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DiamondOrchid -> Sex... How long do you wait? (12/31/2006 10:41:11 PM)
I'm sitting here all by my lonesome, listening to my pooch snore, thinking about some people I've been messaging lately and possible possibilities. Naturally, 'cause I'm not in a relationship, and I won't pay someone to leave, some of those possibilities include the horizontal tango. Which got me wondering... how long did you wait before having sex with your current/last/majority of partner(s)? Why did you wait (or not)? Do you think it was a good thing that you did what you did, or....??? Thanks, Nosey Parker Oh, and Happy New Year!!! [:D]

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (12/31/2006 10:47:46 PM)
i've held out for six months to a year...better to know someone than to do something impulsive

cuddleheart50 -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (12/31/2006 10:49:49 PM)
I always wait until I know the person really, really well....and I have never regreted doing it that way either.

daredevil865 -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (12/31/2006 10:54:04 PM)
For me there is no set time that makes me say OK X amount of days has passed so now it must feel right...for each experience it was different. With some a few meetings and with others much longer. The last one it was a couple of weeks.

LotusSong -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (12/31/2006 10:55:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiamondOrchid I'm sitting here all by my lonesome, listening to my pooch snore, thinking about some people I've been messaging lately and possible possibilities. Naturally, 'cause I'm not in a relationship, and I won't pay someone to leave, some of those possibilities include the horizontal tango. Which got me wondering... how long did you wait before having sex with your current/last/majority of partner(s)? Why did you wait (or not)? Do you think it was a good thing that you did what you did, or....??? Thanks, Nosey Parker Oh, and Happy New Year!!! [:D] I think I waited around 3 months way back in the pre-AIDS days. Lord only knows how long I'd wait now days! I don't envy you folks.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (12/31/2006 11:45:26 PM)
We had sex our very first meeting, I don't regret it, it was wonderfully satisfying and left me sated and happy for days. I didn't wait because thechemistry felt right sex felt right and I was frankly horny.

DiamondOrchid -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (12/31/2006 11:46:56 PM)
Thanks everyone for answering so quickly! lol I agree with you Michael, but... perhaps its because I've been out of a relationship for a while, but I WANT NOOKIE!!! sad sigh However, I must admit that like cuddleheart (spiffy pic by the way!), I have to know the person. Otherwise, imo, it's like playing Russian Roulette with my health... drat those std's/i's and HIV! So, LotusSong, what was the free luv like back then???? [:D] (I'm just razzing you, I don't expect an answer) D.

Devilslilsister -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 12:07:24 AM)
..... until i decide not to wait? I dont really wait. I just go for it when i feel ready. Its different for each person. With Master - it was the first night. With another boyfriend - i waited a year, never slept with him and then broke up with him.

NeedToUseYou -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 12:41:18 AM)
I'm game. What's your name again?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 1:52:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiamondOrchid Which got me wondering... how long did you wait before having sex with your current/last/majority of partner(s)? Why did you wait (or not)? Do you think it was a good thing that you did what you did, or....??? Thanks, Nosey Parker Two months with one of my partners due to orders from my ex-master. Yes it was a good thing that I did that. About a year and a half with my other partner, because it was how the relationship flowed. Yes it was a good thing to do that. I've also had sex with plenty on a first date. It was the good thing to do in that relationship. I decide to have sex when I feel it's right for everyone involved. SOmetimes that's in one night, sometimes it's in a few months, sometimes it's never.

meatcleaver -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 4:39:12 AM)
About a week, second or third date sometimes on the first date. Strangely those that have succumbed on the first date all said they don't usually rush in. Now I'm not so arrogant to think there is something special about me that makes these women so readily drop their pants so I did a poll around the studio here, not scientific I know and in the aftermath of a New Year's party the response is as much 'fuck off' as a relevent answer but most people say about a week and there is one couple that fucked on their first night because we all heard the racket they created, the odd 'Jesus' and 'oh God!' and the smacks while we were trying to sing Auld Lang Syne. Me thinks that women like to protect their reputation in public while enjoying playing the slapper in private and why not?[:D]

pahunkboy -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 6:44:02 AM)
20 minutes.

MmakeMme -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 6:47:25 AM)
The longest, three years (and man was it ever a let-down when it happened). The shortest, right after "Hi, my name's ..." (and man was it hawt).

mnottertail -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 7:21:47 AM)
When I was 16, perhaps a minute, but in my advancing age, a great deal longer, I am afraid. Ron

meatcleaver -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 7:32:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MmakeMme The longest, three years (and man was it ever a let-down when it happened). The shortest, right after "Hi, my name's ..." (and man was it hawt). It was probably a let down because you waited so long. Was the height of passion still so strong after three years? I think after three years I would have given up hope and if then offered it it would have been accepted as a matter of principle for waiting three years.[:o]

missturbation -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 9:40:54 AM)
It's been that long i think i've forgotten how to have sex, been told its like riding a bike, once learnt never forgotten - fingers crossed! On how long i wait - depends. When its right i guess - cud be first night cud be never.

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 9:44:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation It's been that long i think i've forgotten how to have sex, been told its like riding a bike, once learnt never forgotten - fingers crossed! On how long i wait - depends. When its right i guess - cud be first night cud be never. it may be like riding a bike...but i wouldn't advise riding a bike at the same time...peddling ruins the rhytym...LOL

Kalira -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 9:47:55 AM)
When I met Master, I was naked before he even walked in the door [:)]

missturbation -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 9:48:24 AM)
It was good on a motor bike but it was stationary at the time [;)]

meatcleaver -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 9:52:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kalira When I met Master, I was naked before he even walked in the door [:)] You are the sort of woman I like, one who knows what relationships are about![:D]

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