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Nightmares and BDSM - 12/31/2006 6:22:47 AM   
Master96


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Status: offline 		I didn't have any... well, yet.... lol

I just thought about it after I had a nightmare when i saw the movie "The Grudge" . I don't like such movies about sprits and ghosts. But I do enjoyed "Saw"... lol

I'm asking about any fears about your lifestyle that presented to you in a nightmare...

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RE: Nightmares - 12/31/2006 6:25:17 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		i can make the same ratteling noice the Grudge ghosts make, i learned to do it as a little girl, i belived i sounded like a bird.

i have not realy had lifestyle related nightmares, but ofcourse there is doubths and fears there, but they tend to sxrepss them self to my consious mind in stead.

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RE: Nightmares - 12/31/2006 6:39:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		Him dying. I dreamt that and for days was in a horrible place. It's my one huge fear.

He has a friend that knows about us and is the person who would contact me/be there for me if something were to ever happen to him. I think this person is a wonderful friend. I'd be beyond devasted though if he ever showed up on my doorstep. And my nightmare was that my doorbell rang and when I opened the door, there he was.

juliet

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RE: Nightmares - 12/31/2006 7:19:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		My first dom was the only D/s nightmare I ever had..

Unfortunately, I had to really live that one.

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RE: Nightmares and BDSM - 12/31/2006 7:41:40 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Before I had met Doug I had spent ten years with my old dom.  It was a long road to find Doug.  Year's to be exact.  With the level of experience I had at the time.  The level of experience most other's had.  Doug and I are embarking on our 8th year already.
Very few...well none my age had the level of experience I was seeking in a dominant.  The ones who had were 50+ and I was 30..it just wasn't going to be a match for me in any way.
Never the less the older ones still tried...up to 80 if I recall.

Anyway so I ended up with a recurring dream/nightmare.  I would be chained to the wall in a typical play session.  Metal cuffs though.  To eyebolts in the beams. 
Nude of course after all there is no other way to play.

Anyway the old geezer would have a heart attack.  Being trained to help, I had to sit there..rip open my wrists trying to get loose.  Never to be able to.  I had to watch him die.  As well as stand there with the body for days on end until finally dehydration got me as well.
A week after my death people found us.  We made national headlines and not in a good way.

With every retired dom who contacted me...another dream all the same over and over again. 

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RE: Nightmares and BDSM - 12/31/2006 8:23:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		My nightmares tend to be rare, sporadic and about life stress or other spiritual experiences. 

I'm not afraid of things "in the lifestyle."

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RE: Nightmares - 12/31/2006 8:26:31 AM   
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RE: Nightmares - 12/31/2006 9:32:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Em... one.. but it had nothing to do with really scening.. and it was only a nightmare, i suppose because i woke up scared crapless.  But it wasnt really a nightmare till the very end.  All it really did was show me my complete insecurity and the feelings i have beneath it.  One of the very few dreams that i have ever become violent in. (its a bit messed up)

I went to visit my Dom, who amazingly lived down the hall from this other guy i knew.  Yet before i got to my Dom's door, i was with him out on the street and he was looking out in distance - looking for something.  Fast forward, i go up to his door and i knock.  A girl answers who is in his T shirt and that being it.  I come inside all nice and friendly like and i find out its her birthday.  So we sit chatting.  He comes in with an armload of gifts and ballons for her.  I sit there staring at him like "who is this?"  (clearly seriously upset)  Things take an ugly turn - he ends up cuddling with her on the ground, almost if to spite me.  He gets a "i could careless about you" attitude.  Basically telling me he was with her and i could find the door if i pleased. Making in completely certian that he could give two shits about me, we were over, and this was his new girl.  I'm being torn to shreds as he is "loving" this girl and i lost it.  I climbed on top of him, pinning him down and i started beating him in the face until his head has shrunk, he starts turning his face side to side saying "help"  I guess i come out of the rage and realise the girl isnt doing a damn thing and i better stop.  I hop off of him and i run over to the other friends house to get my stuff.  Knowing i best hurry as he would get up eventually and come for me.  I woke up to my heart thudding, fear running through me and i swear i heard the house shudder as i heard his footsteps coming closer. 

aside from THAT - i generally have very nice lifestyle dreams.  Sometimes they teach me things, sometimes they play out fantasies.

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RE: Nightmares - 1/1/2007 6:22:32 AM   
Master96


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much guys for your input... :)

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Understand that actions will always speak louder than words.


Before you speak, ask yourself..
Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?
Does it improve upon the silence? - Sai Baba

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