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ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

If you turn down the money and say no...then you are in control.

very true Aileen.  

i am going to take a wild leap of faith and guess that there aren't any onlines dommes who won't take the money.  rationalize it all you want, but if you are doing online domination for $, you are what used to be 900 numbers before the great age of the internet.  as for the OP, i don't understand the online dom thing, probably never will.  i'm curious what needs, other than deposits in your bank acct, are being met?  fair enough, more power to you.  but that renders your question "navel pondering." the guy paying is running the show.  money stops, relationship ends.

be well.

There are plenty of online Dommes who don't involve money in their interactions.  They actually do it because they enjoy it and may not be able to enjoy real time interactions (for a variety of reasons).  Some have developed long-term relationships as well.  There should be a distinction made between those who charge money and those who don't..

Be well,
Julie