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mgdartist -> RE: What happen to courtesy? (12/31/2006 3:24:34 AM)
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Well thanks everyone, aspecially those ladies who've elaborated, for beating the tired old skinless nag once again, to help me fully understand. As I haven't been here quite a year, have sent out enough notes of admiration to to get a bulk mail discount, had I used the USPS, and have recieved enough replies to make me feel certain the entire female submissive population here is surely illiterate, and possibly catatonic. Of course I now see how that is erroneous, and that they merely have little regard for anyone who may happen to be male who sits down and writes them so much as a few words of admiration and if he, having the unmitigated gall to presume to do so, does, will be shown how they deal with fools such as he, as he must be taught that they simply don't, won't , and are certain if they did, would surely regret it. And were he dumbass enough to complain, unfairly to their mind, of their inaction, will be taught the time honored lesson which has always been used: more of the same. Maybe it ain't pretty or popular, but all the subgals can vouch for it's effectiveness.
I've had a few kinky friends both male and female ask about cm, and I give them the link, with the disclaimer;
"Here you go. Have fun. But you won't. Unless your favorite pastime is ignoring folks, since thats the game there, and you may as well get a head start, cuz they're keeping score."
To the sub ladies interested in cm I just say:
"Damn, and I was starting to like you too..." or
"If I give you this link, you won't like men in a week"
They laugh, sign up, and don't. Rarely takes a week though. Had a few kill their profiles and ask me then,
"Why do you stay at that site? it sucks"
Somewhat flabbergasted at first, I managed to come up with a standard reply:
"Any good Dom worth his whips needs an in-depth understanding of what it's like for a masochist, and trust me, Ive learned so much about it there, and discovered what it really means to have people who are unworthy to lick your browneye, treat you like dogshit"
While not entirely truthful, suffice to say, it's been a humbling experience, and made me realize some illusions I'd had, were just plain silly, Like once believing that Dominants, by nature, had more class that the average man, and that submissives, were invariably interested in submitting. Now I know you could search every trailer park and slum in the US, and not find men of such incremental class and stature as many "Doms" here. I also know If I want to actually have a sub, I've had a lot better success rate, subverting curious, adventurous vanilla gals, and of the "real" submissives here, attaining the surrender, of just one, while possible, will surely involve much time, best measured in dog years, jumping through innumerable hoops, questionaires, and evaluations, quitting smoking and any sort of non-acceptable predilictions, losing the sense of humor which seems to annoy them so badly, and after passing whatever UA's, STD's, and background checks they require, might finally arrive at a face to face or 2, and at last get a chance to solve the chinese arithmetic connundrums they've prepared, and then a kobiachi maru scenario or 2 (a la star trek) and then maybe, just maybe, if I can remain positive, un-affected and definately not bitter (they really hate that!) by it all, will see the utter thrill of her finally saying;
"collarme."
Funny, when I first came here, I really thought this place would be an answer to prayer. being a fairly large and friendly enough group of my kind of people, on a reasonably good free site. Actually I had it almost right, just backwards. It's more about sitting and waiting, praying for an answer.
But well, it is free, so I really can't bitch (but just did, sue me). Since I'm getting exactly what I paid for.
couldnt find my lol.
MGD
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