woman I'd be serving who for whatever reason, acted as the other man's receptacle.  

Short term chastity can be very effectively used to build the desire that lies deep within me; especially when combined with the right kind of teasing.    But if it were used for the long term, I'm fairly certain I would find it to be quite depressing.  I don't think it would be a mentally healthy experience for me.   If in that kind of emotional state, I'm doubtful I'd be of much use to a Mistress. 

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Btw, I like the way you think too.  You've got a lot of class and tact.  :)

Its nice to get various opinions here and support, in a friendly manner.

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ORIGINAL: GuidingLite

I can personally say from my very own past experience that using chastiy is a good way to train and or discipline and depending on the infraction long term chastiy works good to and even yet subs dont ahve a right to dictate what means i can use to train or discilpline unless of course they are a Bottom at which case they get dismissed pronto.  Over time that comes out when the whinning and dicatations start to seep out.  A subs motto is what can i do to please you?  Bottoms motto is Can you do me like this?  pweety pleeze.

We are real people with limits, feelings, hopes, desires & needs of our own.  Just because we wish to have our limits respected and not to have things done to us which might damage our mental health doesn't make us bottoms or disrespectful to those we trust and give our submission to.  Instead, it shows that we have respect for both ourselves and the women we wish to serve.  To my way of thinking, there's no reason we shouldn't expect that the respect we show the women we serve would not be returned to us as part of the power exchange we share.  If we allow our physical or mental health to be damaged, of what use would we be to you?  Would we be acting responsibly to ourselves or to you?  I personally think the answer is that we would not!   For those who have searched for some time to find "their special one", they understand we're not just a commodity to do anything you can dream of just as you please. 

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ORIGINAL: pixelslave

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I can personally say from my very own past experience that using chastiy is a good way to train and or discipline and depending on the infraction long term chastiy works good to and even yet subs dont ahve a right to dictate what means i can use to train or discilpline unless of course they are a Bottom at which case they get dismissed pronto.  Over time that comes out when the whinning and dicatations start to seep out.  A subs motto is what can i do to please you?  Bottoms motto is Can you do me like this?  pweety pleeze.

Perhaps in your world subs don't have any rights, but in others they do!
 
We are real people with limits, feelings, hopes, desires & needs of our own.  Just because we wish to have our limits respected and not to have things done to us which might damage our mental health doesn't make us bottoms or disrespectful to those we trust and give our submission to.  Instead, it shows that we have respect for both ourselves and the women we wish to serve.  To my way of thinking, there's no reason we shouldn't expect that the respect we show the women we serve would not be returned to us as part of the power exchange we share.  If we allow our physical or mental health to be damaged, of what use would we be to you?  Would we be acting responsibly to ourselves or to you?  I personally think the answer is that we would not!   For those who have searched for some time to find "their special one", they understand we're not just a commodity to do anything you can dream of just as you please. 
 
 - pixel 

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Perhaps in your world subs don't have any rights, but in others they do!
 

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ORIGINAL: subailz

being a subbie im probably not meant to type but i just wanted to sya i hope you all get hwat your require for the year ahead god bless yours

subailz