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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/7/2007 11:01:36 AM

daddysprop247

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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

I am curious, for those who have been given to others sexually by their Masters, was "safe sex" practiced?

I understand the trust and devotion to your Master, but if he chose to give you to a stranger without requiring "safe sex", would you still do it?

Please understand I'm not looking to judge, I'm just wondering if there is a limit to that trust/devotion when it could be a detriment to your own health?

sometimes "safer sex" is practiced, sometimes it's not. it all depends on what my Master wants at that particular moment. i have no say in who i serve or in what manner i serve them...i'm his...i serve who and how he tells me to, period. i honestly don't even consider things like "safe sex" since it's completely irrelevant to my service and something i have no control over anyway.

on a side note, it is not all about "trust and devotion." for me these things did not come until long after i had been my Master's property. however you still serve, you still obey 100%. not because of love or trust or whatever flowery lovely thing you wish to name, but purely because once that final choice is made, there is no more choice.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/7/2007 2:31:40 PM

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Just adding a comment to that, not necessarily what you are looking for. Someone I was talking to for awhile, and he seemed to know his Master business very well, told me that before you decide to give yourself to a Master completely and totally, you have to be able to trust him completely. You have to know what kind of man he is, inside and out. It is also his responsibility to know you inside and out. You have to build a very strong trust of the Master before you give yourself to him or "sign" contracts. If it were me, I wouldn't do something like that. I'd keep looking for a true Master.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/7/2007 3:16:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

I am curious, for those who have been given to others sexually by their Masters, was "safe sex" practiced?

I understand the trust and devotion to your Master, but if he chose to give you to a stranger without requiring "safe sex", would you still do it?

Please understand I'm not looking to judge, I'm just wondering if there is a limit to that trust/devotion when it could be a detriment to your own health?

My Master would always ensure my sexual safety, as he would not want damaged property nor would he want me to pass anything on to him. However, I do obey whatever he tells me to. If he had me give some guy a blowjob and swallow him, then I would do it. I am not my own; I am his.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/7/2007 4:14:24 PM

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It's always dependent upon the relationship. If this is something that is acceptable for that relationship, then there is no reason for the master not to share his sub/slave with others.

As others have alluded to though, it has to be consentual both ways. Safe words exist for a reason, not to be ignored. If the master chooses to ignore the limits that the sub/slave places by the use of the safe word, then the master has lost the right to be a master, they're just a mean sadist. Respect has to flow both ways from the master and from the sub/slave and if it doesn't, then there is something wrong with the relationship.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/7/2007 5:06:41 PM

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Thank you DP and OG for answering my question. I appreciate your candor.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/7/2007 5:13:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Thank you DP and OG for answering my question. I appreciate your candor.

You are welcome. Keep in mind, however, that in my case, a significant bond and level of trust has been built up over the years. In my first month under his ownership, I may well have felt much differently. Knowing me, I likely would have done it, but I would have felt extremely uneasy about it.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/7/2007 5:13:48 PM

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The Sir I served also required condoms and no fluid exchanges between myself and who I was loaned to.
It was his choice, but I was VERY happy about it.

suzanne

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/7/2007 5:39:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
My Master would always ensure my sexual safety, as he would not want damaged property nor would he want me to pass anything on to him. However, I do obey whatever he tells me to. If he had me give some guy a blowjob and swallow him, then I would do it. I am not my own; I am his.

My ex master had the same feelings on this issue.

However, I was into whoring before we became committed to eachother, so giving me away or trading me wasn't anything new or something that required a deep connection of intimacy for me. I've got other land mines for that :)

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/8/2007 9:45:44 AM

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Not all M/s relationships are the "romantic" type. I once had a Master that i deeply respected and trusted but was not in love with. (this is a completely different subject all together) He trained me in HIS way, to be a pleasure "slut". Again, in this instance, he would never put me in a situation where i would pick up any nasty critters and bring them back to him but he did often allow some of his friends free use of me. He was mentoring a new Dominant man and eventually gave me to him as a gift. It didn't hurt my feelings, as a matter of fact, as LuckyAlbatross mentioned, to be reduced to an object of trade was quite exciting. I felt special because he chose me to give to this other man (who i had previously served in a sexual setting with my previous Dom). To each their own kink. Unfortunatly, the Master i was handed over to lost interest in the M/s dynamic within a fairly short amount of time and i was without an owner. It is all a matter of how far you will go to obey and make His/Her total dominance a reality.

That being said, if i loved my Dom/Daddy/Master i would find it very difficult to be handed off even for a short while. I would do my best to please him all the while reminding myself that total submission is a choice I made and its not always an easy road to wander down. I would always recommend knowing your Dominant very well before fully submitting to Him/Her. Make sure if this is something you are concerned with that your Dom would take that into consideration before sending you off with some unknown.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/8/2007 11:14:45 PM

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I have been given to others in a previose relation ship and it has because of those experinces become a hard limit I hated everymoment and felt awefull afterward.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/9/2007 10:00:46 PM

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hello as a sub male i too was given as a gift too Male / Master bya Mistress very humiliateing and embrassing as well

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/10/2007 5:55:41 PM

SirStephan55

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This is exactly how and why we do it. I do loan her out - allows her to be a slut without being reponsible for it - I am always presnet and make sure limits are observed. She loves at and wants to do more.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/10/2007 5:58:40 PM

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Anyone who would like to find out is welcome to e-mail me on the other side...

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ORIGINAL: luvme2

I would like to know what it's like.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/11/2007 5:50:17 AM

ardelle

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greetings

for myself, Master had 'loaned' me out numerous times to others for service. However, this is not always for sexual service; at times it is nothing more than just to help with a party etc. There were times that this extra service was only for a couple hours, sometimes for a couple days, sometimes for a week or so.

being required to do such was of no importance to me; as long as Master and all parties were pleased with the service, i was quite happy to do so.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/11/2007 9:50:45 AM

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One of my favorite examples of this was when my Sir had Uus photographed by a long time friend of His. Sir's friend (M) is semi-professional in this and had to travel to be with Uus. We did most of the photographs in a hotel room and spent all day doing so. Afterwards, as a complete surprise to me, i was told by Sir to pay for the work M had done, to allow M to use me as he wanted. Sir rested and watched tv on one of the beds and i went to 'work'. I would look over at Sir often and He would be watching me... and watching M, im guessing to make sure all was well. I felt safe.. I felt loved. Just before M placed himself inside me, doggy style.. i felt scared.. as i knew he wouldnt have 'protection' .. (Mind u i cannot get pregnant..still, i know) I looked over to Sir.. feeling unsure and wanted to make sure that was what He wanted... and the look in His eyes and the way i felt i will never forget. I submitted to what He wanted... I knew that Sir would not jeopordize my health or His, I trusted Him, and by doing this i was His. Later M and i were alone in the washroom, but i still felt very safe.

Feeling like property,currency, and being used well felt amazing. I felt so happy being able to do what i was meant to do... serve.

This is just my experience.. after being with said Sir for years... ymmv ;)

Experiences like this are the reason why i post on my profile that i am available for short term training/sessions etc...

amy

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/11/2007 9:55:44 AM

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I do not know but I am sure it immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night. ;)

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 1/11/2007 3:22:31 PM

alandraofMists

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My Lord has given me to others on numerous occasions, in both sexual situations and in D/s situations as well.

Depending on the person and what they want me for affects the pleasures i get from being shared. if the person is someone i am attracted to and that i like the feeling can be fun, relaxed and the time passes quickly. if it is someone that does not interest me or something that i do not like, the time moves more slowly and i am doing it only for the pleasure my Lord gets out of giving me away in those situations.

i get the most pleasure from knowing that He is enjoying sharing me with others more then i get from the sharing itself.

i have found being shared sexually brings out more of my sexually aggressive side, i have been given permission to be a slut and it is expected from me by my Lord.

In D/s situations, I have found that I learn and experience things that do not interest my Lord at this time and it broadens what I know and have experienced.

Knight's alandra

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 2/1/2007 3:46:46 PM

BiCpl4BiSlaves

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you can have all the fun you want and still protect yourself. if your Masters really cherish you, he would think about your safety if not his.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 2/2/2007 5:01:36 PM

Arastella

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Well I dunno what its like to be given to another man as I am a lesbian and my Mistress would never hand me over to a male. But Mistress has handed me over to other women before when She would either be away or unable to control me. It's exciting to me, everytime it's an adventure. And I think it's interesting because I learn how other Dommes work too so I know different styles.

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RE: What's it like to be 'given' to another man? - 2/3/2007 10:21:58 AM

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Greetings

Over the years i have served under Masters who would loan me out to cater or serve at parties which i was always more than willing to do as i knew it would be something that would make my master proud and i would always try my best to bring honor in all i did as His slave. As for being loaned out sexually, yes it has happened in the past. i know many slaves that are more than happy to serve their Masters in this way and many that enjoy it also. As for me, i have found myself in some situations that were very scary and unhealthy and can say if i was never loaned in this way again i would be more than happy. If my Master was to tell me today that He was loaning me out and it was to be in a sexual way would i do it? Yes of course as i am His to do with as He sees fit. Would i be happy about it? Not in this lifetime. i know me and it would bring back to many bad experiences and it would most likely take Him a while to get me back centered. i know if Master ever did this He would know and trust who i was with as other Masters did not over concern themselves of how i was treated He would. i think being loaned out is different for each person and as i said i know many who like it, i just happen to be one that has seen the bad side of it so it is not something i enjoy.

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