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LancasterMaleSub -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:01:17 PM)
Yes I now understand that my previous posting was too harsh and I hope you will all accept my apology. As I mentioned I am new to the D/s lifestyle and still in the "looking around" stage. I have tried to get my wife into this but I have not been successful, partly because she is Amish I believe, so I am very frustrated. When I told her last month that I was thinking about become a slave she gave me that "deer in the headlights" look - and it was clear she had no idea what I was talking about. So I started looking on-line for more information and found this site. We have a marriage built upon difficult compromises due to our different background (Amish Background, City Background) (I can use electric appliances - she cannot, I can use the car - she cannot, etc, etc) so things are difficult enough as it is. Also after spending more time on this site I am now considering becoming a Dominant Male (Master, God, Lord, etc) instead of a male slave since there appears to be more attractive submissive chicks than Dominant chicks. And I do understand that my view of what an attractive chick is an entirely subjective opinion - I am not trying to offend anyone. But slave chicks do appear to be hotter to me than Dominant chicks on average so I may take this route. My concern is that the transition to becoming a Dominant God from an aspiring male slave may be a difficult one. If anyone has experience with this I would like to hear from you.

bandit25 -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:08:08 PM)
Well, I think you could answer the question..."What does it mean to have NO CLUE?"

bandit25 -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:09:21 PM)
Your post WAS a joke, right? Right?

LancasterMaleSub -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:18:13 PM)
No - respectfully my post was not a joke. Why you think it would be is beyond me.............

bandit25 -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:21:36 PM)
You decide to be a dom because the hot chicks are slaves? And you say that this isn't a joke? Please!

AAkasha -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:24:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LancasterMaleSub No - respectfully my post was not a joke. Why you think it would be is beyond me............. What does your conservative Amish wife think about you looking for a hot submissive chick since she isn't taking to kink? Or is this a secret? Akasha

PsyVamp -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:30:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bandit25 You decide to be a dom because the hot chicks are slaves? And you say that this isn't a joke? Please! I think he is not joking, he is just looking for a pin up with a whip, I think. He just doesn't get it....and he never will.....ROFLMFAO Damn Vampyre

bandit25 -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:32:11 PM)
Nope, he sure won't get it.

badgirl64 -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:44:21 PM)
I don't think you have the one thing that is required to be either a slave or a Dominant....which is RESPECT for your partner. Whether you are one or the other, you have to have respect for the person you choose to be with. First we are "chicks" then you are a "Dominant God"....that sort of scares me...and would scare anyone that had an ounce of sense! Maybe you should take a step back and think about this before you go jumping into it

poplolly -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:51:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LancasterMaleSub Also after spending more time on this site I am now considering becoming a Dominant Male (Master, God, Lord, etc) instead of a male slave since there appears to be more attractive submissive chicks than Dominant chicks. And I do understand that my view of what an attractive chick is an entirely subjective opinion - I am not trying to offend anyone. But slave chicks do appear to be hotter to me than Dominant chicks on average so I may take this route. My concern is that the transition to becoming a Dominant God from an aspiring male slave may be a difficult one. If anyone has experience with this I would like to hear from you. No, seriously, you're kidding? Right? "Chick"? "Dominant God"? OMG!!!! I think I hurt something from laughing so hard! ~~editied because I'm so wretchedly ill I can't type.

LotusSong -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 3:59:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LancasterMaleSub Yes I now understand that my previous posting was too harsh and I hope you will all accept my apology. As I mentioned I am new to the D/s lifestyle and still in the "looking around" stage. I have tried to get my wife into this but I have not been successful, partly because she is Amish I believe, so I am very frustrated. When I told her last month that I was thinking about become a slave she gave me that "deer in the headlights" look - and it was clear she had no idea what I was talking about. So I started looking on-line for more information and found this site. We have a marriage built upon difficult compromises due to our different background (Amish Background, City Background) (I can use electric appliances - she cannot, I can use the car - she cannot, etc, etc) so things are difficult enough as it is. Also after spending more time on this site I am now considering becoming a Dominant Male (Master, God, Lord, etc) instead of a male slave since there appears to be more attractive submissive chicks than Dominant chicks. And I do understand that my view of what an attractive chick is an entirely subjective opinion - I am not trying to offend anyone. But slave chicks do appear to be hotter to me than Dominant chicks on average so I may take this route. My concern is that the transition to becoming a Dominant God from an aspiring male slave may be a difficult one. If anyone has experience with this I would like to hear from you. LMS- I take it you missed this thread : http://www.collarchat.com/m_447682/mpage_16/key_obese/tm.htm#449685

DiamondDiva -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 4:00:38 PM)
I totally object to this definition as I am NEITHER of these things. I also don't understand the annoyance behind it. People choose to use the titling that they like whether it is Goddess, Domme, FemDom, Top or whatever. Domme is just the femine way to say Dominate. If you don't like it don't use it, but why try to make it seem that it is something negative? I truly believe that this is one thing that is wrong in society as it is, people tend to get caught up in things that don't really matter. Is the use of Domme hurting anyone or better yet is it altering your lifestyle? Is it affecting you in any way besides the fact that you don't like the way it sounds? The word itself is powerless it is just a word use to describe. That's all. Personal preference and depending on how I am feeling I may use it. I use Domme, Goddess, Mistress whatever is floating me at the time. quote: ORIGINAL: LancasterMaleSub From my observations "Domme" appears to mean the following: Overweight (morbidly obese in many cases). Unpleasant personality with sociopathic tendancies. Divorced (multiple times in many cases). Emotionally needy. Insecure. Employed in a low paying menial job. But then again I'm new here............

LotusSong -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 4:02:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LancasterMaleSub From my observations "Domme" appears to mean the following: Overweight (morbidly obese in many cases). Unpleasant personality with sociopathic tendancies. Divorced (multiple times in many cases). Emotionally needy. Insecure. Employed in a low paying menial job. But then again I'm new here............ BTW.. got a picture of yourself to share?

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 4:17:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LancasterMaleSub As I mentioned I am new to the D/s lifestyle and still in the "looking around" stage. I have tried to get my wife into this but I have not been successful, partly because she is Amish I believe, so I am very frustrated. When I told her last month that I was thinking about become a slave she gave me that "deer in the headlights" look - Also after spending more time on this site I am now considering becoming a Dominant Male (Master, God, Lord, etc) instead of a male slave since there appears to be more attractive submissive chicks than Dominant chicks. And I do understand that my view of what an attractive chick is an entirely subjective opinion - I am not trying to offend anyone. But slave chicks do appear to be hotter to me than Dominant chicks on average so I may take this route. My concern is that the transition to becoming a Dominant God from an aspiring male slave may be a difficult one You are either completely insane, or you have a lot of nerve! Seems to me you already have a perfect slave at home to continue being the kind of dominant you aspire to be, because out here, the slaves will have your balls (at least I hope) if you treat women like you type here in real life. M

krista -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 4:29:54 PM)
Greetings...... i personally.....am not buying word one .....from the original poster. regards krista joy through service

lezleeann -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 4:47:59 PM)
this is the first time ive actually got round to reading the forum pages, and i dont know about you ladies but im really offended, im really new to things but id certainly like to give him a run for his money !

kate -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 4:49:11 PM)
oh wow...the things some people say.... if someone who had NO experience in the lifestyle tried to tell me they were a "dominant god" or called me a "chick" i would laugh in his face...i would assume it was someone who maybe saw a movie with a kinky scene in it and figured they wanted to play too.....it's not that simple

DiamondDiva -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 6:02:04 PM)
Yes I do, it is on my profile and I recieve compliments all of the time. Also, I have a PhD in Chemistry and I worked my way through college, grad and post grad as a model for alternative lifestyle still photos. I never made less than $ 700 a shoot and I would shoot approx 2-3 times a week. I am in no way overweight, I do not have self-esteem issues, I have not ever been married (in school practically all of my life) so I have never been divorced.Have never been needy and I have a very pleasant disposition. So, sorry again, I don't fit your description of a Domme. I think you may have issues that you need to sort out but do not place your stigma on all that choose to call themselves Domme. quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong quote: ORIGINAL: LancasterMaleSub From my observations "Domme" appears to mean the following: Overweight (morbidly obese in many cases). Unpleasant personality with sociopathic tendancies. Divorced (multiple times in many cases). Emotionally needy. Insecure. Employed in a low paying menial job. But then again I'm new here............ BTW.. got a picture of yourself to share?

DiamondDiva -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 6:14:13 PM)
Sorry Lotus Song, I read the post wrong, I thought it was him asking me if I had a photo of myself being smart. Now I see that it was YOU asking HIM. LOL. Good question. I think I already have a visual and trust me it is not pretty. [:D]

LTRsubNW -> RE: What does it mean to be a "domme"? (12/31/2006 6:35:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SobbingAndTears What does it mean to be a "domme"? I'll post my observations particularly of the Chicago area after some of your comments. Thanks Own the game. Better clothes. Waaaaay the fuck better smile. Looks better in heels. (I can add more if you like).

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